Hey, Tripp Kramer here from Tripp Advice Coaching.com. On today's video, I want to talk
about the seductive high five. Now I get it, it's a little cringy. Even saying saying it out loud
feels kind of cringy like, oh, really? You give a girl a high five? That seems lame. That seems
stupid. Why would you ever want to turn a high five into anything? Why would you even do this?
Well, my friends, I'm going to be showing you a demonstration of how it looks when it actually
works. And I have my girl Megan here to be with me to show you how this can be done. You're gonna see
examples of it being done correctly, and you're going to see examples of it done incorrectly so
then you can learn how to do it. And the reason why you want to learn this is because it's going
to make the conversation that much more flirty. It's going to make it so you can seduce her more,
and you can build that attraction. Now if you need more help with building attraction,
go to Get Her Hooked.com That's where you can get my course and learn everything about flirting,
meeting women and building attraction. And this is just one small piece of the puzzle. Let's get
into it. What I'm going to do is start off with a few examples of what not to do. The cringy, lame,
high five that you're not going to do and then we'll move into the actual example. So of course,
we have our variations. You have your fist bump, do not ever fist bump a girl that
screams friendzone. We're not going to fist bump, stay away from fist bumps, or anything like it,
especially the explosion. We don't want that, not sexy at all. Let's move on here. Now,
we don't want to give a high five. That's the high five you don't want to do. That's the friend
high five. That's the normal high five. We do that to your friends. We don't do that to the
people that we're trying to seduce. Here's an example again, you see it right there. That's a
high five where you're just banging her hand like that. Screams friend, not seductive. We'll stay
away from that. Here's another awkward one is a high five hole. This is kind of weird. We don't
do that to anybody. You should never high five hold. That's also very awkward. Why would you be
holding it and shaking it and let's stay away from anything that resembles what you're seeing here.
Let's stay away from the double high five, especially the one where you just slap her
hands. Again, that's for friends. That's not very flirtatious at all.
This is an example of what it looks like when you're far away. You can see the distance between
us has increased, which is going to make it harder to do the seductive high five that you're
going to see here. Let's rewind a little bit. You see the distance between us? I'm reaching
over to give this high five and grabbing her for a second. You can see the awkwardness,
not a lot of tension there. Let's give you another example to watch that again so you can see,
too far away, super awkward, hard grip, stay away. Now you can see right here,
this is the perfect distance, you want to be about this amount away. Not just for the high
five but for when you're actually talking to a girl in general, when you're trying to connect
with her. You want this nice, I'd say that's about a foot and a half, two feet of distance between
you. So when you do have the opportunity to touch her or to break the touch barrier it's not going
to be so awkward, like it was over here where you were so far away. Let's see what happens.
Okay, there it is. That's the seductive high five. What we're doing here is,
we're not putting our hand up to give a high five per se, it almost looks like it.
We're putting our hand up just like this. She gets the idea that it's like this high five,
she's gonna go grab it, and then you're gonna hold on for just a second longer. Check it out.
I'm holding eye contact that entire time. You see that? I'm not looking at my hand
for her to look there. It's just this comfortable natural I'm putting my hand out to grab hers. So
as much as I'm calling it a high five, it's not as sexy to call it what I'm about to call it but
it's like this light hand grab. It's like a hand grab like that kind of shaking it for a second
and letting it go. Here's another example of it, kind of shaking it for a second. And
then see what I did there? It's another way of doing it. You're kind of sliding your hand off.
Seductive, high five, kind of sliding your hand off right there. You're maintaining that
connection because let's think about it for a second. You're not going to do this with a
friend. Would you ever do this with a friend? No. You wouldn't. Especially this one right here where
you grab it and you let go. You're making this nice connection with her. That's flirtatious right
there. Now here's an example of what it might look like when you're a little bit further away. So
we are a little bit further away. This is a nice excuse to get closer to her. When are you going to
do this? When are you going to even implement this seductive high five or hand grab here? Not right
away only when you've been talking in conversation for a little bit. Because when you're talking
and you're starting to build that connection, it's going to make more sense that you might do
something like this. And you kind of grab her and pull her closer. Let's see that again real quick.
Do that, and then boom, you grab her pull her a little bit closer,
and you're maintaining eye contact the whole time. This is an example right here where you
might go for the kiss. This is a circumstance in which you guys have probably kissed before.
I would not do this on a first kiss. This is where you guys have already broken touch
barrier many times. Maybe you're doing this on a second date or on a first date after you've
done the first kiss where you just kind of grab her you go in and go for the kiss right there.
Okay, so we'll see that again with a double high five as much as I hated it before you
can totally do that. It's not a high five though. It's more like a grab. You just kind of grab and
just kind of pull her towards you. Very flirty and very dominant. All this is very dominant.
You're the one who's in control grabbing her bringing her close in. Just like that.
That's another example there where you're doing it with one
just like that. And then that's another example right there. So again, flirty, fun having a good
time. That's how you do it. Write down in the comments right now. Thank you Megan for
joining us and helping you with the seductive high five. If you need more help with flirting
and being more physical with a woman and getting her attracted to you get my course called Hooked
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