I'm so excited to be connecting with you today and so today I want to welcome you
to my swipe right video series I'm going to create a series of videos for you all
about how to use the online dating apps and online dating sites and I know this
is going to be really valuable information because I know that there's
a lot of you out there that are experiencing discouragement the
experiencing and even some of you depression not having any success with
online dating and really getting stressed out and really just wanting to
give up and a lot of you have given up and so this is why I wanted to create
the series because I know that there's a lot of men that lie online and in fact I
was just reading some statistic to say women lie more than men online and that
there are so many men that are looking for hookups online is so discouraging
especially when you're looking for a committed relationship and then of
course the scammers can we talk about the scammers are so many scammers online
now and it's so easy to get caught in that that rut because it's so subtle and
they're getting better and more sophisticated at it and also you know a
lot of relationships don't last from online I mean that's another statistic I
was reading about and what happens is it can really make you become really picky
and judgmental because you've been on there and you experienced a series of
disappointments and setbacks and and what happens when you become picky and
judgmental and it's easy to dismiss a good guy that you might have dated
otherwise and so there's just you fall into this trap
and so I've put together actually a really comprehensive training that's
gonna happen next Wednesday night at 4 o'clock a 90-minute training where I'm
going to teach you how to use the the dating sites and teach you my filtration
system that pretty much puts everything on autopilot and this is things that you
haven't heard before so I'm really excited to offer that put
that on your calendar next Wednesday at 4 o'clock Pacific 7 o'clock Eastern it's
going to be a 90-minute call where I'm going to do a video call for those of
you who sign up for it so but for the sake of this video I just want to give
you one juicy little too you can take away right now that's gonna
really help you with your online dating presence and so because here's the thing
by 2040 70% 70% of people will have met their spouse online and I don't want you
to wait till 2040 I want you to meet your spouse on line this year and have
the tools and skills to stay in a healthy relationship and so one of the
things that I want to share with you today that you can do right away is
start to shift your mindset to think of your online dating profiles on your
sites and on your phones as your as a social media platform I mean just think
about it you could probably never even thought about it how many times do you
post on Facebook or do you post on YouTube right some of you all day some
of you maybe aren't as active but I would say generally speaking most people
are posting pictures of their family of their dog of a food of a meal of a trip
I mean it's it's astonishing how much information is coming on Facebook on
YouTube on Twitter on Instagram all these social platforms but guess what we
do we create a profile for online dating and then we launch it and though he sit
there and go where's my guide why isn't he falling into my lap so
here's the thing ladies I want you to start looking at your your profiles as a
as a way to to use it as a social media platform now of course but I want you to
reveal where you leave any personal details but I want you to start getting
on there and and putting as much energy and attention on your online dating
platforms that you do on social media because that's what it is it's really
just a social media platform you probably never even thought about this
so here's some suggestions I want you to do I want you to be tweaking your
profiles every week and it's not a lot of work because you're already doing it
on Facebook and YouTube Twitter and Instagram if you're in social media and
if you want to get the relationship 70% of people are on social media now so if
you want to go to a dark lit bar and sit there with your glass of wine hoping to
meet the one I highly suggest you follow this strategy so it's going to be really
fun too so what you're gonna do is you're going to start looking at your
online dating profiles as your social media platform and you're going to start
adding pictures once week or quote so this is great you can
post a picture but it's a quote something that you resonate something
that means something to you something that will allow a man to get to know you
because believe it or not men are following you on your online dating
profiles and I'm not meaning stalking they're actually they see you on there
and you see men on there too right so there's watching you and they're
getting to know you so you know maybe they're checking out your profile and
you vote I've heard you say you know he looked at me but he didn't do anything
or he liked my profile and didn't do anything what should I do
well don't do anything you don't have to do anything all you need to do is
continue to connect with your your your profile the way you do in social media
so posting a quote like a really cool quote that you resonate with once a week
and then swapping it out next week for another quote or a picture I want you to
get really good on pictures because guess what men are so visual but it
doesn't have to be like a picture of you all done up and perfect to be here's a
great one for you ready a coffee cup of your hand with red or pink nails it's so
cute it's just just a picture it's like you want to meet them for coffee that's
what it's implying and to make sure your nails are manicured nice however that is
for you if that means they're they're just buffed and they're really clear or
you like rather you like black or you like white whatever it is for you that's
a part of your personality that you're showing them and that's why this is so
effective so take a picture of your hand holding the coffee cup make sure that
they can see your nails and that's very pretty thing to do and
another thing you can post is an action shot of yourself I mean to one my client
posted of herself skydiving I mean she was just in the vest getting ready to
skydive but you know where wasn't done she'd never make a bun she's getting
ready to skydive things like that they a picture of your garden I just planted a
planter box like last week just take a picture of that I mean that's
interesting it shows a man that you just planted your planter box so he's kind of
following along with what you're doing just like on social media
maybe you just made a great dish of chicken parmigiana or maybe I'm you're a
vegetarian you've got this incredible meal that you just made take a picture
of it update it to your profile then swap it out with another one next week
there's unlimited of things that you can showcase all
about you showing your personality online flowers and images of landscapes
and of your traveling you know something funny you know a flat tire whatever
you're experiencing and going through you need to put that out there because
it's going to it's going to create an emotional connection with a man before
you even meet him and it's going to inspire him to ask you out or you know
to get in touch with you because don't images inspire us don't quote on
Facebook expense pirates are you liking those quotes and you're and you're
loving those pictures and you're loving the pictures of me at the beach with my
hair all messed up or I've got my coffee and and that's what connects coz it's so
authentic and so organic so that's my big tip for you today and actually this
is this was the secret that I only share with my client because that's what we do
and that's why I'm so successful and I engaged in neh program because I have
all of these inside genius ideas that that just come in through you know my
connection to source that I want to share with all of you and I didn't say
that I'm a genius by the way I'm just saying I get the genius ideas maybe it's
not like Genie ideas because my ponytail anyway so I want you to just look at
your profile with the different through a different lens it's a kaleidoscope and
start creating did all this beauty and your platforms and I know you have less
flexibility on that on the on the apps on your phone I get that but you can
still swap out a picture and you can still change the little you can put
quote for the day and I know that right now
they have a new feature on bumble that says you can put certain different
phrases and one of them is falling in love and I definitely recommend that you
check that go ahead and log that out there you want to fall in love this year
so make sure you click that option and you make it clear that that's what your
intention is okay ladies I'm going to take a couple questions I hope this was
helpful and I'd love to hear your ideas of things that you you did to update
your profile and get like I've told you get good at taking selfies or so many
cute selfies you can take yourself doing the simplest things I mean even a
picture of shoe you know you know I love my shoes men love all the things about
women all things women men love so showcase
your lifestyle whatever that is and it will connect with the right man who's
living a similar lifestyle and this is gonna fast-track you it really is and
instead of just sitting there and waiting right feeling helpless to lean
at like like you're just waiting around for the man to discover you will take
action okay action will fuel your fuel and move yourself forward your belief
actually is gonna happen fuels your action steps big action is a big result
don't forget that so belief creates big action which creates big results and let
me answer one question now do men ever say to take no makeup pictures and do
you have to smile all the time no you don't have to smile all the time I think
that you can be you can be a little mysterious you can be like I mean a
rough day make funny faces I think that that's one now if you're if you like
humor like me because we want to bring a lot of levity I think you can make some
funny faces I think that you can make you know like
a day's sad today you know it's raining something like that and no no makeup I
mean you've seen me post on social media at the gym are nerdy makeup on and I
wear this makeup for these videos for all you ladies but really I don't wear
makeup during the week I like not wearing makeup so and then coming out of
the gym men love women when they're coming out of the gym looking kind of
sweaty I mean that really turns men off - believe it or not so yes be natural be
yourself and and don't feel like you have to glam up every picture that's it
really not sought really possible we can't do that 24/7 we want to show them
that are real the real side of us so you know take a picture a pair of slippers
your slippers and then a little spot that says waiting for you to put your
shoes here stuff like that you know like like two glasses of champagne flutes or
two coffee cups or anything that implies twos okay
all right ladies good okay I I hope this is helpful now I created something
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mistakes are there blocking you and let me know post it in my Umbridge to love
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done with the broadcast okay I can't wait to see what your results are all
right so I'll see you in the next video tomorrow we're going to talk about
online dating for the next week and then we're gonna end it wrap it up with a 90
minute training where I'm really gonna give you the goods I'm gonna I'm not
gonna hold back at all I'm gonna give you my online filtration system that I
only use with my private clients so I'm really excited to share that with you
because I want to see you this to be your Summer of Love this is your Summer
of Love so take the quiz swipe right quiz comm check out your result but you
know what they are and I'll see you tomorrow love you thank you for being
here bye