Hello, my wonderful friend! In today's video,
I'm going to be answering the question, "Do women really care about looks?"
We're going to be talking about female psychology and why you're
more attractive than you think you are.
Do you ever feel desperately overwhelmed by dating and relationships?
You're trying to find the right kind of gal. A stunning,
gentle, irresistible woman whose love makes you feel weak in the knees.
But how do you attract a gal like that?
Maybe secretly you're afraid that you're not attractive enough
to have a lasting relationship with a woman like that.
Have these worries ever kept you up at night?
If you're struggling with this right now, this video is made specifically for you.
I'm about to reveal to you the little known truth about
how to attract a woman and what women really want. It's going to shock you.
If you want a loving, lasting relationship with a woman who captivates you,
make sure you stay with me to the end of this video.
Before we get to these secrets, make sure you subscribe and ring the notification bell.
My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men
and creator of Attracting Lasting Love Academy.
I'm your go-to resource to learn how to find the love of your life,
melt her heart, and make her fall madly in love with you.
So make sure you subscribe, ring the notification bell,
and to learn more about working with me in my Academy, just go to coachmelannie.com
As we get started with this,
I'm going to mention one other video that's also going to help you so much.
If you haven't yet seen this video, it's going to help you understand how to attract
the right kind of woman. I'll put a link in the description below. Make sure you give it a watch.
So do women care about looks?
To properly answer this question, there are 4 life-changing truths you need to know first.
After you understand these insider secrets, I'll expose the truth to you.
The last thing I share with you is going to shock you the very most.
You will not see this coming, so make sure you stay with me to the end.
With that, let's start with the first thing you need to know before I can
answer the question, "Do women care about looks?"
This first thing is that most people think
being sexy is so much more important than it actually is.
We live in an obsessed world. A world that's obsessed with being sexy.
And a lot less obsessed with just being loved.
The crazy part is everyone wants to be tenderly loved.
Everyone wants someone to care about the real you on the inside.
And many people think that being sexy is the cure-all for this.
But what they don't understand is that you could be the sexiest person alive
and not have a single person love you.
This happens in Hollywood all the time. These
really sexy people can't have a relationship or keep a relationship to save their life.
However, on the flip side, when someone is deeply in love with you,
then you are the sexiest person in their world.
This means that the most
powerful thing you can learn is how to make a woman fall overwhelmingly in love with you.
This is why my Academy teaches you in detail
how to attract a woman, captivate her, and make her fall madly in love with you.
That's the biggest thing you should be focusing on.
When you understand how to do this, your love life and magically transforms.
So remember that attraction is less complicated
and actually less traumatizing than most people think it is.
The second thing you need to know before I can answer, "Do women really care about looks?" is
that the men who can interact with women the most skillfully are the most attractive men.
Let me repeat that just one more time.
The men who can interact skillfully with women are the most attractive men.
Let me illustrate with a quick story.
Growing up, I knew two gals. One always had guys who were crushing on her constantly.
The other was always frustrated and angry because none of the guys were ever interested in her.
And if you paid close attention, there was a big difference between these two girls.
The girl who always had the guys around her, she understood how to connect with men,
how to be attractive to them, how to interact with them.
And she did it all completely sincerely.
She was not doing it just to get attention. She was just a sincere person that way.
And so naturally everywhere she went, heads turned.
The other gal had no clue how to interact with guys.
And so she always just ended up pushing them away without meaning to.
The same is true for men.
The men who understand how to really connect and have that chemistry
and create and nurture that attraction are the men who are the most attractive.
When you know how to skillfully interact with women,
you're the one they want to be with because you delight and charm them.
And again, always sincerely, always
genuine. People can tell when you're not genuine, and that never goes well.
Now I'm about to say something very important. Are you with me?
Most often, it's not an attraction problem. It's a communication problem.
You've got to show her that you are what she's looking for and that you are her dream man.
So many people think, "Oh, I'm just not attractive enough."
When in reality, they don't understand how to really connect and communicate with her.
Now let's pause for just a second. Are you feeling a little bit overwhelmed?
Maybe by this video, maybe just by relationships in general?
And maybe you're not feeling a little overwhelmed, maybe you're feeling massively overwhelmed?
Is that you?
I know that it can feel agonizing when you try to put it all together and it just falls flat.
Maybe you've tried everything you can think of to find her, to attract her.
You've probably gone through many videos trying to find the answer, but still just feel really
frustrated and unsure of how to proceed. Unsure of how to get the success you ultimately want.
Here's a bonus secret for you.
YouTube is amazing, obviously. I post YouTube videos every single week. It's a wonderful place.
However, YouTube is for surface-level content. It's for quick tips.
And there's nothing wrong with that.
But if you're trying to create something deeper,
it's not going to happen with that surface-level content.
If you're serious about long-term, life-changing results, you need someone to guide you.
You need a proven roadmap. Your blueprint for success.
That's why I created my Academy for you.
You don't have to stumble your way through horrible relationships
and shattered dreams anymore.
I've gone to all the work for you so that it's ridiculously easy.
You watch, apply what you learn, and you have a clear roadmap to the adorable love of your life.
If you're tired of putting off coming home at night because you don't want to be alone,
and you're ready for that gorgeous woman to cuddle on the couch with,
and to shower you with soft, tender kisses, you need the proven roadmap.
So to learn more about this, watch my free masterclass.
Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
I'll also put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment.
It's painful trying to do this on your own, right?
Don't do it alone anymore. Let me help you unlock these hidden secrets so you can find love faster.
Again, just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
Now let's talk about the next thing you need to know before we can answer,
"Do women really care about looks?"
I've got a little more female psychology for you.
Women are nowhere near as driven by physical attraction as men are.
Yes, physical attraction is important to them. But science shows us over and
over and over again that it's not as important to women as it is to men.
And as a woman, I can back this up.
Now, does this mean you shouldn't take care of yourself, you shouldn't try to dress nice
or take care of your health or do your hair or anything like that? Well, no, of course not!
The truth is you should have enough self-respect to want to take care
of yourself. And enough respect for her to want to take care of yourself.
However, most men think that women are most attracted to an unnatural appearance.
Someone who looks basically artificial.
An example of this might be superheroes.
Our culture loves superheroes, right? And it's for a good reason.
But many men think that if they don't have a body like a superhero,
that no woman is going to love them.
In reality, most women are really attracted to the superheroes personality.
Most women want a man for his personality more than this mountain of muscle body.
Because there's this obsession with being sexy like we talked about earlier,
most people think they have to be artificial in order to be attractive at all.
And while you should always aim to look your best, and yes, that does take some effort,
most people are actually the most attracted to people who are just in the realm of normal.
A very natural look is most attractive to us. That's how God made us.
A natural look is always most attractive.
Now I'm going to answer a question that I know you're probably already asking.
"Okay, Melannie, that's cool. That's cool that a natural look is most attractive.
"But if I have that, why am I still single? Why am I still alone?
Why am I struggling to attract the kind of woman I want?"
Is that what you're thinking?
It's because of a communication problem, like we talked about earlier.
And again, my Academy will help you turbocharge past this heartbreaking barrier fast.
Okay, I have a question for you before we get to the last thing you need to know.
Has this video surprised you? I really want to hear from you in the comments.
What surprises you most about what I've shared with you?
And should I make more videos like this one? If I should, comment
"looks" in the comments below to let me know that that's something you're interested in.
I really appreciate your feedback. Thank you for leaving me comments. Again,
if you would like more videos like this, comment "looks" to let me know.
Okay, are you ready for the one that's going to shock you the most?
The last thing you need to know before I can answer, "Do women really care about looks?"
is that toxic people, toxic women, will tell you that looks are all that matter.
So at this point you might be thinking, "Okay, so then why do some people make it sound like that's
all that matters? Why can I watch a video or read a blog post or read an article on social media
and just feel like all that matters is what I look like, and that artificial fake look?"
It's because toxic people will tell you that's all that matters.
Now, if you're not sure what a toxic person is, don't worry. Make sure you watch this
video. I'll put a link in the description below. That's where I explain it more.
Sadly, toxic people don't care about people.
They care about using people. They're incredibly selfish.
A toxic woman doesn't care about you and your needs,
or even necessarily a long-term relationship.
She just cares about boosting her massively overinflated ego.
However, a good, loving, adorable woman who just wants to hand her heart to you forever,
she's interested in more than just looks.
So what's the answer to, "Do women really care about looks?"
Here it comes. Are you ready?
The answer is no, and yes.
She needs you to give her butterflies. She needs you to be attractive
and to be making an effort in that area.
At the same time, she needs you to be human. She needs you to be a good man to marry.
That's what Prince Charming means to her.
The more I learn about attraction, and this is what I do 24-7, I learn about attraction a lot.
The more I learn about attraction, the more I see over and over again
it's not as complicated and impossible as most people think it is to be attractive.
So now I have a question for you.
Are you ready to stop wasting your valuable time trying and failing to piece it together yourself?
Watch my short free masterclass to learn how you can join me in my Academy,
so you can have a jaw-dropping woman to hold close forever.
That's where you'll discover the 5 unknown secrets to finding the right woman for you,
making her fall so completely in love with you that you get to wake up to her soft,
gentle touch every morning for the rest of your life.
Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass and watch it now.
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Thank you so much again for watching, my amazing friend, and have an amazing day!
[blooper beep] Hello, my wonderful friend! To-
Ah, I already messed it up. That's okay. [laughter] Round two.
-That's where you'll discover the 5 unknown secrets to finding the right woman for you,
making her fall- [gibberish] [laughter] I can't talk.
I did it. You have to do a little happy dance when you accomplish something good.
Oh yeah! Oh yeah! Oh yeah! Oh yeah! [laughter]
You're welcome to steal that song. It's my little gift to you.
Next time you're feeling really happy, just go, "Oh yeah! Oh yeah! Oh yeah!" If you do that,
please come back and comment and tell me. [laughter] Cause that would just make my day.
Okay, I think I'm done now. See you next time!