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Hi everyone, Robert Zink, Miracle Mentor and Alchemy Life Coach.
And today we are soaring high, like a big, beautiful Eagle.
We're flying in the direction of your dreams and your goals.
We believe that you deserve the money. You desire,
the love that you crave and the health and happiness that you
absolutely depend upon. So many years,
I was introduced to a book and I absolutely fell
in love with this book.
It's called pulling your own strings by Dr. Wayne Dyer.
I'm not certain. It might have been his first major publication,
his first major book, but it was a huge success.
I carried that book around with me.
I literally memorized it and it, it saved my life.
I have to say that it absolutely saved my life.
Look at your life can be put into a world of shambles
if you are surrounded by toxic people. So in this video,
we're going to talk about what to do.
If you're surrounded by toxic people and how to release your own
inner positive light,
your own inner positive antidote to their toxic energy.
So high flyers,
the first thing we have to understand is that each person creates a vortex in
their life. Now,
this vortex is either a positive vortex and it's
attracting likes positive people, positive energy,
positive vibrations,
or it's a negative vortex. Most people today.
Unfortunately a lot of them are walking around creating this
cloud, like pig pen in the, a cartoon. You know,
this cloud of dirt and negative energy.
Their vortex is negative. And so consequently,
they are literally sharing with the rest of their world,
their toxic, dirty, low vibrational energy.
You and I,
we attract the people in our life.
So if we have attracted people that are lower,
vibrational have a lot of negative energy are very
toxic.
Then it's up to us to remove them from our life because we
have that power. You see High Fliers, we tend to,
we tend to, they say that, uh, that we are the average.
We are the average of our five closest friends or the five
people that we spend the most time with were kind of the average.
So if you were spending time with lower vibrational people,
toxic people, uh,
then you become kind of the average of that energy yourself.
And if you spend enough time,
you start to take that positive vortex that you're creating in your
life.
And it starts to spin the opposite direction and it creates a negative
vortex.
So because you have the ability to attract the kind of
people that you desire in your life,
you can expand your positive energy vortex,
your positive vibration,
and the way you do that is by having clear goals,
knowing exactly what the hell you want out of life.
What kind of relationship you want, what kind of marriage you want,
what kind of money you want to make? Where do you want to live?
How do you want to live? What do you want to eat? Where do you want to travel?
Very clear and concise goals and staying on that path
because that tends to push away toxic people, toxic people.
Oftentimes don't have clear goals.
You have to have a clear self image of this is who I am. This is what I'm about.
This is my mission statement. This is my purpose in life.
You have to have clear beliefs, okay? This is what I believe.
I believe that I can manifest anything I desire.
And then of course you have to be a person. See toxic people.
They like to talk a lot. They like to sit around a bitch all the time,
but you,
you take inspired action because you have
clear beliefs. You have a positive self image.
So you take inspired action and you make things happen in
your life. Now, High Fliers.
Here's the exciting thing about this by
you being absolutely firm and resolute in your goals
and your dreams and,
and who you are and what you're about and taking inspired action.
You will either change the people
around you. You'll be like a touchstone and alchemy.
You're literally by your presence. Their vibration begins to change.
Their negative vortex begins to slowly start to spin
the opposite direction,
or you're literally going to blow them right out of your life,
right out of your sphere sensation.
And they will no longer play an influential role in who you
are and your life.
So number two High Fliers is don't be afraid to grow out of
people. There are some people you just have to grow out of. Look at.
I had a friend that was a friend for over 30, 40 years.
From the time I was 13, 14, 15 years of age,
we spent many, many years together. We traveled together.
We did things together, but he chose a different path.
He chose the path of living in a van of just getting up
every day, whenever he wanted to,
of not working of just getting by in life. And,
and when I tried to help him, he resisted me.
He didn't want anything to do with that. So I had to let him go.
I didn't want to let him go. I still love him.
I still send him positive energy,
but I'm not allowing that negative vibration into my Cirrus
sensation into my home, around my family, around my son.
I'm just not going to do it. So at some point you have to make up your mind.
Is it time to outgrow this person or these
people? It's all High Fliers.
The next one is to learn to feel good about yourself
and your life and your journey.
And don't keep toxic people around you in order to
help you feel good. Do you understand what I'm saying?
That sometimes we like to keep toxic people around
us because they make us feel important.
They make us feel special, or like we are a, we are something,
but you can't do that. You've got to let these people go. You've got to say,
look it, I choose to feel important. I choose to feel good.
I choose to feel worthy. Not because of these toxic people,
but because of what I believe about myself,
that is absolutely the truth High Fliers.
So number four is what I call straight talk.
And this is where you sit down with that toxic person. And you say, look,
this behavior is unacceptable in my life. I did this with my friend.
I gave him straight talk.
Before I eradicated him out of my life.
I sat down and said, look,
you're going to have to take a shower at least every other day.
If not every day, every other day, number two,
we're going to have to do laundry. Number three,
you're not going to show up to my house drunk anymore.
So after giving him a number of warnings and opportunities,
he showed up drunk. He hadn't taken a shower in a week.
I had to let him go. I have given him straight talk.
So you give the person straight talk, because look it,
these are people that you may love and care about. And I understand that,
but you have to protect yourself. You have to protect your family.
You have to protect your children.
You have to do what is right for your journey.
You're here for a limited time.
You do not have time to waste on toxic people. Well,
High Fliers, sometimes the toxic people,
uh, their, their relatives, their family, things like that.
So in those cases, I believe it's important to create some distance,
okay, create physical distance and then create time,
distance. So you see them less often, you have some space,
so they can't be popping over to your house every five minutes.
And that allows you to go about your life.
99% of the time,
focused on your dreams and goals and not being influenced by these T Oh,
by the way, when they call you and say, Hey,
I want to just unload all my toxic stuff on you.
You say, Hey, I'd love to talk to you. Let's catch up another time.
I've got an appointment or I've got to go out right now.
I've got something going on, given an excuse, get out of there,
get off the phone and let it go. Okay.
Number six, modeling. Oh, modeling is so important.
Modeling is about looking at people that are living the kind of life
that you desire and saying, what are these people do?
What do they think about? How do they act?
Where do they put their time and energy? I be,
I believe that nature abhors a void.
There's an old saying in alchemy [inaudible],
which means nature just hates a void.
It will always fill it with something. So here's the thing.
Fill it with positive people, fill it with new positive,
optimistic, go, getting tight friends,
people that are really out to maximize the life experience.
You know, as you let go of these toxic people, you're going to have a void,
but you can fill it with new resourceful people in your life.
People that are living the kind of life that you desire to live and High
Fliers. Finally,
number seven is daily visualization of the kind
of life you desire, who you are. In other words, strengthen up,
even, even scripting scripting. This is who I am.
This is what my life is about. This is the direction that I'm going.
Here's the reason that I'm here.
And what that does is that strengthens your inner core and it pushes
away the toxic people.
It just literally pushes them out at a distance or it
converts them either way. It's a win, win situation.
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