part of the stages of becoming a man is stepping out of your comfort zone doing
things that is uncomfortable to you that is gonna make you stronger this video
actually goes out to one of my subscribers and he asked me what can you
do to build confidence when you are with a girl and you have let's get into it
man this is so embarrassing to admit it but you came to the right place if you
are in this situation if you are embarrassed about your woody the
woodpecker no longer pecking then I can relate all right honey should I give you
guys a story how it happens yeah it's pretty self-explanatory okay so it
happened to me all right Pia I II D that's what it is soak it all
in all right fellas soak it in it's real before I get into the solution on how to
get confidence with this let's talk about what causes it what causes it that
causes it the reason being is because whenever the human body does something
often repetitively alright it becomes a habit it becomes almost like muscle
memory I'm sure you guys already heard about that term muscle memory when
somebody just does something automatic you know I'm saying it doesn't even take
much brain power to do it it just goes into action if you stop doing it for a
long time muscle memory bang you're back on track to doing it just like how you
used to do when we condition ourselves to PMO we are conditioning our body and
our brain to only be sexually aroused through visual stimuli on a computer so
there is instances where some guys are so conditioned through PMO that when
they are with their first girlfriend or the crush of their lives they can no
longer get and in order for them to get it up they
have to mentally vision watching a computer screen and looking at their
favorite site just to get aroused that's kind of that's man that's so sad
isn't it that's sad and it's real it's a true story guys it's an actual thing I
know that there's some of you that's watching it and you're like what the
Frick that's not real that can't be true and then there's some of you who are
watching that are like damn it that's true and I hate to admit it it's
embarrassing so first step in having piee d is definitely to get on the end
ofa P you know I'm saying you thought what n o f AP hey you know me okay that
should definitely be like a parody song the first step is definitely to get
knowledge on know that the first step to overcoming IDI is by understanding what
caused it when you understand what caused a the next step is to find ways
to reverse it the wonderful thing about the brain is that it's it's neuro
plastic I forgot the word it's like it's able to rewire neuroplasticity that's
the word I have before so before no FAP you are conditioning your brain to act a
certain way to get aroused a certain way alright to only find pleasure or sexual
pleasure through p.m. oh so that's how your brain is wired right now when you
stop doing that your brain is gonna rewire kind of start
you again kind of like how it was before you started vaping two websites how long
will it take it all varies sorry to say it guys it all varies some guys it just
takes a month some guys takes three months sometimes it takes longer alright
but here's the one thing it's not gonna happen in a day it's not gonna happen
overnight so what do you do if it doesn't happen overnight you freaking
start now alright you start now you don't look for complete concrete answers
you start now because it benefits you now okay
people who look for definite answers before they actually start to do
something that's progressive for them is fearful people all right there there's
scared they're scared to change the routine that they're in they're scared
to step out of their comfort zone okay don't be that pussy who is like that
part of the stages of becoming a man is stepping out of your comfort zone doing
things that is uncomfortable to you that is gonna make you stronger alright now
that we know what to do and how to fix the IDI how can you build the confidence
when you're with a girl I'm kind of excited to say this but here it is man
is to be honest all right if you like this girl be honest with her if she's
worth your time be honest with her let her know that you are going through this
okay they you are overcoming an addiction and that you are trying to
better yourself all right and if she is a girl that is worth your
time she would understand that she would acknowledge that she would honestly love
that she would probably get turned on by the fact that you are doing something
that's better for you that you are working on improving yourself then again
if she's just one of those doggies who just wants a quick dick then why are you
even messing with her all right you're on the road to becoming a high value man
why mess with low value women ask yourself that alright so if you're
messing with a high value girl you are becoming a high value man be honest with
this girl alright let her know that you are going through this you are healing
your brain from abusive content and that you are rewiring your brain rewiring
your personality to enjoy women authentically not through a computer
screen okay and she's most likely gonna understand that and you you are gonna
actually become more comfortable with her with the fact that you can be honest
with her and the fact that she acknowledges it and appreciates your
honesty that it actually takes away the pressure of trying to bring it up that
when it finally does happen it's gonna be more meaningful it's gonna be more
special it's gonna be more than just they
I say fucking it's probably gonna be an act of making love and that's what you
want all in all right whoo man yeah man I just want to thank you so much for
commenting on one of my videos and asking me that question which led me to
make this video and I hope you guys got something from it I hope that it was
inspiring a hope it helped you to become a better man well if you did like what
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