Matt: That would probably get women to chase you.
But seriously, my name is Matt Artisan,
and after coaching guys live in person to succeed with women
in over 40 different countries for over a decade now,
I can tell you that there are just
three simple actions that you can do right now to get women to chase you today.
But first, here's the hard truth.
Most guys will never be chased by women.
You may have experienced this yourself, the constant fight for her attention,
thinking of something funny to say, only to end up empty handed.
It sucks, right? I mean, what's the point in putting in all
this effort if she's just going to blow you off?
And why do girls always seem so indifferent?
Listen, men, women can sense from a mile away when you're being needy and when they
sense this, their sex drive dries up faster than my iPhone battery.
This is because when you chase her
subconsciously, you're telling her that you're not worth chasing.
You're telling her that you're just like
every other guy, that you're nothing special, that she is better than you.
The result, of course,
instead of making her want you, you end up pushing her away.
Probably not the outcome you want, right? If like most guys,
you want an outcome that involves a lot more nudity and a lot less soul crushing
rejection, then I'm going to show you exactly what to do.
In fact, I can tell you what to do.
And just one simple sentence in you're sharp sharpies ready?
You need to take her down off that pedestal and tell her subconscious
mind that you're the type of guy that she needs to chase.
But here's the most important thing
that nobody in the dating advice industry will tell you.
There are only three ways to do this.
Not a million, not a bazillion, just three.
I cannot make this more clear.
Most experts will tell you you need an Instagram that's fully loaded,
full of pictures of you flexing next to your Ferrari while holding a puppy.
Trust me, man, you don't need to ignore her and hit on her friend.
You don't even need to show her
that you're constantly surrounded by women and you don't need to master the seven
mysterious psychological tricks that manipulate women.
Here's a hint: they don't work.
Trust me, man.
I spent years trying pretty much every pickup trick in the book and yeah some
of them can work, but more often than not, they will backfire.
For example, back in the day I read
that you should show more interest in the friend.
So I did that in the friend ended up
really liking me and then the girl that I liked ended up going home with somebody
else and I was stuck there trying to get the less attractive girl away from me.
You don't need to do things like that!
And when you hear other experts tell you
to do things like that, run the other direction.
Here's what I want you to do instead:
one, is "Do not treat her like a princess"
even though that's what mainstream media tells you to do.
Before I started working on this part of my life, I had a huge crush on this
girl that I thought was way out of my league.
But somehow we ended up hooking up
a couple of times and I became really attached.
I just became infatuated with her and I ended up sending her flowers and poetry
on Valentine's Day, even though we had only been dating for just a few weeks.
And when she didn't return my calls or text messages, I would stalk her friend
at work and try to find out information like "Where's Nikki?
Why isn't she replying back to me?"
And she ended up completely blocking me
on all social media because I was way too needy, because there's an old saying,
"If you treat her like a celebrity, then she's going to treat you like a fan."
In layman's terms, this just means..
Don't fawn after her, chase her, treat her like royalty, or act like
a little puppy dog. No matter how much you want your belly scratched.
You might even say that she wants to be treated like a princess, but in reality,
she just wants to be treated like a person.
This means be honest with her. You disagree with her?
Just tell her! If you want to take a chance and flirt with her, then do it.
You feel a bit of sexual tension,
then embrace it. If you feel like playfully teasing her? Then just do it.
If you feel like getting up from the date
and spinning around and moonwalking away, then do it!
But seriously, man, when you're one hundred percent honest
with her, you inherently prevent yourself from ever chasing her.
It's really a pretty simple fix.
You also create an environment of honesty
that just creates a more fun, flirtatious and natural vibe between you and her.
Lots of guys look for ways to create
bursts of sexual tension or create a low key, flirtatious vibe.
But really all that comes from honesty.
You don't need a new technique.
You just need to stop dicking around and be honest.
You feel it. So you do it.
And it all starts with treating her like a regular person.
Which brings me to step number two, "Pull the trigger."
And by the way, at the end of this video,
I'm going to give you a copy of my free Conversation Cheat Sheet so that you never
have to worry about running out of things to say.
And you know exactly what to do and what
to say to get women more attracted to you and get them chasing you even more.
So make sure to download that. At the end of the video,
when I first started learning the stuff I remember, I went to a club in downtown
L.A. and I approached these two girls and I started really hitting it off
with one of the girls who I thought was pretty much a total ten in looks.
And so I really liked her.
And I remember she told me she was already
dating three other guys, which made me want her more like she was kind of
a challenge, and so I remember kind
of playing it safe, I could tell she really wanted me to make a move on her.
She even told me she wasn't wearing any underwear. Yet,
i still didn't make the move.
I thought "I'll be kind of a challenge and then she'll chase me."
But it ended up having the opposite effect.
She ended up completely losing interest.
And I was really disappointed and mad at myself because it was such a perfect opportunity.
She was showing me so much interest, yet I completely blew it.
And that's because women rarely make the first move.
I'm sorry, man, but unless you're Ryan Gosling,
you're not going to just walk out of your house and have women chasing you.
You're going to have to make a move first.
I don't care if she's at work, at the bar,
walking down the street, or she's the cute cashier at Whole Foods.
You have to make the first move.
If you don't, you're dead in the water
and she'll never chase you, let alone kiss you..
Go back to your place and play a little naked twister.
A lot of idiot dating coaches will tell you
to hide your desire and use secret steps that make her make the first move.
Spoiler alert: she probably won't.
And if she does, she probably comes with a price tag.
One of the best ways that you can make
a move is by showing your desire as long as you do it the right way.
Not in a way that's creepy.
Make it clear that you like her and that you're not afraid to show it.
I go into exactly how to do this
in my "Tricks to turn her on" video and I'll put a link to it at the end of this video.
But simply put, if you're afraid to show
your interest in her, then you're just like every other guy
that orbits around her waiting for some magical opportunity to show up.
So why would she chase you?
Which brings me to step number three.
But before I reveal it, make sure to follow me on Instagram and send me a DM.
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And if you want me or my team to help transform you from the inside out
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breakthrough session and I'll put a link to it down in the description.
Step number three is "Be the one percent man."
The truth is men, that girls don't need
to chase a guy to get laid or get a boyfriend or get married. Because like
99% of guys will chase them.
So then ask yourself, why would you she chase you?
The only reason that you would chase you..
Is because you're that type of guy that she never meets.
In simple economic lingo,
you're a "scarce resource," so your value shoots way up and her
strategy therefore, has to change. Its basic supply and demand.
So then what kind of guy does she never meet?
I know what you're thinking. And no, it's not just rich guys.
There are plenty of guys with money out there.
And trust me, man, a lot of my clients are very wealthy before they come to me.
They're struggling in their dating lives because they're still chasing women.
And actually answer this question by just
listening to any woman going on a Cosmo fueled rant about her dating life.
They rarely meet guys who have their own
lives, a clearly defined purpose, who are independent.
Believe it or not, they rarely meet guys
who have their life fundamentals together. Career he likes,
friends he likes. A life that he likes.
These kind of guys are just naturally a challenge to women because they can be.
Because they're a catch.
Because these kind of guys and really
listen to this, these kind of guys truly enjoy their lives and they know they're
totally fine, regardless whether they get her or not.
That's the kind of guy that she wants to chase.
And here's a little reality check, just in case you've been nodding along.
If you play games, you aren't this guy.
If you try to manipulate her, you aren't this guy.
If you're too afraid to approach her, you are NOT this guy.
Look, man, if you want her to chase you,
you have to build a life that is completely independent of her.
For every guy, this is a little bit
different because everybody wants different things.
But if you can make the changes in your
life necessary to achieve this, it will drive women crazy.
And you'll just naturally be a challenge
to women because you'll be on your life's purpose.
And as you work on yourself and become the most attractive,
confident version of yourself and learn how to talk to women and approach women
with confidence, you'll have so many options.
And guys with options don't chase women.
They're the ones who get chased.
So you can take one thing away from this video.
Let it be this.
If you can sort out your life, she will chase you simply because you are YOU.
Something that we in the business call "Easy mode."
And if you want me or my team to help
transform you from the inside out into that confident, powerful man that can
approach and meet, attract and date beautiful women anywhere and everywhere,
then click the link down in the description to apply
for a free breakthrough session. And make sure to download my free Conversation Cheat
Sheet that will help you never run out of things to say
so you know exactly what to do or say
in certain situations to make them more attracted to you and even chase you.
Make sure to watch the next video on my "Best ways to turn a woman on using
sexual tension" from the moment you meet her, it's pure gold.
And remember to follow me on Instagram and send me a DM.
I would love to chat with you.
My name is Matt Artisan, and I'll see you in the next video, Down below.