Are you wondering whether your ex may want you back?
Has he been giving you possible signals, but you’re not sure if you’re just reading
into it too much?
Break ups are never easy…
And during this painful and confusing time, it can be difficult to know whether the signs
are truly there.
Perhaps you’re still harbouring feelings for your ex-partner, and you're questioning
whether he’s been dropping hints that he still has feelings for you.
But you don’t want to get your hopes up if you're in fact wrong, and have to go through
even more heartache.
If you’re in that situation right now, then this video is for you.
Today, we’re counting down the Top 4 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back.
Listen to what we uncover very carefully, and see whether your ex is doing any of the
4 points that we reveal today.
And if you can relate to one or two, then there’s a good chance that he hasn't gotten
over the break up, and he’s considering trying to reunite with you.
And if you can relate to all of the points we mention today, then this is a sure sign
that he still has romantic feelings for you, and he most certainly wants you back in his
life again.
Some of what we discuss today may not be what you expect, and it could easily go under the
radar….
So pay close attention.
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But for now, let’s begin the countdown on the Top 4 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back.
starting with: Number 4: He Finds Strange Excuses To Talk
To You He calls to ask you about your cat, or how
your brother's new job is going…
Or he just generally contacts you for unimportant reasons that don’t relate to your past relationship
at all.
He’s wracking his brain trying to think of something to get a conversation flowing,
secretly hoping that it will lead to more.
Basically, he’s asking you something simple and trivial to see whether or not you’ll
respond.
This is a sure sign that he still wants you in his life.
What he’s trying to do is keep you close, but without coming on too strong that you’ll
figure it out.
He wants to reach out, but he doesn’t know the right way to go about it, so he’s taking
baby steps to communicate with you.
Because in his mind, he thinks that if you can take the time to discuss minor things,
then maybe he will be able to approach deeper conversations in the future.
Of course there may be valid reasons to need to chat, for example if you need to split
your belongings, or you have children together.
But if there is no real reason he needs to be in contact with you, but finds the strangest
reasons to talk to you, then this is a massive sign he misses you and wants you back.
What kind of odd excuses has your ex found in order to talk to you?
Did it help open up the lines of communication?
We would love to know…Tell us in the comments below!
Okay next up is: Number 3: He Tries To Maintain a Friendship
With You Does he try to keep you in his life, and has
made it clear that he hopes to maintain a friendship with you?
If so, this would be a pretty big indication that he’s just not ready to let you go.
It is possible for ex-partners to have a friendship after a break up.
In fact, according to a study, up to 60% of people have a friendship with someone from
a past relationship.
In many cases, it is because romantic feelings are still present, and they have high hopes
that the friendship will lead to more.
In saying that, there can be other reasons an ex wants to be friends post break up.
Researchers have found that there 4 main reasons someone wants to maintain a friendship with
their ex, and they are: 1.
Security.
When you know someone so well, you have that feeling of security when you’re with them.
You shared many good times, and this makes you feel comfortable in their presence.
2.
Practicality.
This is when they feel that there is something that they can gain from being friends.
For example, they may feel it’s easier as you share the same friends, or you have children
together.
Or, possibly in hopes to have a sexual relationship.
3.
Politeness.
They don’t want to upset or hurt their ex-partner, so they’re trying to be polite and consider
their feelings and emotions.
4.
They still have feelings for them.
The attraction is still present.
They cannot imagine life without their ex, and the romantic feelings have not dissolved.
So if your ex is trying to be friends with you, see whether any of these points mentioned
are relatable to your situation.
And if he’s trying to include you in his plans, or asking to spend time together…
…Then this shows that he still actively wants you in his life, and it’s a major
sign that he wants more.
Next up on our list of the Top 4 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back, is:
Number 2: He's Left His Belongings At Your Place
A few unimportant things left behind probably don’t hold a lot of meaning, but are there
things at your place that you know he would need to collect at some point?
Or maybe you’ve been asking him to return a few things that he has of yours, but he
keeps avoiding doing so.
If this is the case, it’s possible that he cannot let go of the idea that you will
not reunite one day.
He believes in his heart that you will be together again, or he’s not ready to accept
that the relationship has truly come to an end.
This could mean that he still has an emotional attachment with you, that he simply just cannot
let go.
An emotional attachment is the connection and bond you share with others.
We all need to have an emotional connection to having a meaningful relationship, whether
it is romantic or not.
This connection helps you to feel close to each other, and makes you feel comfortable
and safe…
…And having a relationship with you gave him exactly that.
And it’s hard for him to separate himself from those intense feelings.
So if there’s still a lot of his things lying around, or he’s holding onto a few
of your items, then he is more than likely feeling immense pain post break up, and hopes
that you’ll reconcile soon.
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And now we’ve made it to number 1 on our list of Top 4 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back.
Have you been able to guess what it could be?
Let’s move on to find out what it is…
Number 1: He Asks To Talk About The Break Up
This is an obvious sign that he wants you back.
For most people, you wouldn’t ask to discuss the break up once it’s over.
Instead, you would try to move on and heal from it, and not re live the pain.
So if he wants to talk about it, this is a pretty sure sign that he hopes that he can
rekindle the relationship.
He wants to give you the opportunity to let out your pain, and he can try to remedy the
situation, and show support and offer a solution.
He’s ready to discuss what really went wrong and what led the relationship to come to an
end.
Did you know that a study found that women initiate break ups more than men do?
In this same study, it found that the number one reason for breaking up was due to lack
of communication.
It can be pretty evident for most that men aren't aren’t usually massive communicators.
They often struggle with expressing their emotions, and find it hard to put into words
what they’re feeling.
So with this in mind, if he’s wanting to talk post break up, it’s more than likely
that he’s wanting to get back together.
He’s putting in a massive effort to communicate with you, in hopes that you’ll be able to
resolve your differences and be together again.
And there you have it- The Top 4 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back.
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Were there more signs showing that we didn’t mention today?
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