you'll find it's very rare nowadays you'll find somebody who's successful
and shy at the same time majority of time they're confident and they're
successful and that's the way things are why because when you're confident you're
effective at communicating your message out to the masses which means that you
become a master salesperson and you guys know when your master salesperson guess
what you can attract all of that wealth into your life it's a trait of every
millionaire and billionaire they're amazing at selling so confidence is
really the key to becoming more successful in life so in today's video I
really want to reveal to you the three key daily habits of confident people and you
may be wondering Tim what gives you the right to talk about this well for all of
you who see my life story video you guys know up until the age of 17 I spend
majority of my life as a socially anxious person as somebody who's really
shy and somebody who really lacked self-esteem as a result it has impacted
all areas of mine they impacted my health because my anxiety at one point
was so bad I couldn't actually go out onto the street because I thought
everybody in cars were looking at me and judging me I couldn't get myself to the
gym and it really impacted my relationship because all of my friends
had girlfriends I remember and I couldn't even talk to girls let alone
approach them impacted my wealth I couldn't get myself for jobs I had no
confidence to start a business the only job I actually ended up getting was a
toilet cleaning job it really impacted all areas of life and this really goes
to show how being shy really is a trait that can hold you back in life but you
guys know today this isn't the story of my life today I can speak on the stage
and influence the lives of hundreds of people today I've network with the
world's most renowned entrepreneurs today I've got the love of my life I've
got a fiance beautiful girl called Toma and today I can really just network and
just create that positive network within myself because I've learned how to
really master the art being extrovert and notice I call it an
art because I am still an introvert to this day I recharge when I'm on my own
but I've mastered the art of what it really takes to become an extrovert so I
can speak on the stage as a result so I can go to networking parties and really
just foster that positive connections that you need to become successful in
life so this is why I believe these three key habits will help you to really
become that confident person I believe you are so make sure to take plenty of
notes take massive action and most importantly turn it into a habit okay
because don't expect to get massive results just from trying out today
because what you're going against is really negative neural connections right
as all of these patterns you've been running throughout your life for you to
basically assume that after one video your problems get fixed you're in
Disneyland you've got to do it for the next 90 days or more to really get the
maximum results from what I'm gonna be teaching you so without further ado
let's go on to the first point the first point is all to do with diet and fitness
and you may be thinking Tim really you diet and fitness is that the secret well
yes it is you wouldn't put shit in a Ferrari now would you and yet majority
people out there are trying to feel good they're trying to be a high performer
I've coached hundreds of people all around the world who come to me wanting the
latest productivity secrets right and they want coaching mentoring and then
when I check their diet it just isn't fueling them right how do
you expect to be productive throughtout day if you just eat crap it just doesn't make
sense so you've got to study this field of nutrition study what you're actually
putting into your body is fueling you on a day to day basis consider taking
supplements to supplement your healthy diet and I've got a list of supplements
I take every single day to maintain my high-performance state and you can go
check that out by following this card that's gonna pop up right now so make
sure to really just get your diet in check and you'll notice a big difference
after 60 days 90 days moving forward and in regards to fitness fitness is really
important because it's not in regards to just your health benefits
but because of this feeling you get after the gym okay don't get me wrong
when you're firstly starting the gym it's hard it's annoying
but once it turns into a habit comes addictive why because after you hit the
gym you get this burst of feel-good hormones and guess what when you feel
good you're going to feel more confident thus be able to really just communicate
to other people and really just create more of that life that you truly deserve
so make sure to really follow through with the diet and fitness moving
forwards now going on to the second point the second point is all about fostering
the right network around you the late and great Jim Rohn said this you
are the average of the five people you spend the most time with and this has
been the story of my life so far all of you guys know when I used to hang around
with negative people guess what I became one of them but today I hang around with
very successful people and guess what I've become a reflection of them the
question I wanna ask you is who are you really hang around with at the moment
are they really your dream idols right or are they just you know somebody who
is actually just reflection of your negative self are they really shy as
well because if you truly want to become confident and you want to be an
effective sales person you've got to come around with people who are you've
got to upgrade you got to trade up because that's the only way you're gonna
truly become that confident being and this is what I did because at the age of
17 one of the first pillars I was targeting was relationships so what did
I do I started to hang around with people who
were good at talking to women and guess what before you know it I became
excellent at talking women before you know it I could like walk along the
beach see a group of girls and I could start talking to every single
one of them something I would have direct literally like six months prior
that I would be able to do one day and it became a reality because I upgraded my
peer group I started to hang around with people who was getting results and
because I was hanging around with this people they were pushing me to take
action as well so peer group is so so important my advice to you right now is
to actually consider joining our Facebook community
called Success Insider Secret group consisting of almost 17,000 people now
from all across the globe you can join that group by following the link above
right now or following the link in the description box below make sure to join
and just really introduce yourself that way you can trade up and find these
positive people that's gonna push you outside of your boundary so you can
truly create that life that you really want to live so take onboard that advice
upgrade your peer group how many times have to say it do it right you've got to
do it if you truly want results in your life now going on to the third point
which is the final point it's all to do with positive self-talk and physiology
physiology is the way you carry yourself your body language and I read a great
book on this which I recommend on my site you can click through to the card
above to go check it out or you can follow the link in description box below
to go over to my website to a recommendation section and I recommend
this book that teaches all to this body language how the way you stood you
basically portrayed different messages and signals to other people and it also
helps you to feel different than when you stood like very confident guess what
you feel confident and the way you're breathing because majority of shy people
are breathing from their lungs so they're clumsy like out of breath right
so they feel even more shine while on other other hands confident people they
speak from the stomach and it breath from the stomach and it gives more certainty
when you're breathing and speaking from the stomach so these little tweaks
really really make the biggest difference moving forward so make sure
to check out that book and really adopt the confident physiology now going on to
the positive self-talk what I mean by that is majority people out there are
really beating themselves up and you're letting the negative which I like to called
the criticizer that get the best of you you've got to listen and you've gotta
get clarity on who you really are because there are multiple voices that's
happening in your mind right and you got to really listen to this silent inner
voice that is the guiding star and you let that really guide you that that
voice I call it the champion let the champion speak out whenever the
criticizes like my just yapping away just tell it to shut the F up right and
listen to the champion it makes the biggest difference moving forward so
insiders they are the three points I hope you found this video helpful if you have
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insider and as always my friend follow your heart
and take action and go live that confident life you're born to live
speak to you soon