Can NLP help you create the life that you
desire? Stay tuned. This is damon from NLP
Gym. Why even learn neuro-linguistic
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regular basis. I had a professor in college
who taught a course called the
philosophy of psychology and in the
course he taught various forms of
therapy starting with Sigmund Freud's
psychoanalysis and also Gestalt therapy
hypnosis and NLP he favored NLP because
he felt like it brought the best of
everything and it was also about
modeling so it's about taking what we
already have what we're already doing
what's already working and apply it to
the parts of us that are not working as
well as we'd like them to work that was
my first taste of NLP and I volunteered
for demonstrations when he would do them
and I found these life-changing and
eye-opening and I want to learn NLP from
that from right then and there wasn't
anyplace i was really teaching it was
also a college kids but it wasn't making
a lot of money
jump forward a few years and I've fallen
into a depression and I called on my
professor because I didn't have
insurance they didn't have a way to pay
a therapist to help me and he told me
basically that he didn't need my money
and that every time I came to see him he
I would need to give money to charity or
any to volunteer for community service
hours going to come back next week in
one session my depression was over in
one session he discovered there was a
conflict that I was dealing with and he
helped guide me through resolving a
conflict and it was extraordinary
I wanted to learn LP but i didn't have
really the means or the money to go and
do it so forward several more years and
iphone into depression again I go see a
psychologist it takes an entire year to
sort of come up to the surface level and
I knew just like my physical health that
if I stopped doing something about my
mental health
I was going to slide right back into
depression i was going to cultivate all
these problems all over again because I
hadn't really gotten to the source of
what was creating problems so i signed
up for my first NLP training and things
change rapidly ever since
so while learning NLP we go through life
finding things that work for us we find
our route to work around to the grocery
store around to where we're going and it
works for us we find maybe a certain way
of eating we find a certain way of
exercising we find different ways of
things that work for us we find
television shows and entertain us we
find movies that we like having good
healthy practices both physically and
mentally is so important and
weightlifting for one person might my
work for them and it might not work for
someone else meaning it doesn't do a
whole lot for them
of course it will have the physical
effects but maybe it's just not their
thing so maybe they need yoga maybe they
need taichi and the same thing goes for
a mental practice very few people
actually engage in a mental practice
like meditation like writing
NLP is an incredible mental practice now
you don't have to make a practice you
can go to a training you can have some
amazing experiences you can learn some
techniques and processes that will help
you in certain areas of your life to me
though if you're if you only do that
you're missing out on something huge NLP
is basically neuro-linguistic
programming it is how you create your
reality it is how the software within
you is creating your reality before NLP
it was kind of haphazard we just sort of
had our lives we had our problems we had
our limitations and we just accepted
them
NLP is all about bringing these
processors to into consciousness so that
now we have a choice about it now we can
change these things and when you bring
these things in a consciousness you
start to run the software instead of the
software running you and that's the
program and NLP neuro-linguistic
programming you have all these programs
that are running you created all these
programs to achieve certain things in
your life or goals or even just
surviving just eating just getting to
work you have all these programs that
are running some of them have been
created since you were a child haven't
been updated ever since so it's bringing
all this into your consciousness so that
you can then alter it
so what really separates you from
someone who's really successful or
someone who's enjoying the kind of life
that you would love to live what it
comes down to it it's really about the
programming there are some genetic some
physical things that yes are different
from person to person but that's
actually very small when you start
learning an NLP you start to realize that
really your internal programming how you
create your reality has so much more to
do with your happiness the way that you
enjoy life the way that you succeed in
life i tell people often NLP won't make
you happy and I stand by that just like
yoga won't make you happy
weightlifting will make you happy
running what makes you happy
religion won't make you happy any system
that constantly brings you back to
yourself or any practice that constantly
brings you back to yourself is going to
be an effective practice and guiding you
back to your own inner happiness
you're not going to find happiness and
success outside of yourself
it's really it starts all here we can do
we can learn NLP and we can learn all
these other practices but if we're still
focused so outwardly not acknowledging
what's inside
you're never going to get to that place
of total fulfillment and happiness
so none of these methods none of these
systems ultimately will make you happy
only you can make you happy but it's
important to have really good practices
they keep bringing you back to who you
are
keep grounding you keep tapping into
your potential actualizing your
potential fulfilling your potential this
is a very important to your well-being
in your overall fulfillment and how
penis NOP for me has been the most
effective system and practice that
tapping into my potential fulfilling my
values and becoming the me that I know
myself to be and to actualize myself and
my potential i can tell you who
NLP doesn't work for and healthy doesn't
work for people who don't have desire
Robert Dilts says often when he's
lecturing if you don't want anything
NLP really can't help you so if you're
not interested and actually actualizing
your desires fulfilling your desires
will have desires smokers are interested
in fulfilling them and some of us not so
much if you're not interested
NLP is not for you if you interested in
making your desires a reality fulfilling
those those desires fulfilling your
values and how people work for you and
it is a great practice for you check out
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