hey guys! my name is Victor and this is Grace
I'm canadian and I'm taiwanese
today's video we want to talk about some
dating experience with some stereotype of asian girls
yup
so from your experience and from my western friends have ever asked me
i want to know about let's say four or five things
to see if it's true yeah from your experience
shoot!
i'd love to answer
okay first.. are asian girls more clingy?
clingy?
yeah like need more time with their other half
but westerner will be more independent. is it true?
just a disclaimer before i answer everything not everyone is the same! okay?
our asian goes more clingy? i would say based on my experience
yes.
oops is it my fault?
i would say it's in a good way though because
number one, i actually prefer it rather than you know
not reciprocating anything from my partner
so if you were like not that clingy, just a comparison, i'd be like..
is there something wrong? does she really want to spend time with me?
but then if someone's clingy not to the point that it's over clingy
it's just you know like a good amount of clingy
it's like oh i feel good because she really wants
to spend time with me
yes
and like she wants to be with me at a certain time
some westerners won't like it because
it's like hey i want to spend time with you
did I do that?
no i'm just
like i want to spend time with you
and all that stuff and they'll be like
no like i have things to do like go
yeah exactly like everyone's different but for me it's a good thing
you hear something from them like
i thought I'm dependent
don't ask me for.. well you're different i'm not
going i'm not gonna ask you anymore spend with me
you have another juicy one?
this is not juicy but
do we take too many selfies?
yes
so many pictures
let's take a selfie here
oh my god everywhere you go there's pictures
pictures
you like to take pictures!
i love to take pictures
but he doesn't want to take selfies
i can't do selfies though
yeah we! Weird right?
I'm the selfie...
anyways it's not an issue to me
because i love taking pictures
but i'm sure it's different for other guys out there
not just guys, my british friends, my classmates
grace, really again? another selfie? why not? sure but really another one?
yeah we're in different locations yo
yo mate
do asian girls care about food a lot like when you guys go dating..
sometimes it could be a pain in the ass
tell me about the past experience it's
not it's not like a pain in the ass but like
that's good it's like you want different you want different cuisines
western, japanese, korean, taiwanese, you know
whatever it is like every single time is different so
it's like every single time you go out with them it's like
oh i'm experiencing something new
oh i think why i will put it in that way
like the pain in the ass is because when my
when my foreign friends, westerner friends, when they go over on a date he will say
let's have a burger today and she'll be like we just had breakfast last week it's a
it's been a week but for themselves so it's been a week
yeah but for us we just had a burger why we have to
what do you what would you like to have
the same food again
no that's true
we won't do it they say we we want to
have like different cuisine every day
i would just say that westerners are not
not all of them uh western girls are not open to all the cuisines
like their their selection of food varies like very european and western
and then the asian cuisine would be more like
you know your typical chinese food your typical take out food
thai food like pad thai which has been westernized as well
like all of that stuff like it's all...
you know, you can't really go outside of that realm
it's the same thing over and over again you go to a fancy restaurant and it's
still pad thai and i mean
it better be a good pad thai
maybe maybe
it's just like less selection like than they would prefer
number four
this one i don't know i don't want to be the judge.. they say
they asked me if it's true like you say
asian girls like to be cute or pretend they're pretending oh baby
you know
i would say yeah
use baby voice and pretend they're still like a kid
yeah i would say more than western girls
yes
like you do see you do see that in western girls but to the point that uh i would say if
a western guy comes into asia and realizes this
he would think oh
they're weird like it would be like too childish for them yeah
my friend was like..
am i dating a seven years old girl why you need to use
the voice to talk to me
yeah like girls in canada are like that sometimes
but to a point that there's a limit oh so
can i use something to talk to you?? i can't
good try
im not violent..
okay this is a very difficult one
shoot
from our experience or from other other
people's experience as you see.. like asian girls
would ask your commitment earlier than westerners
we want to see if you commit to this relationship
and we'll have family with us you know what you know what I mean?
i want to be serious
yeah i think that's a good stereotype
again like i think it's part of the culture
but i would rather prefer that than trying to gauge, hey like are we
is it going somewhere or is it just like you know a fling
you never know until
you actually talk to them and then most of the time when you talk to them
it's like eh that's date but like you know
put labels on it we can say girlfriend boyfriend
you know if you're dating it's not like you're serious
but if you're dating with an asian girl it's like you're actually in a relationship
here's the difference saying i guess the same with asian, right?
but the difference is that the actual feeling
so with asians, correct me if i'm wrong, with asians you go on seeing someone is
like oh okay we're going to date like and we'll see
and if you commit to each other that's when you start really
feeling something right? and that's when you know it's serious
but for westerners it's different you go seeing someone
to check if like oh maybe they're compatible with me maybe you're good dating and go from there
and you're dating already exclusive but
that doesn't mean that they love each other
that doesn't mean commitment
They are still committed but that doesn't mean they love each other they have feelings
for each other like maybe it's starting to grow
but it's not as strong
there's a stage between yeah
it's not as strong
i think that's the major difference and then obviously when you're dating
like feelings grow and then that's the major difference between
dating stages in western society
gotcha so there's three stages
yeah well four because seeing someone, dating someone, commitment, and then family
and we are more like three stages gotcha yes i figured a lot of people
westerners, told me they don't they don't tell the
magic words like i love you maybe
until like really far ahead
it's not like one month two months it can be years
Why?
I dont know!
you've been asking me a question now i have a question for taiwanese girls
Okay
maybe you can answer it, maybe not
is it true that asian girls or taiwanese girls have white fever?
Do you consider yourself as white? i would say i'm white washed because like i
have color
oh white wash...
banana banana
so you're not white but inside you are
BANANA!
okay back to the question
is it true?
do we have white fever.. depends you met a lot of my my friends
half of them it's not i don't like white people they just don't think they
would date white people because they think they're
too much effort
too much effort and like careless
independent all that stuff right?
no but my friends are more independent
to be honest they don't they don't care about if
their partners are too independent but they
they do care about putting too much like more effort
you know what i mean like when you don't want to spend time
on polishing your language in order to have a better conversation
with your other half you're like oh my god after a long day at work
i still need to explain again and again of what i'm thinking
i see you
you what i mean?
but some of my friends not a lot they're like oh yeah i like
white people they're hot they're hot and
you guys care about body shape more i would say that
and you're more confident
so do we have? half half i guess
half half depends on the person right ?
yeah really and we do have like a certain friends
who love white people
preferences
keyword: preferences
okay!
that's about it for this video
he really wants to end finish the topics
what? its fun answering them!
it is fun but
I solemnly swear i answered truthfully and
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