There is an ancient and time tested technique that is going
to give you explosive mind blowing orgasms, and can help
you to boost stamina last longer in bed, be a better lover, and
it's going to make you a legend in the eyes of any woman that
you sleep with. That process is called edging. And in today's
video, I'm going to tell you everything you need to know to
start edging tonight, and I'm going to share with you my five
step process for using edging to last longer in bed. Then I'm
going to give you a step by step guide to edging your woman, thus
giving her the best orgasms of her life. Sounds like a plan.
Excellent.
I am Caitlin V, sex and relationship coach and make sure
that you are following me on Instagram and on tik tok where I
deliver sex advice that is going to cause you to have to scrape
your woman off of the ceiling every single day. First of all,
what is edging? What are we talking about here because it is
not the process of like attaching frilly lace onto the
edge of your outfit or attaching that like wavy wobbly pattern
that the craft scissors make onto the edge of your scrapbook
edging as we are talking about it here is the practice of
getting close to the point of orgasm, and then backing off. It
is getting close to the edge without falling over and then
repeating until you eventually do allow yourself to fall over
and then having an explosive orgasm. And that edge itself is
often called the point of no return or the point of
ejaculatory inevitability. If you have genitals that ejaculate
that sexy science term is for you. edging is usually practiced
during solo sex, but it can actually be used during partner
and sex to cause blown mines and soak bedsheets. And because the
process of edging allows for stimulation to build up in our
nerve endings, as well as in our minds in the form of
anticipation. It improves the experience of having an orgasm
dramatically. So if you thought orgasms were already amazing,
like they were already like, I don't know, banana split, then
add, I don't know, six more toppings and some of the like
edible glitter flakes and additional sprinkles. But then
also, you're eating this banana split while looking at the most
beautiful sunset on the most perfect beach surrounded by six
of your dream lovers who are giving you a 12 handed massage.
As you devour this split. That is what
that orgasm feels like. It's that good. And the experience of
orgasm is improved by edging no matter what genitals you have no
matter what kind of orgasm you have. So it truly is a win win.
Now, does edging help men last longer before ejaculating? Well,
the answer is yes, it can if it is practiced in a deliberate
way. Many men use edging to last longer, especially if they are
familiar with may come when you want course. But they have to in
order to make it really effective. Stay tapped into
what's going on in side of their body. If you don't stay inside
of your body, then it's going to be hard for you to translate
your learnings in departments x. And one of the major questions
that I get from guys who are watching my channel go, Caitlin,
I tried all of the techniques from your free content on
YouTube. And it's it's getting better but every time I go to
have sex with my woman I bust immediately. Well, this is part
of translating what you're learning in your solo practice
over to your partner in practice. I'm going to talk
about that in just a second. But the bottom line is that if you
want to last longer embed edging is an important part of that
practice, because it involves getting close to the edge
without going over, which helps men to build awareness of their
particular point of no return. You see, the more closely a man
can identify his individual point of no return, the better
he is able to gauge his own arousal during partner and sex.
In other words, he knows when he is about to bust and so he can
make adjustments during partner and sex then allow for his
arousal level to decrease. He can take a break, he can change
positions, he can switch to going down on her and this
allows him to last longer without ejaculating. Alright,
without further ado, the five steps to using edging to last
longer in bed. Number one keep track of your time and set
goals. You need to know how long you are lasting in order to be
able to objectively say that edging is helping you last
longer tracking data is the only way to know that you are
actually moving the needle with what you are doing. So the next
time that you masturbate don't do anything different than what
you usually do, just set a timer and stop it when you ejaculate,
and that is your baseline time. If your baseline time is under
10 minutes, maybe you want to get to 10 minutes. If it's over
10, maybe you want to make it 15 or 20. Never to get familiar
with your point of no return. And don't worry if you go over
it from time to time part of the process is just learning about
yourself. And so don't beat yourself up. If every so often
you're like, Oh, I thought I stopped it in time, but the
great flooded started cracking is released. No big deal. You
can try again tomorrow. Number three, start slowly. When you
start to touch yourself. Begin by slowly and steadily building
your arousal. If you're think about how firmly and quickly
you're going to move your hand towards the end, start at less
than half of that firmness, less than half of that speed and
build up to it. Number four. Once you start getting close to
your point of no return, stop, cool off. Allow your arousal to
naturally decrease and then start again. Step Five. Repeat
this three to four times before allowing yourself to ejaculate.
I do not recommend that you go over four times, a lot of men
will find that they end up with some discomfort or even some
pain or even the dreaded blue balls. If they edge themselves
too many times in a single session. Ideally, instead of
stopping entirely you get so good and knowing where your
edges that you can pay attention to where she is in her process.
And you can slow down change positions. Use my shallow
thrusting technique. check out that video when you're done with
this one. And of course, you can always switch to pleasuring her
orally with your mouth or manually with your fingers. If
you typically masturbate to porn like 99.9% of every dude out
there, I recommend that you start this practice without
porn, and then gradually introduce it back
in.
And that's only if you're finding that you're actually
getting the results that you're looking for. If you are edging,
but you're still not able to last as long as you want,
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Alright,
you've been so good and I'm about to reward you. Here is how
to edge your partner to give her amazing orgasms because if
you've ever tried edging for yourself, and if you have,
please write in the comments and say yes, Kaitlyn I have seen the
edge and it was glorious. If you tried it for yourself, you know
it's amazing. Okay, how to give her a bone crushing orgasm.
Number one,
you've got to be familiar with the signs of her orgasm. If
you've never had sex with this woman before if you don't even
know if she can orgasm through sex, not the time to practice
edging it's got to be someone who you can tell when she's
about organ you had sex with her enough or she's at least obvious
enough about it that you know for sure the telltale signs and
those signs can include her breathing getting quicker and
shallow. It can include for not all women, but for some turning
pink the flesh on the cheeks of flesh across the chest, there
can be changes to the vulva. So her vulva, the external genital
her lips might start to look different or smell differently,
she might start squeezing you as her pelvic floor muscles. So
that's the intensity of the squeeze towards the entrance of
her vagina. These are all indications there are a lot more
indications. It's really just about knowing the woman that
you're with, or you can tell her to tell you when she's about to
come. Say Hey, when you get close to orgasm with enough time
for me to make an adjustment. Let me know her letting you know
right when she's about to come is not going to help with this
process. If she lets you know like, right at the minute that
she's going over the edge, it was too late. So you've got to
figure out when is just enough time that she's close, but she's
not about to go over. Same as it works for your body number to
stimulate her until you see those signs. So keep going until
you see some of those familiar signs. And then number three,
once you see them back off, let her cool down. And she does not
know what you were doing which she likely won't. She should
look at least slightly surprised maybe even disappointed. Maybe
even angry. She has a hard time orgasm. If she can't reach
orgasm regularly, she's probably not the right person to try this
time, because she might get really angry and feel like that
orgasm just disappeared. So ideally, you know her well
enough that you're gonna say, hey, Chelsea orgasms gonna come
back,
I promise you, I'm
still here with you we've got all night or if she's multi
orgasmic, and you know that she can have multiple orgasm, try
this on the second orgasm or the third. She's already had one.
And so that sense of like, anger and what the heck are you doing
will be hopefully mitigated. Alright, so you've given her a
second to cool off and calm down. Maybe you switch to like
nibbling the inside of her thighs, or you switch to like
just making some eye contact and breathing while like holding
yourself still inside of her.
But you gave her arousal an opportunity to drop. That brings
me to step number four, which is start again, go back to what you
were doing go
back to going down on her go back to the thrusting pattern
that you were using a moment before and get her really close
look for those signs of orgasms. And then when she gets close to
orgasming Back off, let her arousal, come back down. By now
you will have a pretty agitated woman on your hands. She's gonna
be looking at you like bro, what is your deal? Why are you using
me like this? Repeat that a few more times. Unless she looks
like she's earnestly going to smack you in the face. Keep
going. And then when she's not expecting it, because you've
just extra two to three times. Go for it. When she starts to do
all those. The signs keep going do not stop take her all the way
over the edge down the cliff around the band like one of
those guys in the squirrel costumes that like flies down
the side of the mountain. Imagine that you're the costume,
I guess. Yeah, you're the costume. In this analogy. You're
the squirrel suit and she is the passenger on this ride and you
are going to safely get her all the way down to the bottom of
the mountain. Which brings me to number six, which is scraped her
off of the ceiling. No, just kidding. She is going to need to
be grounded. The orgasm that you just gave her is not like a
typical orgasm. It is not like the orgasm that she typically
has, which is like, Oh, I feel good. And then we just like keep
going. No, you did something special and it needs to be
treated as such. And she's going to need your help grounding her
orgasm now. And then you don't expect her to just
jump back on
your dick and keep going. You give her a minute to really
savor what's just happened. Please make sure right now that
you are subscribed to this channel because I have literally
lost consciousness after one of these orgasms and you are not
going to want to miss the opportunity to give your partner
an orgasm so good that she blacks out. Okay, a couple more
of the benefits of edging, delayed gratification think
about edging as making investments in the orgasm bank,
delayed gratification of all kinds, even if it's like passing
up on chocolate because you're on this diet and then looking at
yourself in the mirror later like Oh, that's right, I delayed
all that gratification. And now I look amazing. Although I'm pro
chocolate, anyone will tell you that. Anytime that you have
saved up for something and then had it pay off, you know how
awesome it feels for going the instant gratification of a quick
orgasm. In exchange for a bigger more explosive, more pleasurable
orgasm can boost your confidence as a lover. It increases your
grit and your ability to withstand discomfort but it does
it in the most pleasurable way, way more pleasurable than like
skipping dessert. This can also improve our opinions about sex
itself because if she's used to in particular or you're used to
having these little like genital sneeze orgasms where it's like,
oh, that felt great, like yeah, sneezing does feel good if you
have a tickle in your nose and then you sneeze but I want you
to have the sunset Banana Split Bonanza orgasm and that is very
different than the sneeze itself. And finally of course
edging boosts the feel good sensations of orgasming body,
mind, soul, heart, everything. It is a complete and awesome
experience. All right, edging one of the most satisfying tools
in your sexual Arsenal if you are not already using it or you
used to use a new thought and practice, get it back in there,
dust off the rest and start putting into practice today.
I've been Caitlin V. Thank you so much for subscribing to my
channel and I will see you here later.