Hey Tripp with the help of your advice I've been getting a good number of matches on Tinder and
other apps. Let me interrupt this real quick... I should say, I know we're talking about online
dating here. I do have an online dating program that if you guys want to get this, you will get
a lot of matches from online. It's called Online Domination, I'll put a link there in the podcast
notes as well. And you can get that. It is a program that I've created that has been insane at
getting guys results at getting a lot of matches on all dating apps and sites. And it's a special,
basically, a system that is very efficient for getting lots of dates, tweaking your profile,
to make it so it is the most attractive that it can be. And then using a very special messaging
sequence that you just copy and paste to get a lot of matches. Link for that in the show notes if you
need more help. Hey Tripp with the help of your advice, I've been getting a good number of matches
on Tinder and other apps. But a few times when the earliest time we can meet was 4 to 5 days away...
okay, we got another one here. I love it. But a few times when the earliest we could meet was
4 to 5 days away, they've lost interest in that time. I'm keeping in mind that A you can't build
attraction over text and 2 the point of texting is to get them to meet up so once we have a night set
for drinks, my only plan for interaction between that meeting is something like looking forward to
tonight the day of, if that. Should I be saying less or more? Or is there nothing you can do if
a girl flakes on you? For whatever it's worth I'm 37 and mostly talking to women 32 - 45. Okay so...
if you... again, I guess we're diving into this more and that's totally fine. This is great. This
person is seeing that they are getting a lot of matches, and they are setting drinks, but there's
a lot of flakes. I'd like to hear what those numbers are. Because what I'm guessing is, if a
woman is flaking on you... I'm not guessing, this is this is truth... if a woman is flaking on you,
it is a 2% chance that it's from texting. You're going to hear from women, by the way,
which goes completely against my advice. You're going to hear from women, "oh no, you better
be texting. If the guy's not texting me. I'm assuming he's not interested... blah, blah, blah."
No. Listen, the reason why they're not interested is because they're not interested in that guy.
Because the profile to them was something that was not that interesting. The profile was just okay
and they're just going with it. My advice to you is fix your profile. You want women to
actually stick with these dates? It's not going to be texting, by the way I should... isn't
this good news? Don't guys want to hear this? I would imagine guys would want to hear permission
to not sit there and text all day. This is not sustainable. It's not a sustainable lifestyle...
to be sitting there and texting. And you know what happens? You know what happens? You end up then
setting the precedent to that girl that you're a texter and that you're texting all the time and
then when you start dating you have to text her all the time. This is a waste of your time. You
should be doing other things. And it's gonna make you look needy. Basically, you're setting yourself
up for disaster from the very beginning if you're a big texter because it's going to eventually...
high chance of blowing up in your face and you're going to be saying something wrong over text,
showing neediness, whatever it is. It's no good. I'm imagining here... anonymous, that you are
either A your profile is not as good as it could be... or just one thing, your
profile is not as good as it could be so you're getting a lot of low interest women to agree.
That's what's happening. Hands down. There is no way that all these women and I wonder how many
there are. Sometimes people think that they're matching and setting up a lot of dates and the
numbers like 3. So I wonder if this is like 20. But again, I couldn't imagine... there's no way
that you've had 20 dates set up, all of them, a reasonable amount away, like what you're saying
is 4 to 5 days away and all of them flaked. Girls flake anyway, by the way. There will be a girl
who you'll text and let's say you send the perfect text, she'll still flake.
She'll still flake if she has low interest in you. Do you see what I'm saying here? I
hope I'm proving my point. She'll still flake on you if she has low interest. Let's imagine there's
a girl, you match with her, you set up a date and you're thinking alright, I gotta text her because
the dates like 3 to 4 to 5 days away. I gotta text her to build attraction. If she has low interest,
nothing you can text is going to get her to meet up with you. Very, very rare. I would say for you,
you need to fix your profile. I wonder what's going on there.
It's great that you get a good number of matches, but something's going on in your
profile that's not keeping women too interested. And or it's the messaging. I wonder what you're
saying on there. I wonder what messages you're sending. And then what message subconsciously
that you're sending to them through your messages. You could have the wrong system and structure. As
you can see gentleman, I fight tooth and nail on this one. We don't want to set the precedent. We
don't want to be a texter. You want to be going on lots of dates. We want to filter harder.
And we want to get you to have the best profile possible.