- How would my exes describe our relationship?
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- So, we met at.
- We met at the studio that I work at in the city.
- She's a singer and I'm an engineer.
So we met through a mutual colleague.
- Me and Tasha actually met on Instagram.
- Who made the first move?
- I would say Tasha did [chuckling].
- Oh, I definitely did. - Me.
- What was the move?
- First thing I said was hi there with two waves.
That's kind of like the go-to.
- She asked me for my number.
Very direct.
- I said, you look dangerous.
I was like,
there's something in your eyes that looks dangerous.
That's exactly what I told her.
She started laughing.
And from there we just started talking back and forth.
- My type is.
- Someone who's supportive of her.
I think she likes, she definitely likes guys tall,
funny, outgoing, ambitious.
- Definitely polished, clean guys
that take care of themselves.
- Someone fun, bigger than her so she could feel protected
so that she can talk her [beep].
Someone into music.
But really just a carefree, not too serious type of person.
- They were attracted to my.
- Her smile, personality, beautiful girl.
- Oh, definitely the vibe of her personality and spirit.
- Her legs, sexy as hell.
- I thought he looked like.
- Maybe Omari Hardwick [chuckling].
- The singer, Sammie.
- Ben kinda looks like the fox a little bit.
- The fox from Zootopia?
Whew [laughing].
Not the fox from Zootopia.
- Larry the Crab, the big strong one.
Well, yeah, I guess I heard that before.
- The giant worm from SpongeBob
that attacks the city, sort of.
- Big worm from SpongeBob?
I don't even remember what that character looks like.
- Our first kiss was.
Very random.
We were just hanging out one day, a couple of drinks in us.
And you know, I guess the moment was right.
And we just had a little kiss.
- It was at a studio.
'Cause music is actually really intimate.
And just kinda gave it a look.
And then, of course, alcohol is my courage
'cause I'm self-conscious.
So I just leaned in and it happened.
- It was during sex.
- He thought my best physical feature was.
- Definitely her face.
She has a beautiful smile, beautiful eyes.
- Her eyes.
- The legs, they're sexy as hell.
- He thought my best personality trait was.
- She's a hard worker, not judgmental, great sense of humor.
- She's real.
She's keeps it honest.
- She's fiery.
And it gives you energy.
It picks you up.
So that's definitely, she's definitely gives people energy.
- And I thought his best personality trait was.
- I'm not judgy.
I'm not judgemental at all.
- Anything that I like food-wise, movie-wise,
music-wise, we just clicked on it.
- I think she loved my sense of humor.
I used to crack a lot of jokes.
But she didn't always really get them.
- He'll reference something from,
I guess, when they were kids.
And I'm just like, it went over my head.
I don't know what you're talking about.
He introduced me to.
- Different restaurants.
We liked to go out to eat a lot.
- Mental and spiritual hygiene.
Meditation, getting up in the morning, affirmations.
Just self check-ins and self care.
- I introduced her to Haitian food, actually.
- He knew my favorite food was.
- She's allergic to a lot of things.
So, unfortunately,
her list of things she could eat is very small.
So French fries is her favorite.
- I'm gonna say pizza.
Everybody loves pizza, right?
- Something simple.
She's allergic to everything.
You could go with chicken.
- French fries.
Our sex life was.
- It was pretty good.
- Choo, choo, choo.
[quietly laughing]
- We, believe it or not, didn't get there
for as long as we were dating.
We spent a lot of time together, yes.
But again, a lot of it was just us being out, you know?
And, I think, also,
that's why it led to us just being friends.
- My relationship style is best described as.
- Go with the flow, I'd say.
- We're both air signs.
So we just go with the flow.
- Flexible.
She's not as clingy as most people are.
- They know my celebrity crush is.
- Drake. - Drake.
- No idea.
- Drake, I love Drake.
My favorite movie is.
- I don't think she even has one.
- I'm gonna say something just outrageous; Titanic.
- Something childish [chuckling].
I'm drawing a blank here.
I'm gonna go with The Lion King.
- Hairspray.
My favorite musician is.
- Nicki Minaj. - Drake.
- Beyonce.
- Bob Dylan.
My biggest fear.
- Rejection.
- Don't recall.
- It's being broke [chuckling].
- Going broke [chuckling].
That terrifies me.
The most embarrassing thing I did in front of my ex was.
- I don't recall any embarrassing moments from her.
- I don't have anything.
- She fell down the stairs one time by my house.
But those stairs kill everybody.
It's like one of those butt
boop, boop, boop, boop [chuckling].
- Choo choo choo choo [laughing].
Who's more likely to win in an argument?
- Georges. - Tasha.
I'm not much of an arguer and I quit.
I give up very easily.
- Both of us.
- My sign is.
- Yeah, she's a Libra.
- She's a Libra. - Guess what?
We're both Libras.
- I'm also a Libra.
We could both be pretty stubborn,
very opinionated and strong-willed.
- Air sign, so that means we're both go with the flow.
We're both whimsical.
We both are indecisive.
- I'm a Libra.
It worked for us in that we were both wild
and carefree and fun-loving.
And it worked against us in that
we both liked the attention on us.
- The best picture of us.
- Beyonce said, black people and blue light.
- We dated for.
- About a year.
- Seven to nine months.
- About a year and a half.
- We broke up because.
- Scheduling was just a bit crazy.
And probably, like I said, the age gap.
- Yeah, I wanted an open relationship and she did not.
She wasn't with it.
- It's just differences in opinions, things causing tension
and just kind of damaging our friendship.
- My worst habit was.
- Little stubborn, yeah.
- Stubborn, stubborn, very stubborn.
- Communication.
She didn't communicate as well as I did.
- And his worst habit was.
- The same thing [laughing].
I'm pretty stubborn, myself.
- Stubborn [chuckling], stubborn, very stubborn.
- So I didn't open up as well.
I might close people off.
If I felt a certain type of way, I didn't communicate.
I guess we both, weren't the best communicators [chuckling].
- I hated his.
- I don't think she hated anything about me.
- I wanted to be in an open relationship.
- I have so much going on in my brain,
I rarely remember things.
And it causes me to be inconsiderate, sometimes.
Like, hey, we're supposed to go out today.
And I'm like, you know.
She's like, hey, you ready?
And I'm like, mm, no.
- Were we in love?
- I don't think it got to that point.
- Yes, [chuckling] it's my boo.
- No.
- I was not in love with any of them.
I got over the breakup after.
- A month.
- Knowing her, maybe not that long.
- She's not over it still.
She wants me.
- 'Cause I just bury myself in work.
As long as work and career is still growing,
the relationships, I start to forget about them.
He got over the breakup after.
- I move on pretty fast.
- It took me awhile, it took me a while.
- Two weeks.
- How did things end?
- It was a pretty clean break up.
I honestly wish all my breakups were like that.
- It was a mutual agreement.
- We disagreed on being open or not.
And so we just ended it cordially.
- Would we date again?
- I don't know.
I don't really date exes [chuckling].
- Yeah, I would date Tasha again.
- Yeah.
I lied and said I wouldn't.
But I was in my feelings that day [chuckling].
- I think he would tell my future partners.
- Just be on point.
She's a hard worker.
She doesn't really take any slack on the man's behalf.
And just be ready to do what you have to do to maintain it.
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Just be on your toes.
She don't play, man.
Very high standards.
- Don't try to control her.
Let her do her thing.
- What am I looking for?
- Security.
- Security and connection and somebody who values her.
- Someone who's all about her [chuckling].
- I wouldn't really say I'm looking for anything, right now.
But if I was looking, someone that's, I don't know,
ambitious and funny and charismatic and kind
and family-oriented, career driven,
but still knows how to balance and make time for me
and understand my schedule and what it is
that I want to do with my life and likes dogs.
This is a lot.
I guess someone that doesn't live too far.
Maybe the age range 23 to 28,
I think is the highest I'll go at this point.
Yeah, that's not too bad of a list,
I don't think [chuckling].
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