I want you to do yourself a favor.
Ask yourself this question right now.
Are you having any fun?
I want you to answer that to yourself.
Are you having fun in this very moment of watching this video?
Is this fun for you?
Think about that for a second.
Once you ask yourself this question, are you having fun?
Or have you had fun in the past hour?
Go ahead.
Think about the answer.
Have you had fun in the past couple days?
Maybe you see where I'm going with this?
Have you had fun the past couple of weeks?
Have you had fun in the past couple of months.
Hopefully you've had fun in the past year.
What am I getting at?
On this video, I want to talk about the concept of entertainment.
You see entertainment is everywhere.
I see it all the time.
I see it everywhere around Sunset Boulevard.
I see tours going around.
I see billboards, ads for different TV shows, all forms of entertainment that are fun.
However, we've learned as a society to be able to have fun by watching other people,
having other people entertain us.
Have we learned how to have fun by ourselves?
Have we learned how to entertain ourselves?
Little do you know, that is one of the secrets to attraction?
I know it sounds crazy.
Maybe you've heard the term before of self amusement.
I know a lot of other companies and other YouTube channels talk about it.
I like to frame it as the idea of entertainment, not entertaining others, not entertaining
girls, not going into an interaction thinking, how can I entertain her?
How can I get her to like me?
I want you to be thinking about another concept that has to do with entertaining yourselves
and going into an interaction with a girl when you first meet her, to make it fun for
you.
Honestly, I think that's what we're lacking.
I think that is the big thing that we're lacking in terms of not enjoying interactions with
girls, even in enjoying our own time.
How can we entertain ourselves?
How can we make every interaction that we have in every moment that we have fun for
ourselves without trying to get it from someone else?
I get it.
I understand.
For someone who is new at learning how to meet women, you might go up to a girl and
try to give them all the work.
Ask them questions so they can entertain you.
Here's some information and techniques I want to go over today in terms of entertaining
yourself.
Before I go into that, let me explain why this works in terms of attraction.
When you are entertaining yourself, when you walk into an action and interaction, not trying
to get anything from the girl, what you're doing is your sub communicating that you are
confident that you have your own life, that you have your own things going on around you
and you don't need others.
You don't need her to have an amazing life.
That's what women want to know.
They want to know that you already have something awesome that they can be a part of.
The point here is that you don't want to go into interaction with the girl trying to get
something from her.
What you want to do is make sure that you're having a fun time making the interaction enjoyable
for you.
I'll be giving you examples here in a few minutes.
I'm going to cut to an actual live segment that I did on YouTube talking more about this
concept.
What's important for you to know right now is what makes you have a good time.
Think about interactions with your friends.
If you have some friends, you have a good time with what makes it fun.
What kind of jokes do you make when you're with people who you're not as nervous around,
you end up being a lot looser and your real personality comes out, you start to have more
fun.
The problem is you're probably nervous around girls right now.
That nervousness is causing you to not loosen up and have a good time and be you.
They might take a minute.
You might have to think a little bit harder about what you need to be doing to have a
good time.
It's not easy, and I never said it was, but I'm telling you that if you want to be able
to attract more women, it's about bringing them into your world, creating your own world.
I ask you this, what is your world?
How do you have fun in it?
Doing our Q&A Tripp Advice office hours live.
We're streaming here on Facebook and YouTube.
Let's talk about the idea of making it fun for meeting girls.
I've noticed that a lot of guys, what they'll do is they'll make it more of a chore and
I get it.
It is seemingly more of a chore because it's like hard work.
You got to go out and put on your face here and build up that energy and then you got
to go and talk to girls.
I like to think about this as examples of entertainment or having fun is going in there
and try to joke around, enjoy and make jokes as if you were with your buddies.
When you're with your friends, what you end up doing is you are being more relaxed, being
more of yourself and you're not thinking so hard.
You end up having a good time and making jokes.
Another way of having fun and making more fun for yourself is just going in there.
This is good for you.
Go in there and talking about what you want to talk about.
If you're going in there thinking like, I gotta ask her a bunch of questions and learn
a lot of stuff about someone I don't know.
That could be fun to you if you're a very curious person, but what are the things that
you like to talk about?
What are the things that you like to engage in?
Those are the things that are going to make it more fun for you.
Someone said, I took a first date to the tennis courts.
I love that idea.
That is a good example of entertainment.
Taking your day to the tennis courts, that is something you enjoy.
Obviously, I'm sure she probably enjoys it too.
Or maybe she doesn't know how to play tennis and you're like, I play, I don't care if you've
never played, even if you're bad, let's just go, have some fun.
It's going to be fun for you.
That's going to be you more in your natural element.
That's what I think entertainment is all about.
It's about bringing you to your natural element.
Girls are attracted to that, they’re magnetically pulled to you, when you are in the mode of
having a good time.
When you're just enjoying life, girls are pulled to that, they're like, wow.
It's more about this journey you’re going on rather than the end result.
When we focus on the end result too much, and we don't focus on the journey, it makes
it more difficult to get the result we want.
Counterintuitive here, and easier said than done, but I'm telling you to practice and
try to experiment with the idea of just having a good time.
When you're out there, when you're interacting with people, I don't care if it's guys or
girls, whoever it is, I want you to enjoy the process.