Ladies, welcome to Galtelligence. It’s me Kay, with Beardy, and our favorite, Larry!
Today’s Video is greatly inspired by Psych2Go’s
video detailing 7 signs you have fear of intimacy. We understood it very well and thought some
of those are pretty obvious. So we decided to
Make our own version. For today’s video, we’ll tell you the
five surprising signs you have a fear of intimacy, Because let’s face it, some signs aren’t
that obvious. And since we want you to know how to attract
men and avoid having fear of Intimacy, we’ll also tell you the one way
you can learn to be more intimate and open. So,
Let’s not wait longer. Let’s get started!
5. Always On The Go The first of the signs you have fear of intimacy
is if you’re always occupied and on The go. You might be wondering what being
busy has to do with being afraid of intimacy. Yes, it seems weird, and surprising, but if
you’re always occupied with things and Always busy, it means that you avoid having
more time with people. You want to be more Occupied about work amongst other things so
that you won’t have to interact with people on
A more personal level. You might not know it, but one of the things
all men want women to do more is to slow Down and spend more time with them to get
on a more personal level. So if you want to know how to get your crush
to like you, you should slow down and Be more open. Having fear of intimacy will
make one avoid human interaction as much As possible because they know deep inside
that the more interaction they have with other People, the more likely they have to say something
deeper about themselves and Actually be intimate. If the thought of that
scares you, you definitely have a fear of Intimacy. Being intimate, amongst others,
are things that men wish we did more. Learn more
About that with this video from us. 4. Too Many Faces
Be completely honest with me here, do you have a solid idea of your real self? Do you
know how to be your real self? If your answer is no, well that’s one of
the signs you have fear of intimacy. If you’re More used to hiding parts of yourself from
other people to be what they want you to be, That’s a sure sign.
Have you ever thought about how to make him want you and thought that maybe you
Should mold yourself to be his “ideal” girl? Have you ever changed the way you appear
to Other people in order to satisfy their ideal
person? People may think that they know the Real you, but you know to yourself that everyone
knows a different side of you, and no One really knows the real you. Maybe not even
you. The only real thing about having “too many
faces” is that you’re lonely. You feel like
Nobody really knows you. And it’s sad, isn’t it? But it happens to a lot of people.
Now, don’t be too sad because you can get a guy you like without having to hide the
real You. Just check out this video to learn the
10 things you should do. 3. What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger
We know that one way on how to get guys to like you is to show off that you’re strong
and Independent.
You become this image of a strong and independent person because you want to be
Constantly focused on other people’s problems rather than yours.
You use this as a mask to hide your problems and feelings. This is a habit for you: deflecting
Any focus away from yourself. You just don’t want any attention to go to you because you
Don’t want to go deep into who you are, right?
When you do this, everyone turns to you because you’re the strong, real friend, but
Face it, deep down inside you, you feel terribly alone and lonely. Want to know how to know
If a guy likes you? It’s simple. If they strive to put focus on you, your thoughts,
and problems Then it means that he wants to know the real
you. The vulnerable one and not the strong One that everyone’s used to.
This is all too real, I know. But we’re cutting it for a while to remind you to stay
tuned Because at the end of this video, we’ll
tell you the number one way to cope with your fear of
Intimacy. It’s going to be so valuable. For the meantime, let’s get to our last
two items.
2. If You’re Happy And You Know It Fear of intimacy? But you’re positive and
happy? You might be wondering how the two Connect. It’s going to make so much sense
once we explain it. You want to make a guy fall in love with you
so you show that you’re a very positive and
Happy person because let’s be honest, who doesn’t like a person like that, right?
You think That one way on how to be more attractive
is by spreading positivity around you. But, if
You become this jolly and positive person because you want to hide parts of yourself
and Avoid any deep connection, then you have a
fear of intimacy. The truth is that as humans, we only truly
bond over our weaknesses and not our Strengths. We only form long lasting bonds
if we see each other vulnerable. When we share Empathy, we have a deep connection. This is
exactly what someone with a fear of intimacy Is trying to avoid.
They’re trying to avoid any hint of deep connection with anyone, that’s why they
show Everyone that they’re always happy and positive,
like they have no problems and that They’re not vulnerable at all.
However, you need to know that being vulnerable is one way to make someone fall in
Love with you, because they see who you really are and accept you for that. Being
Vulnerable and more of that are the tricks to make any guy fall in love with you. To
know More about it, just check out this video.
Give Me Love, Give Me Affection Someone who has a fear of intimacy would have
a constant need of physical contact and Affection. Hard to believe, right?
It is. I mean, it kind of doesn’t make sense. Why would you want physical contact if you’re
So scared of being intimate with anyone? To be clear, a fear of intimacy can lead to
extremes when it comes to physical contact. Of course, there are those who don’t want
any form of physical contact with anyone, but on
The other side of the spectrum, a fear of intimacy can make you crave physical contact
Constantly. It can be because they want to pour all the attention into their physical
contact And none of the attention to what’s happening
inside of them. Deep inside, people with this Fear crave physical contact as a means to
cope with the loneliness that they feel.
We’re down to the last part of this video, which means that we’ll finally tell you
the one way You can learn to stop being afraid of intimacy
and how you can cope with it. There are many ways to cope when you see the
signs you have a fear of intimacy. To be Completely honest with you, it depends from
one individual to another. However, there’s a
Way that works for everyone. It’s where any who has a fear of intimacy should start.
You should learn to accept and love yourself. It’s the starting point for all intimacy
issues Anyone might have.
You have to learn to accept the things you have gone through, the things you’re going
Through, who you were, who you are, and who you want to be. You have to accept every
Aspect of yourself. No matter how unflattering it may be. You’re the first one who should
Love yourself unconditionally. You can never know the real answer to the question “is
he Into you” if you don’t love yourself.
Just think of it this way. You can only learn to accept
other people’s affection if you can accept ,yourself.
Ladies, do you know any more signs of a fear of intimacy? Share it to us in the comments
Below and let’s all be self-aware.
That’s it, ladies. Once you’re aware of the signs you have fear of intimacy, it’s
time to Cope up with that and stop having this fear
of intimacy once and for all. And when you’re Through that, you should know all the things
men want us women to do more. This will Help you become a better person that you already
are. Just check out this video where We tell you the 15 things you should do more!