let me offer you five unconventional ways to make your man
love you more hey it's Renee here just a quick video today to give you five
unconventional ways to make your man love you more remember I want to keep
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this video let's get started alright the five unusual ways to make your man love
you more number one self deprecation and laughing at yourself self deprecation is
a way to say hey I'm not here to be uptight to compete to be threatening I'm
here to bond to have fun to create an atmosphere where we are all accepted how
can you not love someone who laughs at themselves okay my bad
some people hate you regardless of what you do but laughing at yourself and self
deprecation is definitely a way to bond you more to men and to reduce their
defenses as well as your own self deprecation
is also an easy way to inspire a man to relate to you if a man can't relate to
you that he's not going to be able to fall in love as easily how can you not
love someone who is willing to laugh about their perceived inadequacies and
who doesn't judge themselves for it if you are able to show that you don't
judge yourself then he will love and trust you more because he will feel that
you also won't judge him okay number two be helpless yes that's
right be helpless one of the most endearing qualities of certain animals
is that they are completely helpless the animals that we want to take care of the
most are often the ones who seem the most helpless and because we want to
take care of them we are more invested in them and when we're invested we tend
to love them more and we hate anyone or anything that wants to hurt them right
helplessness can be incredible value now I'm not talking about victim mentality
always taking the place of the victim is not helplessness that's just a pattern
of behaving true helplessness is a spontaneous response to life this
doesn't mean you should be helpless all the time and advertise yourself
constantly as a helpless human because that's ridiculous and so anti-feminist
right I remember many years ago my husband and I were at the airport
waiting for a flight the waiting area was quite empty we had been together
already five years and we'd never been on a holiday together whilst I took a
toilet break I came back and I found that he was not sitting where I last saw
him he was nowhere to be seen he was playing a trick on me and he was hiding
whilst watching me from afar I didn't know this at the time and as the minutes
went by I kept my composure but according to him as he recalls it with
tears in his eyes even to this day he remembers how helpless and scared I
looked for those several minutes while I tried to stay calm but inside I was
trembling and worried that something bad had happened to him and that I was going
to be left at the airport all alone now am I like this all the time absolutely
not but I certainly am helpless at certain moments and that has only added
to my bond with my incredible wondrous husband say your total helplessness in
certain moments can add incredible value because it gives men
access to their protective immersions and it gives them access to love in its
purest form and yes some men don't respond to helplessness
some people even abuse helplessness this is why it is important to be attuned to
a man and to what's happening this is why it's important to not show
helplessness to virtual strangers and this is why it's important to be smart
about this and to use your gut instinct okay
point number three offer loyalty before help sometimes you need to help a man
sometimes you don't but often we offer help without feeling the situation first
does he really perceive value in your help which do you think holds more
intrinsic value to a man offering your emotional and sexual loyalty or offering
assistance to fix his problems that's right your emotional and sexual loyalty
and man can pay someone to fix his problems he can ask a friend for
assistance to fix a problem if he's resourceful he can use the internet to
fix his problems but generally speaking if you want a relationship with a man
fixing his problems offers less intrinsic value to him than offering
your true loyalty and diversion why well because one creates more connection
between you both thereby adding to the relationship and the other just makes
you feel more worthy and in control whilst possibly making him feel
emasculated your loyalty requires courage and emotional risk to give and
it adds value to the relationship and deepens the relationship making it
sacred most men generally feel like they can fix their own problems point number
four compliment him on a big decision he's made take note of a big decision
he's made and let him know that you see there
risk and the effort involved in making that decision tell him you've made a
great decision Oh tell him Wow it took a lot of hard work and energy to
make such a big decision I appreciate and I admire that in doing this you are
opening yourself to a vulnerability that you may have used to be uncomfortable
with you are giving value not taking it number five respond with your feminine
energy and lots of it did he say something that pleases you notice how it
feels in your body and let that feeling manifest itself in your voice and
actions does your man's presence make you swoon is something he just did so
wonderful to you that you could dance then physically and emotionally dance
swoon for him and let your body show that swoon in whatever way you feel the
swoon his actions make you hurt then let that pain be seen by him no explaining
just feeling this can be tricky because most of us have a huge backlog of unfelt
emotions and so when we try to be responsive it can come out wonky and
sometimes hurtful to the other person so I would say that to get good at this
practice it and you might need to feel some of that backlog of emotions first
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are and I'll speak to you real soon bye-bye