Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. Your dating coach
teaching you today how to make a woman miss you. Here is the deal; one of the
reasons why I've decided to create this video is because I really want to hone
in on the idea of not being needy. That is one of the things that guys
struggle with the most. A guy who is new to the scene
of dating and really excited to put all of these tips into action,
when they finally get a girl interested, their mind might be
completely blown and they're like wow she's amazing, I really like her and they
might go overboard and just be needy and scare the girl away. We don't want to
do this. Let's balance this all out. First here's a very obvious one. You've
heard this before and hopefully this is intuitive. Do not respond right away to
her text messages. If she text messages you, if you guys are in a text
conversation, just because she texts you, doesn't mean you need to respond within
10 seconds. Give it some time. Now don't be ridiculous and wait maybe
four hours, respond respectfully but give it some time. She
text messages, you give it 10 15 minutes, give it a half an hour. The whole idea
here is you need to be busy. We're gonna return to that concept in just a second.
Also when it comes to text messaging, don't be the one to always initiate the
text. Wait for her to text you, wait for her to start the communication.
I don't want you to get into a routine where every single morning you wake up and say
hey how are you or good morning. Let her be the one to initiate the
text message. I think at the end of the day when it comes to
getting into a relationship or getting into a dating relationship, it's probably
best not to be texting all the time, all day. Hopefully you end up on the phone
with her or even more importantly in person because that's where you two
need to end up. I don't want you to have this crazy text message conversation all
the time. You guys should be meeting up, connecting physically in
person with each other. To move along here, let's talk about phone calls.
You start dating a girl, you're gonna be
getting on the phone. I want you to be the one to end the phone call first.
Always be the one to end the phone call first. This is you saying hey I'm
not needy, I have a life, I have other things going on so you're gonna end the
phone call first. Remember we're talking about a guy like you who's
actually busy has things going on so all this stuff doesn't turn into games and
is just real life again we'll get to that in a second. Here's another great
thing you can do. I want you to induce FOMO.
Fear of missing out. I want you to be sending her pictures of things that
you're doing that's fun and cool. Be careful. Don't do this all the time.
If you're sending a text message every single day that you're doing cool stuff
and you never invite her, she's gonna like what the hell is going on? But every
once in a while, maybe once a week, send her a picture of something cool that
you're doing and she's like oh I wish I was with him doing that thing so that
eventually when you do invite her out to do something fun, she's gonna be even
more excited that she gets to do it with you. Another way you could possibly craft
this is posting cool stuff on your Instagram stories or snap stories
or Instagram or Facebook. Other social media to show that you're having
a good time, you have a life and you have things going on. Here's another one, after
the first date don't set the second date for a couple of days. It's okay on
the first date to say hey we should hang out again, love to see you again, this was
fun. All good stuff but don't actually set the date for a couple of days.
You guys had this amazing first date or even amazing second date
don't rush to okay well next week let's do this, let's do this. This
is maybe borderline needy. We want to back off from that, release some of that
pressure, give her time to miss you, give her time to process how much fun she had
with you and how she's attracted to you. Wait one to two, not one, two to
three to four days here in terms of setting up that second date.
This dating relationship; if you really like this girl, you want to take this
further, only see her 1 to 2 times per week. This is huge ok this is huge. 1 to 2
times per week. Take it slow. You also might be dating other women
to see what's going on and see if you connect with other girls. That's
fine. Even better, see her once a week.
So now you have it a little bit more spread out. I'm saying maximum two times per
week until you finally get into an actual committed relationship with her.
Only see her one or two times a week with some sparse texting in between.
Why? Because the theme and the thesis of this video is you need to have a life.
This is so crucial, so important. I don't like having you playing these
games. I want you to actually have things going on. Things going on with friends,
finding events and stuff to do, going to meet ups, creating your own events. I want
you to have a life. This is not only attractive but also it's gonna be easy
for when she asks to have plans or she's texting what are you up to and you'll go
well I'm busy, I'm doing this thing, let's hang out another time.
You're actually doing something. Please work on this. This is so attractive, it's
gonna get you even further in your social life because you're actually
doing things. But how do you get a girl interested in you in the first place?
How does this all happen? How do you get her attracted to you and
hooked on you so you even get the possibility to be able to use some of
the stuff that I'm talking about on this video? You're gonna learn about how to do
that right now here you go.
What's going on man? If you are watching this right now that means that
ou are struggling with meeting and dating women and probably not just any
women, but the ones that you're really attracted to. Those ones that you really
want. Not the ones that you just want to settle with because that's what you
think you can get. And listen, I totally get it. I totally get it. I was there once
too I was a very very shy guy a very nerdy guy who really only settled with
what I could get. But now I'm at the point where I've really discovered and
tapped into some of the secrets in terms of being able to meet and attract the
women that are anywhere. I'm talking on the street, during the day, maybe at a bar
or club or at night, anytime. And this is something that I really want to share
with you. And you can do it too. A lot of guys they just don't think that
they have it in them and they think they need a lot of money, they
need to be really good-looking guys like actor model looking guys to be
able to get the types of girls they want. But let me tell you, this is not true.
I've helped guys all over the world be able to get the women that they
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