kill joe goldberg mary penn badgley
dan humphrey yeah i'm tati gabrielle
here on set with elite daily and today i
am your love and relationship guru
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the more transparent you are the easier
things become you just go for it you
don't want to also regret not taking
that chance of telling them you also
have to give them the choice to be able
to be like okay if you're developing
feelings for me but i don't feel the
same way you have to give them room to
be able to walk away
and be okay with that
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it depends on your friend and it depends
on that person just honesty and
transparency through it if everybody's
just kind of upfront and cool about it i
mean talk to your friend be like hey is
this are you okay with this because you
don't want to ruin your friendship just
because you want to
mess around with someone so check in
there first just make sure everybody's
on the same page
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you guys then just gotta like set
boundaries of like hey you can go hang
with your friends when you want to go
hang with your friends but you can't
expect me to go with you because i just
don't dick that vibe it doesn't mean i
love you any less like i appreciate
y'all's friendship but i just can't get
with that respecting one another and
respecting one another's positions on
things and i think that goes for
everything
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run run as fast as you can
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because of the way that social media is
like hyper curated by everyone and like
everyone's putting forth a certain
version of themselves so yeah you don't
know if you really like somebody until
you meet them in person
oh my god my first kiss story is
actually super cute i had this a little
like boyfriend in third grade we were in
the playground under this little castle
it was just one of those cute little kid
kisses of like
i've been in that situation before if
you think that they like you too go for
it just like hey and i don't want to
make this weird or like change our
friendship but like i'm kind of digging
you just slide it in there you know
you can either like cover it up and be
like i love you as a person or you could
just be like hey you know what you don't
got to say it back no pressure
facetime i'm not a texter i don't like
texting i'll be the person that will
just flat out be like facetime somebody
or like in the text be like
so
when are we gonna meet in real life
though that works
if they're like your close friend tell
them outright give them the room to be
like hey you know you can do what you do
you're grown you like you know have your
own judgment but just as somebody who
loves you i don't think that this is
good for you preface it from that
standpoint like this is coming from a
place of love not a place of like you're
just hating on the
boyfriend girlfriend whatever the case
that means that they either still love
you or that they're just like so bitter
and like jealous and jaded that like
they just want to know what you're doing
and make sure you're not doing better
than them but in either case ignore it
i mean i would always say on a first
date be you like be the most you that
you can be don't overthink it because
you want them to like you for you not
some curated version of you
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if you unlike it the notification is
still gonna like be there on their thing
so just leave it if anything it's a
little hint saying hey
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i remember my parents or just elders
always being like you'll know when you
know and it is a really true
saying
absolute feeling of happiness and
ecstasy with someone that's like
unmatched and unduplicable you just know
and you know
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you