I'm going to take a wild guess that you are no longer interested and having female friends.
Maybe you already have a bunch, maybe you're in the friend-zone.
But you want to get to a point where a woman sees you more than that.
You want what's called sex appeal.
Sex appeal is going to be you being sexy to a woman, showing her that you are a sexual
being and her being attracted to you in a way, WAY different than being a friend.
In a nutshell, what we're talking about here is sexual attraction.
That is what's going to get a woman attracted to you in the way that you want.
So on today's video, what I'm going to be going over are all the various ways that you
can up your sex appeal so that you're more sexually attractive to a woman and not just
as a plain, boring friend.
Some of this stuff and some of the things I'll be saying today, it's not stuff that's
necessarily going to be instant, some things will.
You just have to know that these are going to be things that you're going to be working
on all the time.
This is stuff that is never going to go away.
In fact, some of the things I'll be talking about here are stuff that's just good for
you in general.
If you want to increase your sex appeal to women, this is stuff that might take a little
bit of work.
Either way, I've simplified it down to just a few things that if you work on these, you
will 150% increase your sex appeal.
Let's get into it.
This is one that is probably very obvious.
But if you want to increase your sex appeal, let's talk about some of the outer things.
Some of the things that a woman might see in terms of what you look like physically.
Obviously you can't change your height and you can't change the way you look, and you
can't change how much hair is on your head.
But the one thing that you can change pretty much no matter what is you can change the
way your body looks.
Meaning, you can go to the gym.
Obviously this is nothing new.
This is a pretty basic tip.
But if you want to increase your sex appeal, just know that creating a good body will help
with it.
Do you have to be an amazing stunning weightlifter with shredded six pack abs and huge muscles?
No, you don't.
But I'm gonna guess that if you get into the gym right now and start to create the habit
of going more often, then you will have a nicer body than you have now and that is attractive
to women.
A lot of guys say in the comments that that's pretty much all you need is money and looks
and if you don't have those, you're screwed.
That is not true.
But it is true that money and looks do help.
Of course they help.
Still there is a physical side, like women want to be attracted to what you look like,
but it does contain more than just that.
However, this does help.
So yes go to the gym.
Hopefully you're already going, at least getting there right now.
This should be something that you're doing for the rest of your life.
For you, for her, for just the good of your health and your body.
Go to the gym, make it happen today.
Let's stick with this theme of outer.
We're talking about the way you look, we're talking about your appearance.
The next thing in line is going to be fashion.
Here's the thing, that there are many routes, you can go with this.
But if I can give you my simplest tip on fashion, it's to find a look and stick with it.
Whatever it is, if you're wearing things that are just bland and boring, you don't have
a look going for you, then I want you to tap into that.
What you can do is just go into Google and type in men's styles and you're going to get
a whole different list of styles.
Tap into one and start buying the clothes to look like that style that you want.
Stick with that and I guarantee whatever you pick, you're gonna look better than you look
like right now.
I'm not telling you to wear one specific type of fashion.
It's different for everyone.
You got to feel more comfortable and confident in the things that you like.
But pick a style and stick with it.
This will 100% increase your sex appeal, because it's going to make you look better physically.
It's going to make you look better on the outside.
Plus you're going to be more confident and that increases sex appeal as well because
you're going to be more assertive and more sure when you're talking to a girl and be
more decisive because of that confidence.
Let's summarize what I said here.
We're talking about outer appearance, going to the gym consistently and picking a style
that looks best.
That's the outer stuff.
Let's move to some of the inner stuff.
When I say inner stuff, what I'm talking about are your behaviors and your actions.
The way you are, the way you act.
It's not what you look like, but it's more about what you're doing and the actions that
you're taking.
A lot of guys, they don't focus on leading.
A lot of guys, what they'll do is they'll kind of let the women take over, they won't
be as assertive, they won't make decisions, they really try to cater to the woman.
It's like oh what do you want to do and what do you want and even some guys won't even
approach women because they'll just think the woman should approach me.
They try to be this more 50/50 and the actions here.
Instead, you need to practice leading and being decisive.
These are behaviors of an alpha male, a masculine guy who can really create large sex appeal.
Very attractive to a woman when you can be decisive and take the lead.
This goes all the way from you going over and approaching her to getting her number
to taking her home to going on a first date and so on and so forth.
You picking on what you guys are going to be doing on the first date and even in a relationship
it's going to be more sexy when you're making these decisions and you're taking the lead.
She wants to follow you, you are the leader.
This is what makes attraction work.
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Let's continue here.
Now we're talking more about the behaviors, about these inner qualities.
Here's what's next, and this is more of a mindset that's going to then lead to your
behavior.
In the very simplest terms, you got to start tapping into a mindset where you stop caring
what people are thinking about you.
I work with a lot of clients, guys who I coach and the number one thing that holds them back
is them so concerned about what people think about them.
They're too concerned about getting rejected because they're worried what the girl thinks
about them.
They're too concerned about going over and approaching a woman in public because they're
afraid about what people think are going to think about them.
They're afraid to go after their dreams and their passions because they're afraid of what
their parents or their friends might say.
They're living their life by other people.
I know you're probably thinking, how is this gonna make me more sexy to a woman?
If you are acting in accordance with you, not caring what people are thinking about
you, you're going to be making decisions and doing what you want to do, which is going
to mean you're going to come off more confident.
Not caring equals more confidence because you're not worried, you're not anxious, you're
living in the moment and you're taking action on the things that you care about.
If I were to go into your brain and magically remove the part that cared what people thought
about you, you have no idea how much success you would have in life.
You'd be talking to more women, you'd be more free to make jokes and be more interesting
to people.
You'd probably be doing things that take a lot more courage and taking more risks that
are going to help you with your career or in your relationships, whatever it may be.
I want you to step one, be aware of what it is that you are thinking about.
What are you so concerned about what people are thinking about you?
Where is this showing up?
If you're aware of it, then you can stop it.
And once you're aware of it, you can say I'm going to put this aside for a second and forget
about what other people think and do what I want to do and do what I know what's best
for me.
And this is an infinite amount of things that it could be.
The first step is awareness.
What is it that's holding you back from doing exactly what you want to do?
Saying what you want to say?
Try to be aware of it so then you can tap into the mindset of brushing it aside, removing
it and taking action.
Easier said than done.
You're going to go through a lot of failures, you're going to go through a lot of moments
where you're going to have high anxiety and feelings of embarrassment or feelings of shame.
Just remember that all those things are normal and it's okay because you're doing what you
want to do.
Let me tell you this.
If you're gonna listen to anything on this video, this is the one you listen to.
It may seem kind of different.
Like no, no, we got to look sexy.
It's about looks, looks...
No, doing what you want to do, taking action you want to take is the sexiest thing any
man can do, super masculine.
People follow that person, people look up to that kind of person.
This is not overnight, it's going to take some time.
But the first step, like I said, is awareness.
Here's a real easy one that you can use today, the next time you go on a date, the next time
you are with a woman in person, or you approach a girl, wherever is eye contact.
There's nothing more sexy than really good eye contact.
Looking at a woman in the eye when you're speaking with her, when you're listening to
her, and making sure that you don't break that eye contact.
Eye contact is very magical, because when you're doing it, it's showing the person that
you're listening to them.
And it shows subtle interest which is very flirty and it shows that you're not nervous
and makes you appear more confident, which is also very sexy.
This is something that you can practice today.
Here's a little trick for you.
If you don't know how to hold eye contact really well or you feel like it's very intimidating
to do, what you can do is just look into one of the girls eyes.
It makes a little bit easier than focusing on both of them or focusing on the center
of the nose.
You might not know where to look, just focus on one eye.
That makes it easier for you and if you're looking into one of her eyes, it looks like
you're looking into both of them so she won't be able to tell the difference.
There's a little tip for you to make it easy.
But mainly, I want you to start trying this out, testing it out and making it as part
of your everyday routine when you're talking to anybody.
People feel really engaged with you, they feel connected to you when you can look them
in the eye.
That's why when I'm talking to you right now and I'm not looking at you, it feels a little
off, feels a little different but feels more connected when I'm looking at you.
I've really narrowed down the few things that you need to do to be able to increase your
sex appeal.
I'm telling you, this stuff is powerful.
If you can tap happened into all these and I know that some of these things are not quick
fixes like working out and working on your fashion and tapping into the mindset of not
caring when people are thinking about you and doing your own thing.
It takes time.
None of this stuff is going to happen overnight but I promise if you start to do it and you
do it in the next 30 days and tap into some habits to make this more constant, you will
increase your sex appeal huge in just one month.
Imagine what you could do if you continue to do it month after month.
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Hope this helps.
I'm always trying to make it as easy as possible for you in giving you the most important
information.
I'll see you on the next video.