Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.
As guys you know how much time we spend chasing girls.
For most of us you could easily say it’s our number one past time.
But...
What if I told you you could actually have women chasing you?
Beating down your door and lining up for your affections.
Sounds like the holy grail right?
Having the power to know how to make any girl fall in love with you?
Well...
This week we’re going to do something a little different.
I’m going to take you way back to my college days and share a few stories about what to
do, and what not to do, to get girls chasing you.
Without further ado, join me in the way back machine...
5.
Get Inside Her Head Alright guys, I’m going to tell you a little
story about my college roommate, and to protect the innocent, we’ll call him Larry.
See, Larry spent the vast majority of his time
chasing girls.
That was going to be his major.
Thing was...
He sucked at it.
I mean, he was alright at the chasing, but damned if he wasn’t terrible at the catching.
So, We had a shared class.
Psychology of Personality which, Larry, being Larry, never attended.
Too busy chasing.
But had he ever attended class, he would have learned some of the psychological tricks to
get her to like you.
Instead...
Larry wasted all his time trying to beat her over the head when we know that psychology
teaches us that if you want a girl to chase you… you need to be in her subconscious.
In fact, all of the tricks to getting a girl to chase you basically lie in her subconscious
mind.
You just need to trip those triggers.
So that’s what we’re going to work on.
If you’re too overt, then she knows she’s the prey.
You have to dangle just enough intrigue out there to make her think she’s the predator.
But not in that Chris Hansen, Dateline kind of way.
4.
Be Mysterious.
See, Larry with his monkey mind was predernaturally incapable of being discreet, which was a shame,
because I had to listen to him constantly complain about how he was striking out.
I mean, the guy didn’t even have opposable thumbs, so what did he expect?
Science tells us that an elusive, aloof nature will draw those around us into our orbit.
Aloof… yes… that’s sexy.
It even rolls off the tongue.
Don’t believe me?
Larry didn’t.
But this comes right from the journal, peer reviewed I might add, Psychological Science.
Can’t get much better than that.
So how else did Larry screw up?
3.
Mirroring Another excellent lesson we learned that Larry
missed was how to use body language tricks to make her chase you.
Because There are subtle cues you can use to make
sure she’s subconscioulsly into you.
The most well known is mirroing, but this can also be the most gimicky… meaning
There’s a good to fair chance she knows about it too and will be aware of it as a
trick.
And at Mantelligence, we’re not about tricks for tricks sake.
We’re about what works.
So...
Try a few lesser known body language tricks to make her want to want you.
First...
Stand in front of a mirror, push your shoulders back, and relax.
This will automatically improve your posture.
And...
It seems obvious, but standing erect is a bigger turn on than you’d think.
But it takes quite a bit of practice.
We’ve spent a lot of time slumped over a computer, but it’s worth the effort if you
want to get girls to chase you.
Making eye contact is also a huge turn on.
It is a physical manifestation that you’re listening.
And When the person across the table knows you’re
listening to them (and not their monkey mind…
Larry) it encourages them to open up.
They want to tell you about themselves...
That person instinctively wants to give you the keys to the castle.
But that’s not all...
We’ve got some more tricks to get girls to chase you.
Like...
2.
Dress to Impress Now this doesn’t mean you need to blow a
month’s rent on your outfit.
In fact, dressing too nice can actually be a turn off.
See...
Larry dressed flashy.
Well, honestly, ostentatiously.
And in most instances, it was just too much.
There’s no need to go overboard.
In fact, you want to dress just well enough to give you the self confidence to be attractive.
Remember, we’re sending out subconscious lures.
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But quality boots aren’t the only dressing tricks we have lined up.
You should also deck out your wardrobe in blue.
Why?
Numerous scientific studies have shown that women are subconsciously attracted to men
wearing blue.
Blue Projects qualties of stability, faithfulness,
and asense of “always being there.”
So, needless to say, blue should be your go to color.
1.
Honesty Now, if you really want to make a girl crazy
for you, honesty is the best policy.
See Girls are looking for stability and faithfulness.
They’re looking for someone they can trust.
A guy like Larry, always working an angle puts them on the defensive right away.
Instead complete honesty should be your play.
Women (and men as well) find honesty to be quite the aphrodesiac.
Knowing where you stand in a relationship at all times is irresistable.
Does this mean you don’t sugar caot a few things?
Of course not, but over all, don’t play games.
X.
Financial Stability Remember this one.
Instability rhymes with liability.
If you want a girl to chase you...
You’ve got to at least appear to be a provider.
You don’t have to be like Larry, throwing your student loan checks around, but a subtle
financial confidence is nothing to sneeze at.
Speaking of confidence...
Guys, I know we’re delving deep into the psyche of the opposite sex.
What makes them tick.
What makes them look in your direction and say” yeah, I want that.”
But...
When manipulating the subconscious, it’s just as important to know what will instantly
shut your efforts down as it is to know what will set you up for success.
So stay tuned to the end of this video to learn the one absolute no no when it comes
to the female subconscious.
X. Self Improvement Guys.
I’m going to be honest.
This is the whole deal.
For all the tricks…
If you want a girl to want to chase you, you’ve got to want to chase yourself.
What do I mean by this?
If you want girls to chase you, you’ve got to try to be a better you a little bit each
day.
You don’t have to be the best you by tomorrow, but you’ve got to keep working towards that
goal.
And that’s what we do at Mantelligence.
We want you to be the best men you can be.
Hell, That’s the mantra we’re living each day
we walk into the office.
So...
Be the best man you can be.
Get a little better every day.
Now...
That I’ve given you the best advice I have, and the cautionary tale that monkey Larry
can profer Let us touch on the third rail of getting
girls to chase you.
Do this and you’ll have no shot whatsoever...
The Number 1 Subconscious Turn Off to Avoid at All Costs
Guys, by now you should be masters of the female subconscious.
Maybe not PhD level but Enough to get the job done.
BUt now we need to get real and talk about the one thing you just can’t do if you want
girls to chase you...
Blowing your stack.
Now if I know one thing about the monkey mind, it’s how distracted it can get.
This ends in a lot of unnecessary temper tantrums.
There are plenty of instances in life where getting angry is completely appropriate, but
More often than not, flipping out is just projecting that you’re a liability.
This goes for bar fights, road rage, jeaslousy and the like.
Much better just to keep your cool, count to ten and be the bigger man.
Being a tough guy for no reason isn’t a turn on.
It’s a lawsuit waiting to happen.
Gentlemen, today we’re showing you 10 ways to make a girl lose her mind
...with how much she wants you.
For every woman, there exists a precise combination of actions,
An exact sequence of events...
That can cause her to be completely, utterly, hopelessly infatuated with you.
The only thing is,
Most of the time the sequence of events isn’t very obvious.
Well today, we’re gonna show you how to crack the code.
And because we don’t want women puttin’ up the blinders as soon as you start trying,
We’re also showing you the #1 thing you can do to go from being the most wanted man
town, To a guy nobody remembers.
Let’s dive in.
10.
Fuel The Fire This is where it starts, and if you skip this
part, ...you’re going to be missing out on the
potent chemistry that’ll make everything else a whole lot easier down the line.
Think of it like this: Attraction sometimes needs a jumpstart,
and that jumpstart is only possible by making a girl ask herself one simple question:
“Does he like me?”
No matter where it ultimately goes, it all starts with a girl being curious about
you.
So your first job is just to remember to plant the seeds of intrigue.
How?
We’ll be showing you some of the ways to do that here in this video, but the easiest
way is this...
Don’t worry if a girl suspects you might like her because of something you do.
Maybe you do like her, Maybe you don’t.
Either way, now you’ve got the perfect jumping off point to get started.
9.
Look At Her Like You Want Her What if we told you that girls can feel the
weight of your attraction to them, through eye contact alone.
And all you’ve got to do, is not try to hide it.
When you look at a girl as you’re feeling most attracted to her,
She’ll notice... and she’ll melt.
It’s impossible not to.
But the trick is... it’s gotta be genuine attraction, and it’s
got to be eye contact alone.
Under no circumstances shall you do anything, That diminishes the power of your eye contact
in that moment.
Girls want guys to be attracted to them.
Of course they do.
They also want to know you like them, Before they commit to anything.
What they don’t want, Is for guys to come on too strong.
So by letting your look do the talking, You align yourself with everything a girl
wants, and since you’re not giving too much, You make her want you to give her even more.
8.
Don’t Put A Label On It With labels come rules and as soon as you’ve
got rules, Things become a little more formal, and a
little less fun.
Now, that’s not to say that being in an “official” relationship isn’t fun,
But there’s a reason why most couples look back fondly on their early days.
The late nights, the unpredictability and spontaneity, the secrecy,
All the elements that create the excitement and unrelenting attraction
that a girl can feel for you... when your two worlds collide.
So how do you keep the good time rolling?
Keep it lowkey.
Hide it from friends, rendezvous in secret, sneak kisses in public.
Do these things...
And we guarantee you’ll build a bond together that will forge intense, long-lasting feelings
of attraction between the both of you.
7.
Steal a Car Together Okay, wait…
Before you commit grand theft auto, don’t actually steal a car.
What we meant to say is that when you’re with a girl, if you’re not doing anything
exciting...
She’s not going to be excited to hang out with you again.
So instead of Netflix and Chill, try something a little more dangerous like zip lining, go-karting,
or an amusement park.
Whatever you do, you have to get her blood pumping if you want her to want you.
Because according to science, when humans are excited or scared, they find the opposite
sex more attractive.
So get wild with her.
She’ll get excited and attribute that feeling to you.
Plus, Netflix and Chill can always come later.
6.
Know Where She’s Coming From Everybody knows girls develop faster than
boys and in the dating world, It’s no different.
Not only do girls typically go on more dates, They also go on more bad dates.
And by bad dates, We mean going out with guys who are freakin’
pine-nuts weird.
So understandably, a girl is going to be a little weary of you
when you first hang out.
So what can you do?
Just show her you’re cool by letting her be in the driver’s seat.
Hands off.
But here’s where things get complicated, Most guys know not to be a weirdo.
In fact, they do everything they can not to be one.
The thing is, Everybody’s got a different definition of
weird.
What’s one girl’s “weird” might be your Tuesday night.
And not only that, most guys tend to overcorrect to seem less
creepy, and end up just seeming more weird in the process
So what are we saying?
Don’t overthink it.
Make her feel safe, but don’t be overbearing.
Show her you’re in control...
...But don’t be controlling.
The more you can do that, the more comfortable she’ll be.
Hey!
If you like our stuff, keep watching.
Because we’ve got 5 more tips to getting a girl to want you,
And the #1 thing a guy can do that will have immediate negative consequences.
So stay tuned!
Okay, onto number 5.
5.
Vocal Charisma The fact of the matter is this: there is no
way to get a girl to want you, and only you, unless you offer something rare.
In general, it works like this: A girl who thinks you’re attractive,
thinks you’re more attractive than everyone else.
A girl who finds you hilarious, Thinks she won’t find anyone funnier.
Whatever a girl finds in a guy, to her, It’s rare.
And what may be one of the rarest qualities of them all,
Is charisma.
That stuff, is hard to come by.
Like confidence, charisma takes time to master, But there is one thing you can do to get it
in gear today...
One of the most overlooked ways of exuding natural charisma:
Is to avoid speaking in monotone.
It seems inconsequential, But you’d be surprised how many guys drone
on at girls in the same, flat tone.
By adjusting your timing, and varying the pace and intensity of how you speak,
You will immediately double your charisma levels and create a varied sound,
That commands attention and is irresistible to girls.
4.
Do the DANCE If a girl already knows she wants you, she’ll
give you the signs.
When this happens, Mention that thing two people do when they
like each other and want to have fun...
Y’know, “dancing.”
Obviously you shouldn’t bring it up out the blue, but if the conversation is headed
in that direction, Discreetly ask her about the craziest place
she’s ever danced, or what her favorite dance moves are.
Because for a girl who likes to dance, talking about it will inevitably make her think about
it.
And it might get her in the mood to do some dancing.
And she’s going to need a partner.
3.
Callback At the end of the day, most girls (and people,
really) simply want to be heard and remembered.
It might seem like a low bar, but when a girl’s friends routinely forget stuff she tells them,
It can be a refreshing, surprising experience for Mr. Random to remember her name,
Let alone something she said.
You don’t need to be obvious about it, But if you can remember something a girl said
a few weeks ago, like an upcoming job interview, or a birthday,
You can be sure she’s going remember you.
2.
Your Phone Is Not Your Friend In this day and age, we can communicate with
anyone we like in a matter of seconds.
And you’d be a fool not to take advantage of that...
Right?
Not so fast.
Remember, we’re not just trying to get on a girl’s radar, we’re trying to get her
to want you...
Entirely different thing.
And over utilizing your phone... might hurt that.
This is a tough one for some guys, And impossible to avoid for others.
So all we’ll say is this, Your phone has the potential to kill your
allure if you’re not careful.
We’re not saying it will, But it exposes you to oversharing and over
communication... which is the antithesis of everything needed
to be the apple of your girls eye.
Be an Idea Man
You’ve probably read the following quote somewhere on the internet:
“Small minds discuss people, average minds discuss events, great minds discuss ideas.”
Which sounds good, until you realize Eleanor Roosevelt was just trying to hurt your feelings.
There are ideas for minds of every size, and whatever they’re about, don’t be afraid
to share.
This is the final part of getting a girl to want you:
Being relatable.
If all you talk about is a single set of ideas, You become either inaccessible or not worth
it.
On the other hand, if you’re the kind of person who can talk
to anybody about anything, You’ve got one of the most coveted personality
traits there is.
So don’t hold back.
Don’t dismiss a conversation with anybody, And watch as girls and anybody else, vies
for your attention.
The Number 1 Way to Make Her Lose Interest Entirely
As promised, let’s get into the REAL reason you stuck around:
The #1 thing you can do to make a girl decide you’re more trouble than you’re worth.
When you finally get a girl to be interested in you,
You might be inclined to suppress your personality, which quite frankly,
Is normal for just about everyone.
People get nervous and NOBODY wants to get hurt...
So they filter themselves and sometimes even agree with things they normally wouldn’t.
But eventually your true self will have to come out, and if you’re not careful...
You might get so comfortable with her that you become an entirely different person.
Maybe you’ve suppressed your anger problems the entire time,
Or maybe you’re just plain annoying when you’re comfortable with people.
Whatever the case, if you’re not yourself in the early stages of a relationship,
She’ll be wondering why the guy she’s breaking up with,
Is entirely different than the one she fell for in the first place.
Gents, we got real this week.
Hopefully you’ve learned from my sage like wisdom and the disastrous results of my monkey
brained compadre.
I hope you’ve come away with some actionable behaviors, and I certainly think you should
get yourself some new boots.
It’s the least you can do.
Thanks for watching!