- Have you ever fallen in love with a man,
but you are scared that he will be interested
in other women?
In this video,
I'm gonna be breaking down some of the reasons
of why this happens and how you can prevent it.
Hello ladies, my name is Ieva Bereisaite.
I am one of Greta's High-Value Women Coaches.
And in this video,
I'm gonna be sharing four tips
that will make your guy less interested in other women.
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So without further ado,
let's jump into tip number one.
Tip number one is all about being aware of your emotions
and not being needy.
When it comes to the starting stages of a relationship,
everything seems so magical,
especially when you guys really like each other.
It feels great.
The conversations are good,
and you guys are attracted to each other.
In some cases,
the woman might feel more attracted to the guy
than the guy is attracted to her.
If this happens,
the woman becomes vulnerable because her heart
is then literally out there, you know,
it's much more likely to get hurt.
Sometimes women become so attached to the guy
'cause they like him so much that they become scared
when the conversation gets a little bit less,
or when you guys speak less to each other.
The woman might automatically be scared.
Women tend to want to be in that in-love stage
for a long time, right?
And the in-love stage that I'm talking about
is really the beginning of the relationship
when you get butterflies in your tummy,
when there is real excitement of meeting the person again,
and when we are in that in-love stage,
everything's great.
But at some point, that stage does pass.
You might want to be in that in-love and romantic
and exciting stage of the relationship at the beginning
for as long as possible.
And when that in-love stage
ever so slightly starts disappearing,
a lot of women tend to become needy.
And because women become needy
or a lot of women become needy in this stage,
they reach out to the guy more,
they start pursuing him more than they would normally would
in the hopes of keeping that in-love
and exciting butterfly stage alive.
It is very important to enjoy the beginning stages
of a relationship,
when you get butterflies in your tummy,
when you're excited to see each other and so on.
Those stages are important, but women,
or we should not be blinded by them.
When we get blinded by love in that stage,
and don't really think rationally,
but just only really think with our emotions,
a lot of the time problems do arise
because the woman in this case tends to become needy, right?
And does not act like a challenge anymore
and does not let the guy pursue her anymore
but instead pursues him in a way by reaching out,
asking if everything's okay when he contacts her less.
Right?
And that takes a lot of the challenge away for a man
and makes the relationship boring for him.
When the relationship becomes boring for him,
he would then possibly look out for other women.
Keep your emotions in place and keep yourself
in that high-value mindset.
Okay?
And whatever you do do not start acting needy and low value
because this is one of the reasons why the guy might later
on start looking out for other women.
Tip number two is to not give away your cookie
for as long as you can.
Because women do get emotionally attached after snuggling up
with someone or especially sleeping with someone, okay.
It is important that that does not happen
in the early starting stages of a relationship.
This is important because firstly,
the benefits of this is that you are guarding
your own heart, right?
And that is important. That is your duty to basically do.
And the second benefit of this is,
is that you will be a challenge for the guy.
Guys actually remember
and they do know just how long it took them
to sleep with you, right?
It doesn't matter how long the relationship is or has been,
the guy will know if it,
and he will remember if it was easy
or if it was a challenge for him.
And when you give it away too soon,
the chances of a guy being interested long term sink.
Basically don't give you a cookie away
for as long as you can.
Simply for as long as you feel is appropriate. Okay?
And when you do this,
your relationship will overall improve
and will have a certain standard of not being easy to get.
He will definitely not forget this and this will make
the relationship more special.
In addition to this, you will not come across as easy,
but you will come across more of a challenge.
And after all, it's better for you as well.
You want to really get to know the person first, right?
That's what a high-value woman does.
She gets to know the person and she finds out if okay,
what he has to offer.
Is it good enough for me?
Can I, you know, imagine a future with this person?
If not, then what's really the point of seeing them, right?
And so it's very important to keep this tip in mind,
especially if you are in this situation of this question,
kind of arising for you.
I can really suggest taking as much time as you need
and not giving your cookie away for as long as you can.
There are not many women out there who are a challenge,
okay?
Because they do give their cookie away too soon.
So be a challenge, right?
And because you are going to be a challenge
through using this tip,
a man will then automatically not be interested
in other women because he is focused on you
and getting your attention.
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Tip number three is to be high value along the relationship.
The problem in a lot of relationships
is when they start, right?
And when the woman starts acting high value from day one,
and if that's the case, that's amazing, right?
So starting to act high value from day one
or as soon as possible, is the way to go.
And then keeping that standard throughout the relationship.
Right?
And even if you guys really do get comfortable
with each other,
still keeping that high-value standard
all of the time is key.
The problem arises when a high-value man notices
that you become needy
or that you get really too comfortable in a relationship
and let your guard down,
let your high-value guard down,
let him step over your boundaries,
go to his place late in the evening,
meet up for dates spontaneously, call him, act needy,
do things that are not yours to do, right?
And that is really,
really one of the biggest turnoffs
for a man when it comes down to relationships.
And I have seen so many relationships fail
because the high-value standard
is not kept throughout the relationship.
Right?
For example,
when a woman is in a relationship and in the beginning,
she might seem hard to get and as a challenge and so on,
and then she really starts liking the guy.
She really starts liking the guy and she kind of lets
her guard down, and really opens up,
talks lots about her past and really doesn't guard her heart
and really just falls in love with like,
what do you call it?
Like when you're blinded by love, right?
That will not last long.
He will want to,
most guys will then take advantage of that
and sleep with you and then they won't call you back.
Right?
So the best case scenario is to act high value
and see what he has to offer.
And when you do get into the relationship,
of course,
enjoy the relationship and enjoy the beautiful parts
and the falling in love and everything
that the relationship has to offer,
but remember that you are in charge of still like guarding
your heart and acting high value, right?
It is important to not let that standard
that you set in the start of the relationship fall.
And that might be the trickiest part for some women. Okay.
Especially when being high value
doesn't come completely naturally yet, okay?
And things that don't come naturally straight away
have to be learned and practiced.
Of course a relationship is work and it does take time
to find the right balance for your own relationship
and to see what really works well in your relationship.
Right?
It does take work and it does take time,
and it is also important not just to be preoccupied
with your relationship, but to have of course,
a life outside of that.
That way you will also naturally always be a challenge
for your guy.
Tip number four is to be a little bit mysterious.
Being mysterious and being a chase goes hand in hand.
When a guy doesn't fully know what you were up to,
you automatically are seen as a challenge.
When you give too much away of your life,
without him even asking what you're up to,
already, you're giving away the mystery.
When you talk about your entire life story on dates
in full detail, the mystery is gone.
When you talk about the past a lot,
the mystery is also gone.
I know of a lot of women that are in the starting stages
of relationships and they go on dates and they overshare,
and then they think,
"Oh, I shouldn't have said that.
I shouldn't have said that."
So if you are that type of person that really,
really likes talking naturally, right?
And maybe you're afraid that you're gonna be oversharing,
sometimes it is definitely better to say less
than it is more,
and to kind of get that habit of thinking before speaking,
it sounds super simple, but not that many people do it.
And it really does save us from a lot of unnecessary
situations or a lot of embarrassing and awkward
and low-value situations.
This is sometimes easier said than done.
So again,
one of the best things that you can do is when you are
in the relationship, see what balance works best for you,
how much mystery and how much, you know,
of a challenge works well for your specific relationship.
It's a little bit different in every relationship
since people are a little bit different, you know,
personality wise and so on.
And see what works best for you in your own relationship.
Mystery does however go a long way,
and it is a very intriguing trait to have.
Not many people have it nowadays,
especially because of social media.
But if you do have that mystery,
that is very intriguing for a man.
That's about it, ladies, those were my four tips.
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