From a man's perspective there is nothing
just more intoxicating than when you
really connect with a woman that you find
absolutely beautiful and sadly most women
assume that when I say the word beauty
that it only comes in the form of makeup
perfume or clothing or even worse
Instagram filters.
I'm here to tell you that none of those
things matter.
If you're missing the four things I'm
going to be talking about in this video
keep watching.
Hey there, Adam LoDolce from
sexyconfidence.com where I help you create
your love story, and this video is all
about the four things that men find
absolutely beautiful in a woman and the
best part of these four things is that you
have full control over these things.
You can change them.
You can develop them you can work on them
and they don't have to do with your
physical beauty or things that you can't
change about yourself they have to do with
who you really are.
As a woman and I call these the four C's
the first C is character character just
simply means that you are a good person.
It's really your value system.
And in many ways that comes from your
upbringing.
I how were you raised.
How were you raised to treat other people
and how are you raised to accept treatment
from other people that is what forms your
character.
It can be as subtle as just how you treat
the waiter when you're on a date or how
you talk about your.
Friends or other people in your lives.
Are you nasty?
Are you vindictive or do you look at
people and really respect them and talk
about them in a positive way.
There's nothing more beautiful than a
woman with Incredible character in sadly
nowadays.
Both men and women are kind of lacking in
that area.
If you agree with that comment below and
say I agree II C is confidence now when I
say confidence most women kind of mistaken
confidence as that masculine character
trait that they are attracted to in a man
when I talk about confidence being that
attractive quality.
For you women.
I'm talking about feminine confidence or
sexy confidence sexy confidence basically
means that you understand the value that
you bring to a relationship you.
That you're hot **** and you're not going
to try to go around and tell everyone that
you're hot ****. You were just gonna be
hot **** and you are going to be the type
of person that doesn't let someone walk
all over you and you're going to be the
type of person that walks into a room and
owns that room and not do it because
you're trying to get attention from people
but just doing it because you are a solid
person that is what sexy confidence really
is and walking like you are just the
****. That is what it's all about be a
straight shooter yourself and ultimately
that is what sexy confidence is all about
is really working on yourself to attract a
great person.
The third C is cuteness.
This is the thing that really gets me the
most.
I mean when I was first writing this video
and coming up with some of these Core
Concepts, I was actually sitting with
Jessica choose next to me as I was reading
this video and she was wearing this really
big sweatshirt.
It's one of my sweatshirts is actually too
big for me.
So it's just like coverings like going
down to her knees and I just.
I thought it was so adorable and so cute
and it's moments like that where you truly
see the beauty in a woman it's not when
they're completely made up.
I love when Jessica's has bright red
lipstick on but I really prefer her when
she's just being really cute really
adorable and really comfortable with just
who she is and I can attest to the fact
that a lot of guys agree with this when
you're just can be comfortable around a
guy you can be really cute and cuteness
really weirdly happens when you're not
trying hard it actually comes.
You're being imperfect not when you're
being perfect.
It happens.
When you kind of like spill the mustard on
your T-shirt when you're eating a hot dog
at a game or something or you snort a
little bit when you laugh too hard.
It's like those little moments when you're
being a little goofy or being a little
weird and most women try to kind of
protect themselves from that or try to
come off as.
But the reality is beauty really comes in
the form of that cute real moment that
wrong moment where he can actually connect
with you as a real person.
So stop trying to be so perfect all the
time because there's so much Beauty in
your imperfections in the final C is
charm.
There's a famous quote that says charm is
more valuable than Beauty you can resist
Beauty, but you can't resist charm and I
understand charm doesn't necessarily come
natural to all of us.
So if there's something you want to work
on.
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And this is my gift to you because I want
you to be that beautiful woman.
I want you to stop focusing.
So much of your energy on your Instagram
filters or your makeup or your body.
It doesn't come down to that.
What matters most is that you are a great
person and regardless if you come to my
workshop or not, that's fine.
What I want you to realize is that you are
beautiful who you are right now when you
look in the mirror, don't forget that,
please.
Thank you so much for watching.
And if you enjoyed this video as always,
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some really good stuff for you this year.
All right, speak to you very soon you sexy
single lady