and this video will show you three ways that you can use the observer effect in
order to attract what you want I'm going to share with you some practical ways
you can apply it so that you really can get what you want in life welcome back
to another video my name's Aaron I help people
expand their consciousness on this video I'm going to be sharing with you the
power of the observer effect show you three reasons and three ways that you
can apply it so that you then change your outer circumstances now actually
just yesterday on Instagram I posted a because I can meme I guess you could say
and it was me talking about how everything we see is a reflection of who
we are how our beliefs create our reality and really change our beliefs we
then change the reflection that we get now this means that what we can begin to
do is understand that when we observe we are neutralizing the perspective we have
and we are then able to choose the way that we prefer to see things now the
observer effect has been something that quantum physics has been studying has
been something that's been around for a while and it's basically the consumption
or the understanding that what we can do is see things from this neutral point of
view and that's simply the act of observing something changes its
experience and the way that we see it so having a different perspective or a
different like a more neutral point of view will change the way that we respond
to whatever we are looking at now the power of the observer effect is that we
void out resistance it's that we're able to void out all of the baggage that may
come with the connotation the meaning that we are giving to certain things in
our life now let me give you examples of how we can apply this practically in our
life before I actually get into the bulk of the three ways that we can apply it
imagine that you are in traffic and you are going somewhere and maybe you're
driving someone that got hurt recently and you're driving them to maybe a
hospital or somewhere that they have to go because maybe their back really
well the idea is that maybe what you have to do is you have to drive slow
because if you drive too fast it hurts their back well what could happen is
from you driving to whatever that you know you have to drop that person off or
bring that person to the hospital or whatever it is the idea is that if
there's cars that back up behind you and you know that you're supposed to be
going faster maybe you're driving a little bit slower than the speed limit
what happens is if those drivers are honking at you normally you might be the
person that B honk at someone else for going 45 miles an hour in a 60 mile an
hour highway or something like that that's the idea but wouldn't your
perspective didn't change because then you could see it from a new point of
view so because you're now driving somebody
that's in pain and you have no choice but to do that in order to keep them
well you know their well-being intact the idea is that now that you can see
and you normally would empathize with the people honking at you because you're
going slower and a higher speed limit type Road the idea is then you see it
from a more neutral point of view because what is happening is you're
starting to relate to this situation in a new way then from that point going
forward you may forever change the way that you respond to other drivers that
are driving slow because you see that they may have their own reasons for
doing so so the idea is the observer effect can change everything because
then it shifts perspective now the first way that we can apply the observer
effect as to do exactly what that how can we change that perspective and by
neutralizing or observing we then get an opportunity to see it from a different
perspective so think of that last analogy how can you apply this in your
life maybe if you realize and you know I use this all the time when I'm talking
to people when it comes to helping them learn how to forgive other people think
of forgiveness in the form of perspective you know my ex stepmom was a
very abusive person and growing up until between the ages of 9 to 15 she was in
my life and we had a lot of control as almost like living in the military I
mean my brother always had to be doing work outside we weren't allowed to have
friends we weren't allowed to eat very much you know we're very malnourished we
got in trouble all the time for just about everything
and she's just a very angry person now the idea is
from one point of view when I came out of that four years me and my brother had
fun after that because all the sudden were 15 I'm 15 he's like 12 or 13 or
with my dad and all the sudden were allowed to have friends were allowed to
do things was like a whole new world it was like all of a sudden we had all this
freedom now what happened though is I ventually developed a little bit of
resentment or you know maybe even a lot of resentment because I was mad at why
did all of that happen for those years I was resenting her because she's such an
angry person but then I had a breaking continuity where I started to see a
different lean I started to put myself in her shoes and I started to see that
when she was a kid when she was young her dad used to treat her the same way I
realized that her dad was also an angry person I realized that you know anybody
that abuses anyone else is normally someone that was abused normally it's
not just people that had this great upbringing that then you know decide to
be very angry people I know maybe there's maybe the certain circumstances
where that does happen what I'm saying is normally the abuser was abused at
some point you see I started the st. changed my perspective because I started
to see it from their point of view now understand everybody will always make
their own decisions based on their own level of rationalization now this means
that whatever they do they've justified it in their own head her acting that way
towards me and my brother she justified it in her head her own head cuz she
always had to be right because that's just the way that she was or way that
maybe she still is today now no judgement it's just simply
discernment of the way that it was now here's the thing the moment I switched
my perspective was the moment I let go of all that emotional baggage
it's the moment I was really able to forgive because I was able to see it
from a different point of view and I'm not saying I agree with it I'm not
saying I'm happy necessarily that it happened although from a certain
perspective I am happy that it happened I know that sounds crazy cuz even though
there's so much pain for so many years that what came out of that was
eventually me going deeper within myself to learn more about why things are the
way they are understanding more of the spiritual type you know aspects of life
and I don't know if I would have been there as quick as I am you know be in my
in my 20s and knowing all of this stuff if I didn't go through that pain so
that's kind of my perspective on perspective and how perspective can
change everything so begin to observe things from other people's
of you and you'll start to see that you can take away the emotional baggage that
might come along with everything else that you do now the second way that we
can apply the observer effect has to do with neutralizing resistance so it's
kind of similar to the first one but understand that I'm kind of changing my
perspective when it comes to the law of attraction now under the old way the law
of attraction we're mainly focused on elevating our
own emotion now I still think that can be a very powerful way to do it but what
I'm learning is I'm studying quantum physics more I'm studying some of the
like I guess you could say new ways of looking at psychology and what I'm
learning is that it's actually better to create from a more neutral point of view
now let me kind of explain this to you it's all relative now in the same sense
like when I first started YouTube and I had maybe you know eventually the
beginning of this year its 2017 right now I had like two or three thousand
subscribers and I decided to go daily from there every month it was probably
we started gaining we started growing by about 20,000 subscribers a month and all
of a sudden it started to grow very quickly now I remember that as I had
this goal of hitting a hundred thousand subscribers I had like this kind of
feeling that oh when I hit a hundred thousand it's gonna feel like this and
I'm just gonna really have made it and it's just gonna feel like all the hard
work paid off now this is what happened though by the time a hundred thousand
subscribers hit I was very grateful and for maybe a day I felt really good about
it but that became my normal that became something that was a part of my everyday
life you know I create daily videos I'm a youtuber this is what I do now the
thing is is once you get what you want it starts to neutralize itself out to
begin with if you put it as such a level of importance you distance yourself from
it that's what I've been learning so what I do is I kind of lessen the
importance of what it is like what does it mean to have a hundred thousand
subscribers now to me what it means is that I've given and put out so much of
myself and so much value that it's helped people that that's the reason
it's grown I view everything in the form of value more so than just numbers right
I see you guys as actual people as a family as a community not just as
numbers on a website so because of that I relate to it in a little bit of
a different way but nonetheless what does it mean other than the meaning that
I get it so it's more of a neutral type thing but I think that if we give too
much motion and too much importance over to what we're doing we begin to distance
ourself because we become vulnerable to the opposite it's like if it doesn't
happen we feel resistance and this is also something that I put in a recent
Instagram post if we insist that's something that happens on the other side
of that is the resistance if it doesn't go according to the blueprint in our own
mind so this means that the power is in understanding how we can have a more
neutral type perspective to more observe rather than try to give so much
emotional credence to emotional importance to emotion could still be
powerful but with the emotion let it become a part of who you naturally are
let your passion care you know I wake up every morning I just woke up I took a
cold shower I you know I meditate I take a cold shower I come in here and I film
a video this is what I'm passionate about this what I love to do it's a very
subtle little level of excitement it's not like I walk around like buzzin like
you know what I mean with like a static excitement I can't do anything it's a
very settled excitement it's a very settle mean feeling on my purpose and
that's the way you can get to when it comes to finding your purpose and really
knowing what you can do so see it for more of a neutral point of view and I
think it's actually more powerful to create from a more observer effect from
a more neutral place to where things aren't good things are bad they just
simply are and that as we have that perspective we're able to then
consciously decide the way that we prefer to see things were able to them
you know make decisions based on that level of awareness and it's actually
like then things happen because we actually resonate with it
whereas we don't really resonate with something if we put it on a pedestal and
we really insisted it happen in a certain way and we don't feel like it's
in our life right now so feel like you already have what you want
fill a level of excitement I think one of the best formulas you can you can
find this is just simply follow your excitement as much as you can that's it
just as much as you can't follow your excitement and every choice you make
make it be something that you're excited for and as you do that that will lead
you to the next most probable thing and it'll lead you to a life full of
that track of you doing what you want to do but have it be excitement for more of
an observer effect more so than an excitement that's dependent on outer
circumstance now the third way that we can apply the observer effect has to do
with understanding the power of choice now
I like to view the law of attraction in the form of parallel realities now the
reason this is is because parallel realities have a very firm understanding
of how things work in the sense of being able to let go of the story that we tell
ourselves right we think of everything very literally we think of everything
that beginning middle end and because of that we then carry the beginning with us
in the present moment right now and the power of parallel realities is with the
level of awareness because this is something that quantum physics is
beginning to show us this is something we're learning more and more about right
now it might seem kind of woowoo but I really believe that in the next 5 10 15
years however long it takes this will become something much more solid much
more acceptable and really the new way of understanding of some of these
processes now let me kind of explain my you know 2-minute way of understanding
this basically the idea is that every possible parallel reality we can imagine
already exists think of it like a film reel and think of it like the film that
is on the reel itself you can stretch that out and you can see each individual
frame each individual frame is a separate parallel reality what we think
of as movement is actually us shifting through different parallel realities so
quickly and there was so much continuity that we think it's all one thing when in
reality we are shifting through billions of parallel realities per second and the
way that I think about it is that seems kind of weird right billions per second
what does that mean well think about it if your cat is right over there and
instead of moving that way it moved a different way and I remain the same you
know the illusion of the same like this each individual movement is a separate
parallel reality now imagine there's billions of variables all around us
there's people next door there's people there's maybe a dog outside there's
people everywhere if they move just a fraction of an inch that's a completely
separate parallel reality so the idea is that everything around us is moving
there for there are billions of different
parallel realities now this is the best part we can create and shift to the
parallel reality we want by knowing first off that it already exists every
possible variation of what we can imagine already exists at some level
it's just a matter of frequency and vibrating at the same level of it now
vibrating I know it sounds like a Lulu type term but that's honestly what
quantum physics is showing is that everything is vibration so from knowing
this what this means is that as we are able to resonate with the perfect
version of ourselves as we imagine the best possible version of ourself and
what we will be doing we start to connect to that parallel reality we
start to see our habits we start to take on all of those different ways of being
and as we do that that's where everything begins to change
because we literally start to become a new version of ourselves as we start to
resonate with that reality eventually the outer circumstances will shift to
look like that now this is where choice comes in every choice that you make in
the present moment right now is shifting you to different parallel realities you
can choose to take action and that's a very powerful thing that will literally
open up opportunities for you for you to create what you want every time you
choose something that doesn't serve you may be an old thought pattern may be an
old way of being that also will have its own track its own momentum so
consciously choose from the level of awareness of the observer effect which
means you are seeing where you are and where you want to be where are you right
now what are your patterns right now do you
wake up every day and maybe eat junk food do you eat up every day maybe watch
three hours of television I'm not saying there's anything wrong with this I'm
just saying it's not about good or bad it's about is it efficient is it adding
value to you is it allowing you to be the best version of yourself and I
promise you the more you buy into yourself the more you start to see that
you love doing these type of things you love feeling vitalized you love eating
healthy food because it makes you feel energized you love all of these
different aspects because it's who you prefer to be and I think that choice is
one of the most powerful ways to move through it it is something that can
really profoundly change your life now of course the other side of this is that
our subconscious mind is creating our life experience now our subconscious
Rhines most of what we experience now what I've done is created a free MP
three guided meditation that you can listen to right before you go to bed
that can allow you to reprogram your subconscious mind now understand that
our personal reality is created by how we think how we feel and how we act
because that is our personality our personality creates our personal reality
this is something I learned from dr. Joe Dispenza now the idea behind this is
that the most powerful way we can change all of these things is by influencing
our subconscious mind and that's why I created a powerful meditation that uses
NLP to be able to really see ourselves from a new point of view and to
disassociate from the old self image so I'm gonna go and eat that below you can
download that and understand that even more so then all of these things I'm
talking about understand that the most powerful things you can do is first off
realize that having a neutral point of view allows you to change your
perspective that once you change your perspective you're also able to let go
of the resistance as you let go over the resistance and you create from a much
more neutral point of view you'll find that things happen in an amazing way and
finally know that everything you do is a choice see everything you do is a choice
and as you do that I promise you your life will change so with that being said
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