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you're gonna have a much better understanding of how to cultivate a
growth mindset now why would that be important why would you want to
cultivate a growth mindset well when you have a growth mindset you can kind of
put things on autopilot a bit you don't have to think about them as much not to
focus on them as much you naturally gravitate toward greater growth and
fulfilling your potential I've spent the last several years working on myself and
with many many clients using NLP to do exactly that the whole idea is not just
to accomplish one thing the idea is to become that person who accomplishes what
it is that you want what it is that fulfills you and satisfies you and is
meaningful to you now before I jump into this just to let you know if along the
way throughout this video you have questions or comments I really encourage
you to type them into the comments section down below I will respond to you
also find down below in the description I give you a link there that you can
click and you'll get a free copy of the elements of a healthy self-concept which
plays right into cultivating a growth mindset it all starts with having a very
healthy sense of self I'll talk a little bit more about that later so the first
thing is is that you want to presuppose that anything that has potential wants
to grow and that's you you have potential therefore you naturally want
to grow not only do you naturally want to grow growth is quite natural now
yes there might you might be say that you know I have all these things that
I've tried and it hasn't worked out and I understand that this can come from
internal obstacles it can come from limiting beliefs but I
assure you if you spend time with anything you will get better at it if
you spend time doing something long enough you will get better you will
accomplish what it is that you want so presuppose that you naturally want to
grow that nothing is really trying to stop you from growing that it is your
natural state to actualize your potential and that itself is growth the
next step here is to get clear about what growth will do for you
this will make growth extremely motivating now you might be looking at
or you might be paying a lot of attention to people who have
accomplishments and success and personal growth that looks really good and is
envied by most people and that might be why you're interested in that kind of
growth and to that I would say still go for it because you will along that
journey if you keep going and you never quit you will discover what it is that
is truly your potential and you can do a lot of homework beforehand on this to
get very clear about it and that is - if you're feeling this call to grow that is
to get clear about what that growth would do for you what is important about
this so you want to cultivate that growth mindset well I say you already
have it so just connect with it and if you're having trouble connecting with it
then ask yourself well what would growth do for me what would personal growth do
for me and it may be good for you to separate out the two the the different
types of growth you know there's physical growth where you are
cultivating a healthier body there is personal growth
personal growth can break off into a lot of smaller ones there may be social
growth there may be career growth so it might be a good idea to chunk things
down into different contexts so if I were to grow in my career what would
that do for me what would that look like what would
that sound like if I were to grow in my social life
again what would that look like what would that sound like what would I be
doing and what would it do for me what would be important about that if I got
to where I wanted to be socially what would that do for me
and then the same thing physically if I wanted to grow in my health what would
that do for me what's important about it and you can ask these questions
repeatedly as the answers come up keep applying the questions what's important
about that to me what what would that do for me
and this gets where you start to really tap into your values behind what growth
means to you and this is extremely motivating in fact this is what
motivation is a lot of people think motivation is you know pumping yourself
up and you know you see this in a lot of the good with the Guru's and they're
their workshops and they're their events now that stuff fades really really fast
so when you tap into though your values what's really driving your desires
that's where true motivation is and as long as you're tapped into that as long
as you're connected with that you'll never have to look for a motivation ever
again because you'll feel it the motivation will come from you so you're
very clear about what's important to you about growth and what will growing do
for you and again if you try to go at this like really broad in general you
might have trouble coming up with answers but if you break it down to the
individual context where you want to grow this gets a lot easier and the
answers will come a lot easier and the third thing you can do that I find
extremely helpful is create a vision of yourself the ideal you the you who is
always growing and create an image of yourself with no particular context and
you're not doing any particular behavior and the reason for this is that it will
generalize most widely throughout your life you just see an image of you the
ideal you who is always growing who's growing in all the ways that you want to
be growing who is creating everything in your life that you want because you're
growing into it you're becoming that person who has the things that you want
who has a life that you want and who has accomplished what you want and see that
image right in front of yourself remember no particular context you can
do a green screen behind you you can do a white screen black screen whatever it
works for you just see that ideal image of yourself
and no particular behavior you're just standing there or sitting there in the
image and just there's something about this image and tune it up make it very
compelling make it bright big colorful this is the you who is always growing
and this will give you motivation this will also give you a direction to follow
to become him or her to become that person who is a person who is growing
into your potential at all times of course there's always a lot more to this
there's always more to cultivating a growth mindset but what I've given you
in this video is extremely powerful the three things you need to do is
presuppose it anything with potential wants to grow that's you you have
potential and you want to grow and then ask yourself what will growing do for
you and this this is where your motivation is going to come from
break it down into individual contexts ask yourself what would growing be like
what would it do for you what's important about it then also last but
not least create a vision of yourself put it right out in front of you make it
very motivating compelling and this is the growing year the one the the you who
is growing into your potential and this is can be extremely motivating so if you
want to take this even deeper if you want to go further with it like I said
the beginning of the video in the description below you will find a link
you click that link and it will bring you to an option to download a free pdf
and the PDF is the elements of a healthy self-concept do you really want to
supercharge your potential and your growth very very important that you come
from a healthy solid strong foundation and that is your sense of self there's
nothing that is stronger there is no bigger stronger belief in your life and
who you are then your identity your self-concept so check that PDF out if
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