Heya playa, it's Monday here on The Josh Speaks and I want to ask you a simple question.
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone that you thought you truly loved only
to have them break your heart?
And as you sit there crying and crying over your lost partner you're secretly plotting
revenge.
And that's what today's episode is about.
Cause I'm gonna teach you how to get revenge on your ex.
Anyway, the first way to do it is to make them hate you.
A very simple way to make someone hate you is to go out with one of their best friends.
Because the worst thing to think about is someone that you know, someone that you grew
up with, someone that you've been friends with for years plowing out your ex girl.
But Josh, what if their friends are all ugly?
No problem, we got it.
You just find a devilishly looking handsome stranger to take the place as your boy toy
in front of them.
Jealousy is a really simple human emotion to understand.
People want what they can't have and to see you with someone else is totally gonna destroy
their world.
Go home, get all dolled up and take that boy toy with you to somewhere he's going to be
and have an awesome fucking time in front of him.
Even if he's there with his new girlfriend he's still gonna look over at you and think
wow, she's having a better time than I am.
I really miss her.
But don't take my word for it, here's my amazing friend Caroline to tell you the scoop.
What makes me madder than mad as horrible as this is going to sound is seeing someone
move on.
They'll turn around in that angry little, oh my god I can't believe that person isn't
thinking about me, isn't devoting every second to me and then they'll start to move forward
and after that you just keep living.
The second way to get revenge on your ex is to have them want you.
What I mean by that is to get back with that person and make them truly love you.
Because once they fall in love again, you got hand.
And just like driving a car you now have control over that passengers life.
You can use them, abuse them and lose them.
Bring them to the lowest point in their life where they feel like they need you or else
they can't live and then step on their bones.
It sucks to be completely dependent on a person.
To feel like your life has no value unless they're there.
That's why I completely recommend it if you want to crush them.
But don't take my word for it, let's get a female opinion, Caroline what have you got
to say?
Regardless of whether you walked away or they walked away, it's over for a reason you know?
And definitely if they're meant to come back into your life they will come back into your
life but the thing is you can't sit there and waste your time plotting like little ways
to manipulate the situation because they just makes you as sad as they are for leaving in
the first place, you know what I mean.
But of course the very best way to get revenge on someone is to let them forget you.
If you've ever seen the Count of Monte Cristo, you'll remember the part where Edmond was
forced to take control of his own life.
Before the great change in his life he was a boy in love and after the great change he
became a man.
And what was so interesting was that the girl he loved couldn't even recognize him.
He made so many changes in his life that he was a new person.
But to tie it back to the lesson here, that the best revenge is success.
The best revenge is success.
You, there, weeping about your ex boyfriend or girlfriend.
Move on.
Don't let someone control your reality.
You're better than that you know it.
Trust me, if you focus on things that'll bring positive changes in your life you won't care
what they're doing with their time.
And whether or not they become jealous or bitter, it doesn't matter.
And the reason it doesn't matter is because you'll have successfully moved on to better
things.
Bring it home Caroline.
And that's the best thing that you could do is to force that person to get over you.
Potentially because that's what going to happen anyway.
When two people break up the whole point is to move forward and do your own thing.
And if you can give the person the freedom to do that and they know that you're giving
it to them, there's no better revenge than that.
Make them hate you, have them want you but let them forget you.
Like this video if you agree that the best revenge is success.
Leave a comment if you don't.
Tell me, what's the best way to get revenge on your ex?
And subscribe to the channel so you can see more super cool videos.
As always guys, love and peace.
There was this one girl in high school that I really really liked and nothing destroyed
my world more than to see her with other guys.
One day she told me she was going on a date with this guy after school so I decided to
walk her to every single one of her classes thinking I would change her mind.
And I was crushed when I saw her meet up with the guy after school.
So trust me, nothing hurts more than seeing the person you like with someone else.
And if you're in those shoes you gotta learn to cut them out of your life and move forward.
Thank you Caroline for inspiring me to make this video and for being awesome.