Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. On today's video
we're gonna be answering the question; is she being friendly? Is she flirting with
you? Is she interested? Is she just being nice? How can you tell the difference?
I got inspired because I got a question here that I'm gonna tell you
right now that made me think wow I don't think guys really understand what's
going on. Here's the question. This guy said a girl I just met at work for the
first time touched me on the arm. Is she just being friendly? She asked me my age
and then said "Oh, I thought I was going to be the oldest." She tells me her age
after and we are the same age and she laughed then touched my arm.
This happens a lot. We end up meeting girls. Maybe at work, maybe through friends,
maybe out and about and you can't really tell if they're interested in you
because they might flirt. People are flirty, women are flirty. They might
be touching your arm. They might be giving you compliments and we can't tell.
Is this girl into me or not? Well first of all, you have to understand this.
Very important. One of the reasons why you're probably thinking about this and
you're always looking for signs is because you're trying not to get
rejected. You want those signs because you want to make sure she's interested
in you so you don't have to deal with that potential rejection if you go for her.
And I bet you right now you're making that click in your brain and
saying "Ah yeah. Tripp's right." So if you think I'm right, which I am in this case,
write down in the comments below "Tripp you're right." And I know I am because you
don't need those signs. Why would you need those signs. Think about it.
Why would you need the signs that someone is interested in you? Because it's
very possible that they don't give you any signs but they're still interested
in you. Some girls are just flirty a lot and some girls are not. Some girls don't
know how to do it. But are you just waiting for all those signs so then you
can know if she likes you? I just don't understand the power behind knowing if
she's interested or not because there's nothing you can
really do with it. You still might be able to get a girl on a date or to meet
up with you or to continue seeing her even if she shows zero signs. This happens all
the time. This happens a lot too with shy girls. Sometimes you're talking to a girl
who's very shy. You know what happens with shy girls? Sometimes they act the
exact opposite. Sometimes they're a little bit well they appear a
little bit more cold and rude because they're not really answering your
questions or they're looking away or they're not, they don't seem
that interested. But it's only because she's shy. So I want you to throw
the idea out of your head that you need to look for the sign she's interested
or even understand if she's being friendly or if she's flirting with you
or if she likes you or if she doesn't like you. Just throw it all out because
it's a waste of your time. I get it. It's nice to get that. It's nice to get
those signs. It feels good. It feels good when a girl is
interested. All that great stuff. But you need to throw it out the window and just
be dominant and still go for it. So this guy who asked this question "Well
she touched my arm and she asked me about my age." Again great, but still if
you're interested in her, you should just ask her out. You should just go for it.
You really have nothing to lose. Nothing to lose at all. If it doesn't work out,
you'll be in the same exact spot you are right now without her.
Stop being so careful about tip-toeing around the idea of preserving your ego
so you don't get rejected. Forget that. Get rejected. Most of the time
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You said the wrong thing. This is the only way to learn. You have to learn this way.
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