Привет из Затоки! So greetings from Zatoka which is a small seaside resort
close to Odessa in the south of Ukraine and in today's video I'm gonna be explaining a
little bit about why you cannot do it all yourself when you come here to whether
happens to be Ukraine Belarus or Russia and you want to date local beautiful
sincere and honest women if you try to do it all yourself
I saw another self help self development guru say dumbest idea ever and it also
applies to this let me give you a little bit of an example about how trying to do
it all yourself just doesn't make sense that is this YouTube channel that you're
watching because when I started off on YouTube I did literally everything
myself and that meant I had an enormous learning curve and what did I do I spent
years doing everything pretty pretty poorly and that's why you cannot find
most of my early videos now on YouTube because I just had to delete there they were that
bad and what did I change basically I went out and I did what other what self
development gurus tell you in general which is kind of the buzz words are like
get a mentor and a community that you can learn from because a mentor is
someone a good mentor is going to be the person who has already got to the level
that you wish to also achieve and go to so they've already spent the years doing
the hard work to figure all this out and then you can tap into their advice their
experience and actually just do that a lot quicker in love and dramatically
increase your chances of success I also think community is important helping
people who work in the same stuff because obviously even if they haven't
made it there yet you can also learn from them and that is also very
motivating so that's what basically I have done a lot of in the last few years
that's why the quality on this channel you're sure you're grateful that is a
lot bigger than it was when I started off in the beginning for the first
couple of years now coming to Ukraine which is you know we're not in scammer
central Odessa we're just two hours away at the moment we're at this seaside resort but
basically most guys the overwhelming majority would fail miserably when they
come here and they want to date beautiful local women who are
sincere and genuine and they're not obviously scammers or gold diggers and I
know this because I meet these guys all the time I look at you know my friends
who come here my clients obviously well it's a bit
different it's obviously very different with my clients because obviously they
are under my tutelage and of course all the other tourists and travelers who I meet
here in person who come up to me in the street and tell me their stories and of
course all of those who contact me online what happens to be consulting
classes we could just reach out and drop comments below the video is here and
that is that most guys fail overwhelming majority of them fail so it is not that
easy when you come here there you have to understand the mentality you are not
back home wherever that happens to be you are in Ukraine the culture is
different the dating culture is dramatically different the gender roles
and how you have to lead and be assertive is very very different there's
going to be a lot of traps and pitfalls that you have never experienced before
it's like when you know you go travelling for the first time and maybe
you get into a taxi now I know we have the taxi apps so it reduces the risk of
fraud but a lot of countries when you've been travelling taxi driver meters not
running we've all who's traveled you know you can probably get caught out by
them in the very beginning the first few times because just haven't been exposed
to that kind of scam before or that kind of difficulty that you have overcome
then you get some experience and it's very unlikely you're gonna get you know
caught out by it again but you had to go through that process but wouldn't be
great if you could do this already have done some training beforehand that would
actually allow you to come here and hit the ground running and not have to go
through that long learning process and that is exactly why you need a mentor
and a community around you when you come here because if not it's gonna cost you
a lot of time like I came here for the first time over ten years ago so you
don't want to be spending ten years we're gonna especially if say you're you
know hitting your peak as a guy you like you're over 35 or 35 to say 45 you don't
wanna spend 10 years your peak years on the dating market because we
talk about men you know hitting their peak in
general they have their highest sexual marketplace value between the ages of 35
and 45 for women it has to be a lot younger it tends meet 20 and 25 in general
overall of course it can obviously vary depending on the individual but you
don't want to spend the best 10 years or maybe your last few years figuring all
this out that's madness and if you're under 35 well you have more time it's a
little bit easier but you know do you want to spend 10 years figuring out or do
you want to spend a few months figuring all this stuff out that is the big
advantage of getting a mentor and a community behind you really accelerate
that learning the other obvious cost is the cost itself financially because
coming here and I give you an example of you know a taxi driver and that's gonna
be pretty minor most of the time it can't really guess a scam in a taxi
it can't be more than hundred you know US dollars and probably anywhere in the
world but coming to a place like Ukraine obviously I have my ScamBuster boot
camp you know scams can run up to we've seen examples where guys were scammed
out of over three hundred thousand dollars and even if they're not
technically scam there is actually on this US program 90-day fiancé at the
moment TLC a guy who spent over three hundred thousand dollars well yeah
actually two hundred fifty to a little bit over three hundred thousand not sure
exactly how much they spent looking for love here in Eastern Europe so can be
extremely expensive if you don't know what you're doing because either you
just spend a lot of time on you know what are essentially scam websites or
maybe you meet a girl and she turns out to be a gold digger and not interested
in you and eventually at some stage she just like dumps you and goes off with
someone else having spent all your money or you invested a huge amount of money
into the relationship on top of that there is of course the emotional pain
because no one feels good about being taken advantage of or you know having a
humiliating experience because you didn't understand the cultural differences and
that is something that of course you can avoid if you know what the steps you
should be taking all along the way so wouldn't it be great
if there was a way to get a mentor and the community behind you for coming here
to Eastern Europe and meeting and dating successfully the beautiful sincere and
honest women here now when I came to you came for the first time was about 12
years ago and there definitely was not that kind of service available you have
these marriage agencies dating sites matchmakers and most of them are I've
already exposed for enough being places where you kind of have another
success because it basically many of them are scams but today there is an
alternative and that alternative I am super pumped because I announced it
a few days ago and that is my Slavic seduction secrets online live boot camp
which will be starting this Sunday on the 5th of July and in this you're gonna
learn what I wish I've been able to learn without having invested 10 years and a lot
of money of my life here in Eastern Europe we're gonna dive deep into the
dating mentality differences here and things need to watch out for we're gonna
design for example we're gonna design for you how to have a power itinerary for
when you come and some of this maybe even seem a little bit almost trivial
like I remember when my good friend Jan he's been here on the channel few times
it's about it's probably about seven years ago maybe even eight years ago now
he came to Odessa and I remember he went down he was supposed to leave and we've
been up partying the night before and when I woke up at ok he's gone he's
worked out his train he's probably on his way to Kiev I wrote him a message hey do you catch
the train he wrote back no I'm still in the train station I wasn't able to order a
ticket because he didn't speak Russian and he didn't understand that at the
time you couldn't order tickets online or anything like that in Ukraine so you
had to go up to the counter and get a train ticket and no one could
understand him I mean if he least thought ahead and say ok I get someone
to write it down for me or google translate it out but basically he wasn't
able to communicate there and that seemed that's pretty trivial not be able
to buy a train ticket I had to go and you know go down to the train station and help him
help him get the ticket these kind of things for power itinerary
are you know this kind of practical stuff we're gonna be making sure that
you don't have to waste time focusing on this when you get here I will see you
then we're also gonna pick out the cities you're gonna give a very good
idea of what cities are gonna be the best for you we have a strategy for that
for planning your trip to Eastern Europe so you don't go to the place which is
not going to you know be very rewarding for you in that region you're gonna
learn how to organize the perfect date so that you can always be more
successful on your dates gonna learn how to stand out from the local competition
is that are guys who are serious competition in Eastern Europe most foreigners
don't realize that before they come you understand why they are serious
competition and you're gonna know how to stand out from all the hordes of the
horny guys who come here to the city like Odessa further up the coast every
summer hunting for their girls you're gonna know how to stand out from the
competition and that is obviously going to put you in a way higher position and
definitely help you a lot in terms of expanding those dating options for you
you're gonna learn how to close the deal effectively by escalating sexual tension
and winning her heart and you're gonna know I'm gonna teach you a test that you
can use in order to check if a girl is sincere about wanting a long-term
relationship with you obviously that's after you have created a relationship
together so I'm super super excited and pumped to have this opportunity to help
you create this community because obviously they're gonna be like-minded
guys also partaking in the boot camp I had my first live on online boot camp
scam buster about two months back we started it and
we used the time obviously during the quarantine you should check out my video
about how Ukraine is now open and also Belarus I have that from about three or
four days here on the channel you know I'll put it in the card if you haven't
seen that one so it's open here as you can see probably a little bit behind me
there are people walking around people enjoying what was the sunshine until
about an hour ago here it's actually gonna be thirty thirty two degrees
Celsius in Ukraine for the rest of the week it's gonna be sunny I'm gonna be
partying hard on the shores of the Black Sea up in Odessa so this is the moment
to come also because there haven't been so many foreigners here this summer so it's
definitely you know invest a little bit of time
over the next few weeks boot camp starts on Sunday it's gonna be seven live
streams so we'll be wrapping it up at the end of the month you can have a
chance to ask me those questions that have been burning in the back of your
brain about dating in Eastern Europe we're gonna have a plan we're gonna get
you set up and you will not have to do everything yourself so there is because
you've obviously want to know how you can get in on the slavic seduction
secrets boot camp it's only open to my loyal fans that means guys who are on my
mailing list and how do you get on that i'm gonna put a link below in the
description to this video below there and actually as a thank you
there's gonna be my checklist I've decided just to leave it there you type in your
email address and you get my checklist my free checklist for 5 biggest mistakes
made by foreign guys when they come here to Eastern Europe and they go on dates
with the beautiful local women definitely wanna be making any of those
is already good to front-load of a little bit that education go do that and then
you're gonna get a link from me where you can go and check out the boot camp
and we will see each other very soon we'll see each other this Sunday that's
when it kicks off so you need to go and uh yeah enroll because we're almost open
see very soon in the next video до побачення до свидания from Ukraine and
I don't know if you can actually make out the Ukrainian flags in the
background there are actually a lot of them here because it's a national holiday Ciao!