Why do girls like bad boys?
I get questions about this all the time and have seen a ton of other videos of people
trying to explain it and doing a pretty bad job.
But this shit is really SO simple and NOT complicated at all once you break it down.
So that's what I'm gonna do right now.
Here we go: why do girls like bad boys?
1.
Girls don’t like bad boys or douchebags or assholes JUST because they’re bad.
They like the qualities that most bad boys tend to have.
So in reality, girls don’t really like bad boys, what they like are the qualities that
bad boys have over the qualities that nice guys have.
So now I’m gonna teach you how to have those qualities, minus the douchebag part because
nobody likes a douchebag.
Bad boys are confident, assertive, and dominant in social interactions.
They take charge and are in control of social situations while nice guys are typically submissive
and tip-toe around the girl for fear of being rejected or saying the wrong thing to a girl.
Bad boys do what they want, they’re straight-forward, they’re not afraid to tease the girl, and
they’re never shy around girls in telling them what they want.
Bad boys are direct, to the point, no beating around the bush and they’re not afraid to
make moves.
They don’t overthink whether or not the girl likes them, they assume the girl does
and goes in for it and if they get rejected then they’re not phased by it either.
A bad boy will tell a girl “hey we’re going to Starbucks at noon, be ready for the
best date of your life” while most guys say stuff like “hey when do you wanna hangout?
What do you wanna do?
Where do you wanna go?”
Be decisive like a bad boy and you’ll be successful with girls like bad boys are.
Also, I’ve done a whole video on this before that I’ll have linked at the end of the
video but it’s worth mentioning this briefly here... the BIGGEST reason girls DON’T like
nice guys is because most “nice guys” aren’t really all that nice.
They’re only being nice to the girl because they think being nice to the girl will make
the girl want to date them or have sex with them.
Girls see RIGHT through this and it just makes you look dumb and actually LESS confident
because you’re too pussy to just be straight-forward about your intentions with the girl.
Long story short, don’t be nice with an agenda.
If you’re ACTUALLY a nice guy, be nice to everyone and be nice without expecting something
in return.
Otherwise, YOU’RE NOT ACTUALLY NICE.
Simple example just to drill it in: A guy who ISN'T nice might hold a door for a girl,
expecting to get points with her in return or hoping she'll check him out in return.
A guy who's ACTUALLY NICE might hold a door for a girl, not even caring if she likes him
or dislikes him or says thank you or anything, and that guy is also gonna be holding doors
for ugly girls and other guys just as much as he holds them for hot girls.
So in summary: Bad boys are: confident, assertive, dominant, straight-forward, not shy, direct,
not afraid, decisive, and they treat people equally whether those people are superhot
girls or ugly guys.
2.
Bad boys have their own style and make their own moves.
They’re not shy about being themselves and saying and doing what they want.
In addition to this confidence, bad boys ALWAYS make a statement with their clothes as well.
There’s nothing more attractive than a guy who has a bad boy style down to the details
and fits the part with strong body language and an even stronger personality.
The best way to show that you’re sophisticated and direct is by dressing in slimmer fit clothing,
boots, darker colors like my personal favorite: black, and of course wearing high quality
accessories like watches.
Wearing a watch with your outfits is the EASIEST way to add that bad boy element and make your
outfit look A LOT more distinct.
I’m gonna include some pictures on screen now of bad boy outfits and some of my own
pieces matched with the watches I’ve been wearing from our partner Vincero.
I’ve talked about Vincero before and those of you who tried em out told me you REALLY
liked em, so I decided fuck it let’s do it again!
Vincero is a dope brand because they make watches that look and feel luxurious while
still giving your outfit that distinct, unique look that ensure you get compliments by people
whenever you wear em.
The best part about these watches is that even though they have that luxury look and
feel, they’re still affordable for guys like you and me.
I mean guys like you, almost forgot I was a God for a second!
Haha.
I’m gonna have pictures on screen of some of the watches I have along with some of my
own outfit pieces so you guys can see EXACTLY how I wear them!
I highly recommend their Matte Black Chrono S watch since the all black gives you that
bad boy appearance while being really stylish.
Their best seller, the silver and white chrono S, is also a good option because it matches
great with brown boots, brown jackets, and the shit I have on screen.
If you want to get the watches I’ve personally been rocking to achieve that bad boy look
then check the link in the description for my special Based Zeus discount and a curated
list of the watches I personally chose for you guys to check out.
Don't skip this step!
You can have the dopest black leather jacket ever but if you're rocking it with a Timex
you're gonna look like the OPPOSITE of a bad boy.
It's time to step up your watch game and take your outfits to the next level.
3.
Bad boys are mysterious and unpredictable
Girls like that bad boys keep them guessing and that they don’t know what he’s gonna
do next.
It’s exciting and different than all the other basic guys who act exactly the same.
A bad boy will leave abruptly in the middle of a text conversation, he won’t always
respond to her text messages, and he won’t always be available when she wants to hangout.
He doesn’t try to impress her and he doesn’t put her at the top of his priority list, which
makes her like him even more, which makes her wanna chase him, instead of HIM chasing
HER.
You always wanna be at least a little mysterious and not available all the time.
4.
Bad boys are unreactive.
I’ve talked about the importance of being unreactive because it shows that you’re
a solid block of confidence who doesn’t give a fuck if she texts you back or not.
And this is one of the main reasons why girls like bad boys.
The fact that they’re unreactive adds that “coolness” factor, like how in movies
the badass James Bond character simply walks away from an explosion - not running, not
glancing back to see what's happening, but just confidently walking away with his head
held high, knowing he's the motherfucking boss.
Now imagine if James Bond blew up a building and then skipped away from it, looking really
nervous and not confident at all, whipping his head all around like he's scared of getting
mugged and then texting a girl something like "omg why aren't you replying to my texts???"
I mean, can you even imagine James Bond doing that?
No.
You can't.
He doesn't act like that.
Because he's a bad boy.
Being unreactive is the ultimate sign of confidence because it shows that you’re not easily
phased by the everyday things in life.
And that sense of mental strength and mental badassery is what makes girls like bad boys.
And that’s it.
If you want a part 2 of this video let me know in the comments below, and don’t forget
to check out the link in the description for the badass Vincero watches I handpicked for
you to really round out your Bad Boy style.
Zeus OUT.