Kris Krohn here with limitless TV and
you know what? Trust is one of those
things that can step us into some of our
greatest success and also some of our
greatest hurt. Today, we're going to talk
about, if you've ever lost trust, how do
you regain it? how do you step back into
it again?
You can spot mistrust from a mile away.
It shows up first in people's energy and
then in their body language. Someone that
has trust issues, usually ends up
crossing things. Crossing arms, crossing
fingers, crossing hair, crossing eyes,
squinting, making their mouth pursed, and
it's almost like we just want to shut
ourselves out from the entire world. And
for good reason. I mean, which one of us
doesn't go through some level of trust
issues? we, we develop a trust issue with
money, with men, with women, with life, with
God, with all these different things and
it's this, this concept, of "I don't trust
others" is usually nothing more than a
mistrust that we actually have with
ourself. And, we set an expectation up and
that expectation doesn't get met and
then we get hurt and that's no fun or
worse, something happens in life that you
didn't expect. And, you know worst case
scenario, this is when abuse happens.
And someone gets verbally abused, or
physically abused, or emotionally abused.
And, we develop these ideas that we can't
trust. The moment we close ourselves
off to the world, that's the moment that we
really have a hard time functioning well
in our world in creating any kind of
positive results. Trust issues lead to
some of the worst results that are out
there. And so. learning how to trust again,
starts with this first key, you don't
need to learn how to trust men or women
or that person that violated you, you
need to learn to trust who? It's learning
how to trust yourself. Now I'm going to
say something that is going to seem
really weird, I don't want you to trust
the rest of the world. You can't trust
the rest of the world. What?! you think you
get me? you think you get that man? that
woman? that person with their intention?
that salesperson? that business thing?
that business partner? You don't have any
idea who these people are.
Why would you place your trust in any
kind of person? setting an expectation on
any person and expecting them to meet it?
all it can do is set you up for disappointment.
Now, this isn't from an energy of
cynicism that says, "oh, you can't trust
anyone" No, I mean, why would you?
who is there really to trust in your
life? for me, there's two people that I
trust implicitly and one more than the
other I trust God.
And then the second one is that, I trust
me. And if I am going to extend trust to
other human beings it looks like this,
I trust you, to be you.
I'm not going to
impose my change upon you, I'm not going
to impose expectations, even if you agree
to do something. The reality is, you're a
free agent. You can choose to do whatever
you want. So if you need to live in a
world where Trust is gained from people
doing exactly what your expectation was,
I have news for you,
you're going to be a crotchety upset
person for the rest of your life. Instead,
detachment...
says, to let go.
To let go of
this control over other people, let go of
our expectations. And, in a moment, I want
to share with you the most powerful
secret that I have found for stepping
into deep powerful self trust and for
also creating a relationship with
everyone in my world
that creates harmony peace and joy and
that's called, unconditional love.
Trust is a face of love. Love comes in
many forms. And, the person that believes
they don't trust others, the real reality
is that they simply just don't trust
themselves.
Now if you've googled, and you're
watching this video, and thinking, what
are you talking about? I've got mistrust
of other people. You saying that I don't
trust myself? That's exactly what I'm
saying, because you'll find that your
beliefs are what you project onto
everyone else and so at some point you
learn to mistrust yourself and you've
lost something dearly. When you don't
trust yourself, you doubt yourself. And a
person who doubts themself, allows in a
cancer of ideas. A wave of ideas to come
in to shut down your creative powers, to
create shut down your creations, to shut
down the enhancements that you can
produce in life. It produces cynicism and
skepticism. The solution is going to be
love, and I call it unconditional love.
Which means, I'm not perfect but I get to
love myself the way that I am. I have an
exercise for you. I want to invite you to
take this serious okay ?no harkening back
to really funny Saturday Night Live
videos. I want to invite you to look in
the mirror. Connect with the person that
you see there.
I invite you to look into your eyes
and then to do this exercise to see the
greatness that is in you.
To take a moment to acknowledge and validate, who
you are? see right now even as I stare at
this camera lens making this video for
you, I can take this moment to look at
the greatness of me and recognize that,
yeah, I make mistakes.
My heart is in the
right place. I have an intention to, to do
good. The greatness I see on me is that, I
love who I am and I love people very
naturally. I'm easily trusting and I
desire to better people's lives if I can.
I love receiving value from other people.
Maybe it's you, and having an opportunity
connect with everyone in this world
where that connection, that energy, is
more important than any wealth that
could create or anything else.
When you look in the mirror, what do you see? what
does it look like for you to connect
with yourself? I invite you to do this
exercise and here's what unconditional
love looks like. I want to invite you in
addition to looking in the mirror to ask
yourself every day,
what is something I can do to love
myself today? it might be giving yourself
the gift of time. It might be buying
yourself something, it might be giving
yourself permission to ponder on
something, think about something. So,
that's the second thing. Here's the third
thing I want to invite you to do. I want
to invite you, instead of mistrusting
other people, I want to invite you to
trust people to be who they are.
Which means, you get to take the good and the
bad. It means that you get to take their
failings and their brilliance. And that
you get to learn how to accept who
people are. Right now, think of someone in
your life that you have mistrust for.
And as you think about them,
isn't this who
they are? it's their choices. It's who
they've chosen to express. Do you have
the ability to love them without the
condition of their mess-ups and flaws? do
you have the ability to love them just
as they are? you might want to try those
words, I accept you. Name... I love you
I understand in the past that,
I felt mistreated by you. I developed this trust
because of this
and now I'm choosing to trust that this
is who you are and I embrace and accept
who you are.
So three exercises.
Get with the mirror.
I wanna invite you to get with yourself
and step into this idea that, "I need to trust
me and I get to restore that trust" So,
final exercise here is just to breathe
that in. I trust me. I love and embrace
who I am. I accept myself. I trust other
people to be exactly who they are and
that's perfect.
Taking the opportunity to step into
unconditional love by loving and
embracing who you are and accepting who
you are that's a really powerful part of
moving forward in your life. Abandoning
this, this, mistrust and step back into
the world where you rejoin us. Not curled
up in your crotchety fetal position
rejoin us. Where, we're free to be us,
you can honor and respect yourself by
how you interact with us, and where we
can find a way to receive all of the
amazing blessings and positive benefits
that we get from socializing with each other.
If it is your time to reclaim
trust, I want to also give you the
invitation to come to limitless. It's a
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