Hello, hi Becca, hi, how are you? Thank
You my name is Jake from Minneapolis. Yeah. Oh I
wasn't sure if
You'd remember. Oh my god. No, hi
You look so pretty. Thank you. All right
What the heck I definitely didn't expect to see anyone when I semi-new coming a little limo Oh
Jake is an acquaintance. I've met him on multiple occasions. And so now I
Don't know I don't know
Jake is from Minnesota and we run in the same group of friends and we've hung out multiple times
But he's never shown any interest in me up until now so I want to know exactly why he's here
Well, it's so good to see you you too. I can't believe we're here. I'm not who I am
Like what I saw was like me. Yeah. Is he here for me or what? Is he doing here?
We've hung out a couple times in the same circle. And so
There was just like never really any interest. I remember meeting here at the Christmas party. Well we met before that
Honest to god don't remember that. Anyway, I hope you don't hold that against me
no, and I don't I just
You know at the end of the day like I'm here to find a partner for life
and I just want to make sure that
That person is on the same page just me and like wants the same things and that
Every decision and everything that I do is not wasting anyone's time
I mean it when I say, I'm really thankful to be here and I'm excited to get to know you
yeah you and I know that you say that I just
I'm not a hundred percent comfortable
Well, just knowing that we've met multiple times in the past and just not really having any
any interest
Gene, do you know that I have one conscious recollection of meeting you?
Yeah
no, and I get that but we have met time many times before and I think I would just constantly question your intentions here and
And I I'd so appreciate you coming here but I know what it feels like to have somebody
Questioned
Where they're at in a relationship with me, and I don't want to do that. Same thing that was done to me
I just need to follow what I feel. Did you not feel anything towards me if you remember meeting me?
No one I do and I I definitely I remember I was interested by it it just that because we did meet and there
Wasn't anything done on either of our ends. I just I don't know if I necessarily see a future
This is the first conversation that I've had to have sending somebody home and it's not easy
But I don't want to waste your time and I just don't know if I see it at the end
This is hard for a lot of reasons
But there's a few things that you need to know and I can't leave here without getting that off my chest. Yeah, I
Don't know what you're hanging on to from prior to the Christmas party that I remember
But it sounds like you might be hanging on to a different me when I was at a little different point in my life
Yeah, and I wanted you to know that
I've had a very transformative year. I'm a new Jake
Put it this way if you and I walked into him in a bar in Minneapolis tomorrow
Both single I think it would pan out differently
and a few
It's just we've met multiple times and they're just on either end
It was just kind of nothing which is totally fine and not everyone that you meet in life
You're gonna click with and so for me, I'm just gonna keep seeing that guy don't want to waste your time my time
I don't even also signed that's sad to hear but you got to follow your heart. Yeah
I'm not gonna try to force that it's hard to hear but
I respect how you feel
Thank you
I know it's tough my fear coming into this was that I would fall for somebody that
Didn't reciprocate the same feeling. I want to know that somebody's here for me. And honestly, I don't think he is here for me
I don't get it. I
I came here with an open mind and an open heart
to find out if there could be a future between Becca and I and she looked at me and was like
That's very nice. Thank you
I believe in love I wouldn't be here if I didn't believe in luck
Ask anybody who knows me I'm one of the most romantic people there is
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