hello lovely people you guys really love
to redo the rudest questions QA during
vlogmas so we thought we'd do a part two
to answer will the problem there's not
many rude questions yeah
so to be clear a Buddhist question is a
question that starts with I don't want
to be rude so it may be like I don't be
rude but what's wrong with Jessica well
the one that kind of got to me for some
reason was I don't want to be rude but
why does my quota wear makeup now I am
wearing makeup
why should i he talks about that now
that's not a lot I think she tells
people she's offended I think it's
because I sort of tomboyish girl I've
always struggled to do my makeup and I
don't know how to do it I'm like yeah
yeah
femininity it's a suit oh my god yeah
actually whatever moving on it's fine it
doesn't matter whatever who cares what
they say you're perfect just the way you
yeah so thank you very much to everyone
who suggested the second round of
questions in our stories in our drink
Instagram which is at Jessie employed
and going follow in the link in the
description down below we also have our
own instagrams bit Jessie what's really
cute yeah I only really like posting
when I'm on a hot day cuz it's like oh
I'm inspired by so much stuff and when
you're at home which is that more well
you know Bujji next week going on
holiday we're going to Rome for the five
year anniversary of our engagement and
my birthday I mean cuz we got engaged in
Rome it's not like we go away every time
it's an anniversary of engagement I
don't want to be rude but I'm starting
with a nice one okay I don't want to
read that are you really such a perfect
couple in real life like no one is
really that cute yeah we're kind of
sickeningly
sorry yes we're actually kind of
disgusting it freaks out our friends and
they hate it but still I don't know if
it freaks them out yeah we genuinely and
our best friends who do absolutely
everything to you some of our friends
think we're like this and genuine do you
think they think we're putting on a bit
of a like like you know bit like if
someone's trying so hard that they're so
fat like that they've actually got
behind the scenes everybody know
time to make people think that no I
think they're just very annoyed by us
and a constant need to be near each
other and do all the same things and
obsessive I don't want to be rude but
what can you see out of your blind eye
nothing specks of light yeah the time
zoo counties like to trust exercise I
poked her in it that's what our
relationship is thank you
well actually so I went blind in this
eye like 12 years ago almost that's real
long time ago
so around the outside there's just black
and then in the middle there are like
these weird like it's light and it's
like a kind of very blurry kaleidoscope
and it gives me headaches if I look out
of it yeah for too much and then I have
to readjust my vision sorry yeah baby
your eye is picking up light now I can't
see properly but it's not yeah yeah it
doesn't interpret it as an image yeah
it's a bit of a problem if I'm reading
and I'm getting quite tired basically
what I can see is one eye is reading the
text but the other is superimposing on
that blurry whiteness because the black
doesn't really show through because it's
too small the text so it just gets
blurry or blurring
larrya despite the fact that one eye can
see I don't want to be rude but how do
you keep on being good friends with
Stevie Bobby
she's just so different prove you mean
like that you have to be conflicted
we're good friends with Stevie because
we really enjoy her presence and I think
she's good friends with us because she
enjoys our presence also there are so
many things that we agree on that are
more important than being a cool la
lesbian and being two very British
homebodies
yeah I mean to be honest it's like what
your life value what you genuinely care
about what you don't like to see in the
world what you like discern the world
the goodness that you see in people with
Oh Stevie it's not great seeing the
goodness in people sometimes do you
annoyed it too much I'm sure she let the
world burn but it's also good to have
friends who have differences and then
you can work together like she sometimes
helps me by getting angry at people for
me she'll be like no Jessica don't take
that be a strong businesswoman like me
and I'll be like okay I'm learning and I
really like calm down Stevie that person
didn't mean to offend you very deeply
just take a step oh yeah I help each
other
wonderful friendship I don't mean to be
rude but I often repost from disabled
influences about how they don't want to
be inspiration born to people they want
to be recognized and appreciated as
normal people but I do find you all to
be inspirational and personally
encouraging so am i part of the problem
am i doing the very thing I genuinely
don't know I would say no it's fine it
depends on why you're being inspired I
have a video about this it's inspiring
and uttering someone yeah is the bad
thing aspired by someone and seeing them
as a real human being is the good one to
me I kind of break it down more in the
fact that it's why you're inspired by
them so if it's just that they've
overcome a hurdle
continue to do well in life then you can
take that lesson to be like I have a
hurdle it doesn't have to be the same
thing and then you get over that hurdle
in the same way by taking the
inspiration to do so that's fine it's
when you're just inspired by someone
purely because you're like oh my god is
the live and disables inspirational and
don't be rude but when was the first
time you did it okay sure it wasn't day
number three okay very hooked her a
cauliflower pizza
Jessica was very taken aback by how for
which she was yeah I never do this I
know me wait I know me go out so it's
like one test for contact Georgia is
only the second person that I have ever
dated and in my previous relationship
I'm even away for months yeah but that's
good you were a virgin
yeah - the second time anyway but I mean
if you want to wait four months that's
fine too
and you do you for goodness sake don't
you we just merely just keep our hands
off each other
I don't want to be rude but chronic
fatigue and sex I'm struggling well
depends how much upon us demanding for
me really actually it's not just about
that it's not I remember when we first
got together I being very happy yeah and
that was not great necessarily because
then I was way too tired to like do
anything else when you went into wackos
like oh good you didn't need to do
anything else we're like making the
foundations of our love
yeah strong foundations obviously well
yeah just be open and honest about your
own limit open with yourself as well you
have to sometimes tell yourself that
things can't happen even if you want
them to happen because you need to go to
so much sex stuff guys have you ever had
a threesome and I know it's a very very
monogamous so very much so I was I'm
actually kind of sad that I've ever
kissed anyone not 40 I've never even had
a threesome outside of you either I can
have them in the past Ivan I had a
three-way kiss now so disgusting yeah
well move on not a rude question but
about them what if I'm curious about
someone with a disability is it rude to
us as in is it rude to go someone to be
like hi what's your disability I see if
it's someone that you know has a
disability and you just want to find out
more about it like someone at work and
you know that they are lined so you want
to know about that Google it's called
Google it's great it was really helpful
oh you mean like but it's rude to be
like if you suddenly have a like
unquenchable curiosity I'm like wanting
to know how they got mind and when they
went blind yeah like how do they go yes
so basically disabled people don't exist
to be a thesaurus an encyclopedia on all
things disabled even it's just relating
to their own disability if they want to
share their personal experience with you
then they will do that in there
time sayo it would be it would be rude
to go off and be like when did you go
blind how did you go blind I mean
obviously that's rude right I'll say
obviously some people might not I think
it's wrong I think I've definitely heard
people to ask people questions like that
were really up from stuff definitely
asked yeah oh my god you're laughing
it's like just like have you always been
deaf like I don't know light is that
rude see it doesn't want to person by
person legally oh yeah ugly a hard
answer my question at least like if you
present with like Kara's card or
disability card or whatever it is you
call it the person like cinema some
people have that card not everyone on
the train over like public transport
person or whenever who's checking your
card they can't then be like oh and
what's your disability yeah no one's
allowed to ask you what your disability
or it's like if when you oppress request
special assistance at the airport they
can't say oh boy any I should give
wheelchairs out to people who have like
problems with their legs so can you like
classify what's your disability I mean
that has happened before yeah but not in
England's happen in Malaysia I think
it's about timing and I'm really happy
to chat to someone about deafness and my
deafness in particular when I want to
talk about that if I don't want to talk
about it then yes my heart does sink
when someone goes oh so how deaf are you
have you always been done but why do you
sound like that if you're deaf I'm those
things and I'm like I just wanted to
come out and have a meal with my friends
and you friend of a friend who I don't
know very well particularly want to
explain my new feelings too great
equivalent of going up someone you don't
know very well and saying to them say
your mom died tell me about that yeah
that's true
well like somebody's go like premature
hair loss would you go up with me like
see bald does that really night really
sucks you got that bald patch man you're
only like 32 best kid
oh my god okay that's really easy I
think okay our best kissed from my point
of view basically when children I'm at
each other we spent every single day and
night together but Claudia did actually
have a job as well so one night she's
like I'm gonna go home and actually
sleep at my place because I've got to be
up really early the next morning to go
to work and I was like sure I'm a big
brave strong girl
I'll be fine I'll be fine so I just sat
there on my bed texting her telling her
how much I missed her and she was like
yeah this bed now feels really weird and
empty and lonely without you and I don't
like my room I wish I was in your room
and I was like and then just that cool
answer your door I was like what you
didn't and then I ran down shadow you
didn't say I love you so much maybe you
didn't know head because we hadn't
talked she said that was like three okay
anyway you ruined it because I ran
downstairs and then I pulled open the
door and there she wasn't she was like
hi I just came to give you a kiss
goodnight yeah I had me no work yeah I
had been at work that week I think I
hadn't seen you feel like what like two
nights but yeah the work that day and
that yeah and then we kissed and then
she went home I remember I walked all
the way from my I got home from work and
I walked all the way from my house to
your house and I didn't know if you'd
definitely be in what so it was a bit of
a gamble because sometimes even if you
are and you can't hear me knocking on
the door luckily you have alter this
around this time so he kind of quite
alerted you to the fact it was really
nice it was really nice so took me by
surprise
yeah that was good Jessica was like
waiting at a taxi rank after all this is
our second date and and then just random
chatter I don't think it's not nervous
maybe a little bit nervous anyway and I
thought I was like super cool and I was
like Shh but then I guess yeah but not
like that kind of gather don't like a
book then you were taking it I just
member your arms by your side mm-hmm and
then I said sorrows be wanting to do
that with evening
and then I was like come back to mine
and she was like no I don't want to be
rude but why aren't you adopting because
there are tons of kids who are waiting
to be adopted and that's a fair enough
question and the answer is that we would
like to adopt one day that it's
definitely something that we would like
to happen um but it is quite difficult
to adopt Ana's easier to adopt if you
can show that you know how to look after
trials adoption is definitely something
that we would like to do in the future
we will say then as we get old maybe
once our kids so older we'd quite like
to foster as well I particularly would
really like to adopt children who have
some kind of disability or deafness
because they're often left it's very
hard to find families who are willing to
adopt children who have different needs
or someone who's been thrown out of
their home either permanently or
temporarily because of lgbtq+ issues
what's on a personal never like you
Jessica was told from like 1617 that she
wouldn't be able to like carry a child
to term or and potentially and even if
she could like giving the actual active
labour would be damaging to her body am
i doing it so she was from a young age
being like okay well I'm going to a dog
we're going to adopt even before then
okay well you know like I knew you have
siblings who were adopted
I mean cousins are adopted yeah so I've
always thought about that I would do it
biologically and that's something that I
just personally want to do at least for
the first child just because I want to
have that experience that experience
basically and then I mean there's any
shame in saying that um there are a lot
of questions that are based around
parenting and disabilities like are you
scared about being a disabled parent
how will you adapt your home and house
to accommodate a baby if you have a
child are you worried about dropping the
baby treatm ability issues so lots of
these things and yeah that's a very good
question am I kind of scared of it yeah
but also you just got to make it work
and I have a lot of love to give
definitely gonna be great mum thank you
very the most important
is to just be consistent with your love
yeah and just be unconditional love to
the child and they know that you're
always like if you can provide that
emotional stability you very emotionally
stable yeah as long as you can provide
that emotional stability that's the most
important thing and physical you know I
think it's fine to just be like oh mom
can't pick you up today or get out of
bed today but then they can come to you
and have cuddles
yeah you know cuz even in the days where
I'm really really feeling although I'm
still me
yeah but I mean on a practical level I'm
gonna take nine months at least out of
work so I'll be like full-time mummy and
Jessica's gonna continue working for the
pointers like when it's a baby baby baby
I will be around all the time to like
yeah help out cuz I know Jessica's
nervous about that yes but it will be
fine like I did I have babysat my nephew
yeah I myself fine you just have to ask
the child to do things you've never
dropped Tilly I've never dropped Tilly
that's true
to knowing what something you have no
awareness that you're like a little bit
unbalanced then you just like yeah
anyway we shall see okay last question
okay I don't mean to be rude but what's
something you wish the other would do
more I really wish Claudia would give in
to the dogs last I knew you're gonna say
something like that because I'm right
here in that face like you know crowed
you're a knight
parents are dogs very differently in it
I'm kind of the one that makes rules and
then keeps the rules and Claudia is the
one you guys yes those rules are an
excellent idea excuse me while I break
them all oh I know what maybe I it's
like a reverse answer what do I wish you
would do more I wish you would be more
easy on yourself oh when I see your new
year's resolution to say you know didn't
I say I said it yourself then you gotta
do it no who'd you love the much
yourself and me so yes I love Claudia
car the nurse
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I'm like oh god you were actually reach
easiest romantic hmm anyway bye bye
hello lovely people I just smacked
myself in the Oder Oh take three
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