Ladies, welcome back to my channel.
Today, I have a very hot topic for you
because this is something that I get drilled quite a lot
since I am promoting a certain lifestyle for women
to achieve, since I am talking about men providing
for women and women having the decision to be able
to decide whether she wants to work in life or she doesn't.
So, the naysayers always, always,
always ask me the same question,
"But what about if he leaves you?"
"What are you going to do then?"
This video is all about yes, what if he will leave you?
What will you do then?
For those of you who are new, my name is Anna,
and I run an online finishing school
called School of Affluence.
That's where I teach women on high society
how to become more elegant and refined.
If you want to have this transformation, visit
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So, are we smart ladies, or are we stupid ladies?
That's kind of the basics.
We always have to think one step ahead, and of course,
we are clever ladies.
We know that any time, unforeseen things can happen in life.
That's just part of life, whether you are living
an affluent lifestyle or if you're not.
Anything can happen at any point with anybody.
Any man can leave you at any point.
Any man can go broke at any point.
Anything can happen, even the worst possible scenario.
So, to be able to survive in this world,
you always need to have a plan B.
Number one: you always need to have an education in life.
I would never tell a woman to not study, to skip university,
to not be bothered by finishing even high school.
Of course not, I think a woman should definitely educate
herself to the max, and not only is it gonna benefit her,
but she has always a degree to fall back on
if things don't go according to plan in life.
Number two: work experience.
Every woman out there should have some form
of work experience, why?
If for instance, it doesn't go well with your partner,
and you have to have your own job to be able
to fund for yourself, then you have to be able
to find a job, and to be able to find a job,
you need to have work experience for that.
It's very hard these days to only get a job
when you only have education, so you need to have some form
of experience, qualifications to bring to the table,
if you want to feel secure in the fact
that you can always provide for yourself.
Even though it's a man's responsibility
to look after his woman financially,
a woman must know how to provide for herself.
It doesn't mean she has to do it in her daily life,
but she needs to know how to, and she needs to have a plan B
to be able to rely on if she has
to suddenly rely on herself.
So, that's kind of the key aspects here.
I do not encourage women not to study,
not to bother to work, you know, just let themselves go
and wish for the best,
not at all.
Life is not that friendly,
and it's not going to treat us well
if we apply that strategy, so I really want you
to think ahead and be clever.
Number three: savings, and not everybody's good
with their finances.
I belong to one of those who love
to spend a little bit extra, but you know,
you have to really think about having your savings in order.
I have done the mistake of not having savings,
and then it ended with my partner, and what did I do then?
Well, panic hit the fan, and oh my God,
I did not know how to survive tomorrow.
And I really did learn from that mistake,
and I never repeated that mistake ever again,
so that was a good learning, but now I'm here
to tell you all about it.
Ladies, you must have savings.
From the day that you are a grownup, from the day
that you have to look after yourself
until a man look after you,
regardless of how your lifestyle is built,
you always need to have savings,
even if you are not earning a lot of money,
even if you are currently investing in your own leveling up,
you must put at least 20% away for savings, or 30%.
It really depends how much you can afford,
but even if it's just 10%, a little 10% of your pay
will really make a big difference rather than zero
because if you have cash on your account,
you're never going to feel like you are locked down
in something and that you cannot make certain decisions
in life just because you don't have
the financial option, right?
So, you have to really understand
that your savings is your ticket out.
Your savings is what's going to give you freedom in life.
Your savings is what's going to give you options in life
because when we don't have options, we become desperate,
and desperation is what kills success.
I don't want you to be a locked-down woman.
I don't want you to be desperate woman.
I don't want you to think
that only a man can pay for your meal.
I don't think that that's a healthy way of living,
absolutely not, even though I still believe and support 100%
that the man should be your provider,
but you need to be a self-sufficient woman,
and you need to have savings.
When you have savings, ladies,
it is easy to let go of a man who is an idiot.
It is easy to move on.
It is easy to look for other solutions.
It's easy to change plans.
But if your bank account is empty
and you have nowhere to go, no form of ability
to sustain yourself if you leave the person you're with,
then you're going to be quite miserable,
and you might have to sacrifice and do things
that you are not entirely happy with doing, so please,
the basics: education, work experience, savings.
These should be sorted.
If you don't have that sorted,
I don't want you to do this lifestyle.
This lifestyle is not for you
because you might end up pretty unhappy.
Now, what I do want to touch upon is the importance
of stashing cash.
Okay, I spoke about savings,
but I do want to expand this topic a little bit more.
Because what happens when we actually
are dating affluent men,
we get a lot of great gifts, oftentimes,
unless the man is stingy, but, you know,
you can get jewelry as gifts, bags as gift,
clothing, apartments, cars.
It can be anything you want.
Maybe you can get an education as gift.
You can get, what else can you get?
a business
Businesses are great gifts.
If you can have a man invest in your education,
in your business,
that is a really good investment, ladies.
Affluent men tend to really like investing
in people they care for, and for them,
if they end up investing a lot in you financially,
they don't feel like they just bought you, like,
loads of material things that are just collecting dust.
They actually really see a deeper purpose of this,
and usually, it's easier to get this type of investment
from a man.
Some men give their partners allowances, some don't.
Some only provide material or other types of investment.
If you are getting an allowance, then you definitely
should try and stash that cash as much as possible.
If we focus on the more material things,
a woman should really try and get as much jewelry
as possible from a man because obviously jewelry always
have a high resale value,
same goes for certain brands of watches.
That's why I recommend getting a Patek Philippe
because Patek Philippe tends to have one
of the highest resale value.
Then of course, we have the classic Hermes Birkin
or Kelly bags.
Hermes bags really have the highest resale value
when it comes to luxury bags.
Chanel does too to some level, but nothing in line
as with Hermes.
So, let's say your husband is giving you a credit card,
and you can use it as you please,
don't use that credit card to spend on shopping all kinds
of various, how can I say, non-important designer bags.
Because those bags, they're not going to have any,
any particular resale value.
If the day comes when you really have to see how
to get funds, Hermes bags, definitely the best value.
I mean, there is a cap of getting two bags
per year from Hermes.
If you have an affluent man who is supporting you
to that level, try and get two bags per year
so that you have a good stash of bags waiting
for you if need be.
But jewelry, another thing,
make sure to always get big gifts from him when it's time
for Christmas or birthday or anniversary rather than,
I don't know, a nice pair of boots or a nice coat
or something like that, things that do not have
a high resale value.
Make sure you have these type of pieces as much as possible
that you collect while you are with your partner
so that if anything happens,
you know how to put food on your table.
Now, ladies, that was a small sample from some
of the financial strategies that I do offer
to my course students, but I do want everybody
to have access to this in particular
because this is so fundamental and important.
Now, for my course students, of course,
I do have more information that we go much more in depth
on this topic because it is a really important topic,
and we as women, we need to always think ahead,
and we always need to think of a rainy day,
and we need to act cleverly.
In the end, if it all goes down the drain,
the only people we can rely on are ourselves,
so make sure you are sorted.
Okay, ladies, I hope you have enjoyed this video.
If you have any additional comments on what you think
about this, what is your exit plan like?
What is your financial strategy with a man?
Leave a comment below, and if you think this
is absolutely crazy, but maybe my channel
is not your cup of tea.
Ladies, now I do recommend that you watch my video,
Men that You Should Avoid, men that are perhaps not good
for you because maybe you do not want to end up
with an exit plan after all, if you end up dating
a man who is like this.
Watch that video now after this one.
I will see you there.