Hey, guys!
It’s Samantha!
From rubbing their hands together like Dr. Evil to scoping out their surroundings for
an easy escape, these are some psychological tips that will help you read anyone instantly!
12.
Glancing Away
We’ve probably all been around someone… possibly trying to have a conversation with
them… and they keep looking anywhere but at us!
This can be very frustrating because they aren’t listening to what you have to say,
and they’re being pretty obvious about it.
We’d like to hope for the best in this situation.
You might think that they’re simply shy or nervous around you.
However, the sad truth is that if they’re glancing away from you… at the door, perhaps…
then, they are most likely looking for an escape route.
They could be in a hurry, have a previous engagement, so on, so forth.
But, they are looking for a way out, literally.
So, don’t be surprised if they jump up and say, “Oh my gosh!
I’m so sorry; I have to go!” and proceed to run out the door.
This applies to glancing at various objects too.
Let’s say you’re out with a friend getting lunch, and they keep looking at your food;
it’s probably because they’d like to try a bite.
Whether or not you offer them a nibble is up to you, but that’s more than likely what
they’re after.
11.
Eye Contact
A person’s eyes say a lot about them.
Just like glancing away has significant meaning, so does making eye contact.
There are various forms of this, however.
First of all, if a person is actively trying not to look you in the eyes, then they probably
want you to go away.
Secondly, if someone isn’t making eye contact, but it’s unintentional, then it’s most
likely because they just haven’t noticed you.
I’m sure most of us have failed to acknowledge a person standing near us at some point in
our lives.
The third type is when someone takes a second glance.
Let’s say you lock eyes with somebody, they look away for a second, but then they look
right back at you.
This most likely means that they are physically attracted to you.
Lastly, if someone is continually gazing at you, then it’s usually a pretty significant
indication that they’re romantically interested in you.
If they add a smile to the mix, then that’s even more suggestive.
However, if you don’t feel the same way about them, or they won’t stop looking at
you, it can get a bit creepy.
10.
Rubbing Hands
If you see someone rubbing their hands together, it could mean a few different things.
Most of the time, when somebody is doing this, it is indicative of their excitement.
They’re doing it because they are expecting something.
An example would be someone who is waiting for their food to come at a restaurant.
They’re rubbing their hands eagerly for their meal to come.
Another simpler explanation is that they’re cold.
When people are chilly, they often do this to create friction, thus warming their hands.
But, if someone is rubbing their hands together and laughing maniacally… you should probably
run the other direction.
9.
Smiling
A person’s smile can say a lot about them, and we’re going to go over what different
types of smiles might mean.
One kind of grin is called the Duchenne smile, which generally portrays happiness.
It is usually drawn-out and somewhat intense because the eyes crease upward as the mouth
does.
If you’ve seen Tyra Banks smile with her eyes, or “smize” as she calls it, then
you know what this looks like.
This kind of grin is almost always genuine.
However, another type of smile could mean the opposite.
When someone bares their teeth, but their eyes don’t smile as well, then it could
be a sign that they’re afraid or nervous.
A different form of grin is called a “miserable smile,” according to BBC.
It is meager and asymmetrical, and there is an overwhelming sadness coming from the eyes.
Another kind of smile stems from embarrassment.
When somebody kind of grins and moves their head down and to the side, this probably indicates
that they’re flustered or nervous.
If they blush while they do this, then it’s a surefire sign.
There are a lot of different types of smiles, but if you pay attention to the rest of the
face and the circumstances surrounding them, then you’ll be a pro at determining what
kind they are in no time.
8.
Paralanguage
Another thing you should pay attention to if you’re trying to read someone is paralanguage.
Paralanguage is a form of communication that gives deeper meaning to what a person is saying
or doing.
It can include the volume or pitch of somebody’s voice.
For instance, if somebody says “Nice to meet you!” with a high, uplifting tone,
then it seems genuine and happy.
But, if somebody were to say the same thing in a monotone voice, it’ll seem unenthusiastic
and maybe even sarcastic.
You can use these indicators to recognize how a person feels about you.
Another example is gasping.
If somebody takes a sudden inhalation that seems panicky, then they could very well be
surprised about something.
7.
Leaning Toward
This is another thing to look for when you’re having a conversation with someone.
If they’re genuinely interested in what you are saying, then they have the tendency
to lean toward you.
This will allow them to hear you more efficiently and pay closer attention.
It is also a sign that they want to confide in you.
If a person is willing to get closer to you, then it probably means that they trust you.
They might even be looking to tell you a secret.
However, if you notice someone doing the opposite, then it most likely indicates that they aren’t
too interested in you or what you have to say.
Just like glancing at the door means a person wants to escape, so does leaning away.
Leaning toward somebody also indicates that they want to make contact with them.
This could be a sign that they’re romantically interested, kind of like how people lean in
for a kiss.
6.
Crossed
If you’re trying to determine if somebody isn’t very comfortable being around you,
then look to see if their arms or legs are crossed.
If a person is doing either of these things, then it usually signifies that they are guarding
themselves… figuratively and literally.
Crossing your arm means that you aren’t open to certain things, like what a person
is saying to you, what you’re doing, or the situation you’re in.
The same goes for crossing your legs… unless you’re a lady in a skirt, of course.
Keeping your arms and legs crossed while you’re standing up indicates that you’re uncomfortable;
you could be around people you aren’t familiar with or in a new place.
Leaving your arms and legs uncrossed indicates the opposite.
If you are talking to somebody who’s not concerned about guarding themselves, then
it’s a sign that they trust you and aren’t afraid to be open around you.
However, just like rubbing your hands, doing this can also merely mean that you’re cold.
Keeping your extremities closed tightly around you helps warm you up.
5.
Handshake
There are also several different types of handshakes out there that mean different things.
So, if you want to see what type of person somebody is by only meeting them once, then
pay close attention to this section.
The first type is when the person’s palms are sweaty; this usually means that they’re
nervous, even if they seem calm and ready on the surface.
If their knees are weak and arms are heavy too, then it’s very indicative of uneasiness.
They might be anxious about meeting you, or they’re self-conscious about something.
But, it could also merely mean that they’re hot.
The second kind is the limp handshake.
This shows that they aren’t very interested and don’t show much excitement about most
things.
The third kind of handshake is very strong… so strong that you might be scared you’re
hand is gonna get crushed.
This is generally a form of intimidation; they are demonstrating their strength and
testing yours.
Another type is the dainty one; this is when the other person only shakes your fingers.
Somebody might do this because they think you’re special, or if somebody offers their
hand like this instead of going for a full-on shake, then they could consider themselves
a bit higher-class.
4.
Rubbing Chin
If you ever see somebody doing this, then it’s safe to say they’re deep in thought
about something.
People often stroke their chins when they’re thinking, and you probably do it too, whether
or not you’ve noticed.
They could also be trying to make a decision, evaluating a situation, and they could even
be judging various things in their mind.
However, touching one’s chin doesn’t always mean a person is in the middle of an intense
internal monologue.
They could just be propping their head up because they’re tired.
3.
Eyebrows
Another excellent way to read a person is by looking at their eyebrows.
This might seem a little strange at first, but somebody’s brows can say a lot about
what they’re thinking or feeling.
For example, if their eyebrows are lowered, then they might be trying to deceive you,
which is easier by avoiding contact.
It could also mean that they’re annoyed or displeased, and they don’t want to look
at you straight on.
If the person’s brows are raised, then they might be surprised, or they could be waiting
for a response from you.
You can also tell if somebody is frustrated or angry if their eyebrows are pulled together
and lowered in the center.
2.
Posture
Something else that says a lot about a person is their posture.
One example is if you’re sitting on the floor with your legs in the criss-cross-applesauce
position; this means that you are carefree and open to new things.
This next example is something all desk-job workers struggle with.
Sitting up with your back straight in a seat is the position we’re supposed to be in
because it won’t have as much of an adverse effect as our backs being slouched.
Plus, staying in this position portrays confidence; it also presents strength and reliability.
A third telling posture is when you’re reclined.
Staying in this position might mean that you’re analytical; you’re leaning back and observing
the world around you, which lets you evaluate what’s happening without getting involved
in the action.
Crossing your ankles while sitting in a chair can indicate that you’re tasteful and civilized,
and it also shows comfort because your knees remain uncrossed.
But, if you’re holding tightly to your armrests on your chair, then it demonstrates that you’re
sensitive to your environment.
Clutching onto them can make you feel more secure as well.
If somebody is sitting on a flat surface with their legs out to the side, then it means
they’re delicate, sweet, and could be flirting with you.
Another common posture is when somebody has their hands rested in their lap; this can
indicate shyness, thoughtfulness, and calmness.
There are numerous types of postures, whether a person is sitting or standing.
But, all of them demonstrate something about the person doing them.
1.
Talk About Others
Perhaps the most significant psychological tip we can give for reading someone is paying
attention to what they say and do.
Listening to someone talk is an easy way to tell what kind of person they are.
One thing that will let you know that a person isn’t the nicest is if they talk badly about
other people.
If you meet somebody for the first time, and they start gossiping about their friends,
family, or make rude comments about strangers, then it’s a huge sign you don’t want to
be around that person anyway.
If a person is willing to say negative things to someone they hardly know, then they will
turn on you in no time!
It means that they won’t have any problem stabbing you in the back, just like they do
to other people.
And that isn’t somebody you want to associate with, is it?
However, if you meet someone for the first time, and they speak nicely about other people,
then it is a wonderful reflection of who they are as a person.
They might compliment their friends, family, you, or the people around you.
They might praise anyone who’s doing a good job, like a waiter, for example.
This is an excellent demonstration of their personality.
You should also pay attention to what a person does, not only what they say because words
can be deceiving.
For instance, if your significant other tells you “I love you,” but they continue doing
things that make you unhappy, then it could be that they don’t really feel that way
about you; they might only be keeping you around for convenience or necessity.
As they say, “actions speak louder than words.”
Today’s comment is from Stanley from our “Signs You May Be In A TOXIC Relationship”
video!
Thank you for the comment, Stanley!
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