It’s Tripp and just doing some driving around with my new scooter here in Bali Indonesia.
I’ve been thinking about a lot of new things lately that I wanted to share with you and
one specifically regarding losing your virginity.
One of the big reasons people come to Bali is to find peace.
There’s a lot of yoga here, there’s a lot of mediation.
A lot of people seeking to live in the present and not be anxious and worried about the future.
This got me thinking about, what is one of the things that guys seem to worry about the
most when it comes to sex and dating and relationships?
One big topic is losing their virginity.
I know a lot of guys out there who are watching this who have not lost their virginity yet,
put a lot of pressure on themselves to be able to say “Hey, I’ve finally done it.
I’ve had sex with a woman and now I can move on.”
Today, I’m going to teach you a 3 step process that is going to help you, not only lose your
virginity, but also take out this fear of when is it going to happen?
Step 1 here is to focus on the process and not focus so much on the result.
That is one of the key concepts in meditation.
It’s not focusing on the outcome, it’s focusing on what’s happening right in front
of you.
I think that’s one of the reasons why guys always make this big freak out about losing
their virginity and the more and more they freak out, the less they can focus on the
now and the further away the outcome actually is.
In this case, like I’m saying, losing your virginity.
Instead of sitting here thinking I have to lose my virginity, I have to lose my virginity,
and keep on saying that in your head over and over.
Instead, I want you to focus on the actual process that it would take you to lose your
virginity.
That’s going to be talking to more girls, approaching more girls, having conversations
with girls, working on all the things that I discuss on this channel.
Working on building your attraction skills, working on how to get a woman interested in
you and how to understand a woman.
So that you guys can connect and eventually connect so much that you have an intimate
physical experience.
That’s step 1.
Stop putting so much pressure on it.
Stop saying this to yourself.
The minute you’re done watching this video, I never want you to use the word virginity
ever again.
I want you to take that completely out of your vocabulary.
Let’s go on to step 2.
If you end up with a girl, I don’t want you to rush it because that can ruin things
as well.
Some guys end up dating girls, getting in a relationship and they think wow I’ve got
to make sure I have sex with this girl because I have to lose the virginity.
Again, that is going to push her further away.
She’s going to notice that desperation and with that desperation comes neediness and
neediness is one of the most unattractive traits.
That’s right, don’t rush it.
What happens is most guys put this label on virginity.
If they haven’t lost it yet, then what that means is they’re not a man and that’s
farther from the truth.
Just because you haven’t had sex with a woman it doesn’t make you less of a man.
Which is tough I know because we watch movies, we watch TV and that seems to be a very popular
topic and a lot of these teen movies where guys are desperately trying to lose their
virginity.
But just because that’s happening, it doesn’t mean that’s something you need to adopt.
That’s not a mindset that you need to have.
Step 3, eventually it is going to happen.
You are going to lose your virginity.
You’re going to be with a woman and you guys are going to end up having sex.
What are you supposed to do in that situation?
I’ll tell you this.
I know most guys are going to be freaking out.
They’re going to be scared out of their wits cause they’re going to be thinking
“This is it.
This is the time when I actually lose it.”
It’s not going to be perfect the first time you have sex.
It’s going to be messy.
You’re going to make some mistakes.
You’re going to put the condom on wrong.
It could be just unaware of what to do and that’s ok.
That’s alright.
I want you to be alright with that happening.
It’s going to be a funny story that you’re going to look back on one day and be like
“Oh I remember that time I lost my virginity and man nothing was right and that was kind
of fun.”
Don’t worry about it not going the way you want it to go.
It’s going to go the way it’s gonna go and that’s gonna happen.
Just enjoy it.
Enjoy the first experience you get to have being intimate with a woman.
I know some of you are probably like “Tripp, you didn’t really tell me here how to lose
my virginity.
You sort of mentioned it in step one.
But how do I do it?
I actually do want to have sex with a woman.
How do I do it?”
Here’s what I want you to do.
I want you subscribe to this channel if you’re not already subscribed because this channel
teaches you how to get intimate with women.
How to connect with women.
I can’t put that all right now in a 5 minute video.
But I have so many videos on the channel that it’s going to teach you how to build the
attraction that you need to be able to lose your virginity.
Press subscribe and also press the like button and of course comment down below and tell
me any questions you have related to this video, losing your virginity because I want
to hear from you.
I’ll be in the comments answering.
I’ll see you on the next video.