- How would my exes describe our relationship?
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- Bumble.
- I met them through their sister, whom I was dating.
- We met at a bar through their best friend.
They are no longer best friends. I am why.
- Who made the first move?
- Madel.
- I did.
- What was the move?
- Hey. I just said hey back.
- I took them on a three-day sex-capade.
- It was at a club. We went to the bathroom,
we were just waiting in line
and I just turned around and kissed them.
- My type is...
- Pretty, feminine. Slightly alternative.
- Feminine, for sure.
- Me. I'm pretty much their perfect type.
- Outgoing, sweet, black or brown girl. Big butt.
They were attracted to my...
- Their hair.
- Their body, their fluidity.
- The hair. We both have curly hair. So I was like,
that's cool that you just keep it that way
and you're natural. I, Like, kind of like that vibe.
- They thought my best physical feature was...
- Their butt.
- Their ass.
- They have a nice butt.
- My butt and my smile.
I thought their best best physical feature was...
- My butt.
- Breasts and my curves, to my back.
- My hair and my butt.
- Our first kiss was...
- At Central Park on our first date.
Definitely at the end of the date
after we both had had quite a bit to drink.
- Our first kiss was on our first date.
Everything was actually on our first date.
- At a club that I worked at.
She came with me to the bathroom.
I turned around and kissed them
and they kissed me back.
- We bonded the most over...
- Cartoon TV shows like "Rick and Morty"
and "Solar Opposites" and stuff like that.
- Sex.
- Weed. And art.
- We dated for...
- About two or three months during the pandemic.
- A year.
- Six months, I believe.
The situation was very messy from the beginning
and it ended kinda messy, too.
So I don't think we have any dates for anything.
- We broke up because...
- We were cuddling, all cute, and they asked me,
you know, so, what are you looking for?
And to be honest, I wasn't really ready to answer
that question in the first place.
I also did want to be with them.
So I told them, I want to be with you.
- But I wasn't looking for a whole-ass relationship.
- And I was just kind of like, okay?
And I made up some weird excuse to go home.
- I was trying to be honest.
- They were seeing someone else while we were still dating.
That's how it happened, and then I found someone else.
- Things were really crazy with Natalie,
it was just wild. It wasn't, like, a healthy relationship.
- Because they're insane. And they have
horrible anger issues.
- COVID. COVID killed our relationship.
My worst habit was...
- Up until that moment, nothing
really annoyed me about them.
- Messiness. My God. My God.
- Everything was everywhere. You couldn't even
go into their apartment without stepping
on something or tripping on something. It was horrible.
- I don't like cleaning up.
And their worst habit was...
- I'm pretty flighty.
- My OCD with people that are messy.
- I'm very non-affectionate and I act like
I don't like you when I really do.
- They hated my...
- Nothing I hated about them.
- Too much emotions that I wasn't able to be
responsible for at that point of my life.
- Their mom was, like, always there.
- My mom will literally come in
whenever the [beep] she felt like it.
It was like, ridiculous. I'm like,
you should pay my rent.
Were we in love?
- We probably could have gotten there.
- No, not me.
- I don't think I was, no.
I was in the love with Gina.
I got over the breakup after...
- I'm not too sure. I didn't look at their Instagram
or social media or anything.
- A couple weeks.
- Not long, obviously, because they were
already over it before we even broke up.
- Two or three months.
- They're not over it yet.
- Two or three months as well.
They got over the breakup after...
- An hour.
- After my seven stages of Dominican grief,
which was, you know, finding out where they were,
tapping into their phone's line,
going after their other [beep].
Destroying things in their apartment.
It was fine. It was like, what couple of days
afterwards? Like this. [snaps]
- A day? A second?
- The best picture of us is...
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- We loved to...
- Drink. And have sex.
- Have sex.
- They will love to come to work with me sometimes.
And I'm a dancer and a performer and they were my biggest
cheerleader and my biggest fan and my tip collector.
- I introduced them to...
- Manhattan. We went to Central Park a lot.
- The Shark multi-vacuum, er- vibrator 3000.
Still own it. Great tool.
- The importance of mental health.
- They introduced me to...
- They were the teacher so I'm not sure
if I really taught them anything.
- I introduced them to a whole other
level of their sexuality.
- More cultures. I'm Italian and Peruvian.
So there's a lot going on there.
- They knew my favorite food was...
- Anything Dominican, a lot of soup.
- Anything with steak.
- Dominican food.
- Sancocho or mangu.
We saw the movie...
- "Solar Opposites."
- "Dear White People." We watched so many movies
of ourselves too. Those were the best ones.
Just wanna say that.
- We watched a lot of all my exes all the time.
[laughs]
Our sex life was...
- It was really good.
- Amazing, bomb.com.
- Yeah, we did a lot of wild things together.
- It was good. They're very submissive.
So that works out for me because I'm very dominant.
- In the morning I would always...
- Make me food.
- Make coffee.
- Not wake up.
They thought my family was...
- I love them, I don't know why they hate me.
- I actually loved their family more than I love them.
- I could be better at...
- Communicating.
- To have lower expectations and not try to rush
into things, as well as clean your room.
- My relationship style is best described as...
- Very open, free-minded...
No strings. They don't want to feel trapped.
- Sexual. [laughs] Again, people,
I wasn't there for a long time just a good time.
- Clingy.
- I'm more monogamous type for sure.
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They know my celebrity crush is...
- Not a clue.
- I don't think they have one.
- Do I count as a celebrity?
- [Interviewer] Yeah.
- Me.
I don't really think like that,
but you know, Rihanna, right?
My favorite musician is...
- I have no idea.
- It was a Spanish artist, Ale- I forget the guy's name.
Alejandro Sans?
- I don't know.
- Ricardo Arjona.
My favorite sports team is...
- Anything New York.
- The Giants.
- I don't think they have one.
- The Giants.
They knew I love to travel to...
- Dominican Republic.
- DR.
- Dominican Republic.
They know I hate...
- On purpose misgendering.
- The way people squeeze the toothpaste tube
and just left it like that. You know, when you
squeeze it and you just kind of...
- They hate mean people.
- When someone squeezes the toothpaste from the top,
I think they're like a maniac. Who does that?
If I was a candy bar, I would be...
- Caramel. Sweet, sticky. Thank god.
- Ferrero Rocher, mm. Just bite in it.
So tender and soft and it melts in your mouth.
- Can we skip that one? I'll think about it.
- Anything fun size.
- My greatest skill is...
- Drawing, painting. Anything art.
- Very handy. With her mouth, too.
Very handy with her mouth.
- Painting with charcoal.
- To be able to connect with people.
My biggest fear...
- I don't think they're afraid of anything.
- Heights?
- Losing important people around them.
- To end up alone.
Who takes longer to get ready?
- Me.
- I do.
- They do.
- What? My hair, oh, my hair would take longer
than hers, but I have more hair than her.
One word that describes me best is...
- Unique.
- Sexual.
- Clingy.
- Awkward.
Who's more likely to win in an argument?
- Me.
- I am.
- Me.
- All of them. My sign is...
- Libra.
- We're both Libras.
- Libra gang.
- They want to be sure that everything,
their head and their heart is balanced
before they dive in. As for, I'm spontaneous, so...
- Kisk is a Sag.
- I think Sagittarius and Libras should be
friends and not date.
- Capricorn.
- They compliment each other well,
but not in a relationship.
- Gina's a Libra.
- I do not think that Libras should date each other at all.
- Will we date again?
- Probably.
- No.
- Hell no.
- I would not date any of them anymore.
They would say they miss my...
- Their cuddles.
- There's nothing to miss. Top of the fact that
we stay in communication. We're like our support systems.
So no, there's nothing to miss.
- They cook Dominican food. I miss that.
- I think they would tell my future partner...
- Be patient.
- Buckle up. It's going to be an emotional ride.
[laughs]
- Run. Fast. Don't look back.
- What am I looking for?
- They definitely have to be open-minded,
that's almost number one. They have to be
outgoing. They like to go out and
they're fairly family-oriented.
- To be understood and heard.
- Someone that's going to baby them.
Just be up under them 24/7.
- I'm looking for someone to be my person.
You know, someone I can go to, someone
I can depend on, some stability.
I'm actually dating somebody right now. So, you know, cross.
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