Pastor Stewart Alan Clark of
the first General Baptist Church in
Missouri is on leave after a video
surfaced of him saying what you to
be quite honest expect the pastor
in Missouri to say.
He seemed to have an unhealthy
obsession with Melania Trump and
emphasize that women need to be
as attractive as possible for
their husbands.
Because husbands can help it,
they like to look at pretty things.
Let's start with the first video.
>> Why is there so many times that
women after they get married,
let themselves go.
Why is it?
Why they do that?
Here's how way too many women are.
I got him now.
The chase is over.
That's where you're on,
the chase ain't never over.
And by God he don't love me the way
I look now, he ought to look in his
own spare tire in the mirror.
No, I'm not saying every woman can
be the epic, the epic trophy wife
of all time like Melania Trump.
I'm not saying at all that most
women can't be trophy wives but
you know like her maybe you're
maybe a participation trophy.
I don't know.
But all I can say is not everybody
looks like that.
Amen.
Not everyone looks like that.
But you don't need to
look like a butcher either.
>> This was during a sermon in
front of parishioners,
there are women in the audience.
And by the way,
that's the first clip we've shown
you and it's the tiniest clip,
it gets worse.
I'm going to hold fire,
Jank you go.
>> All right, so
just couple things to start here.
First of all,
did you notice what he said?
He said, well, maybe you could get
you can't get a trophy wife like,
you can't be a trophy
like a wife like Melania.
Maybe you need a participation
trophy.
This guy's disgusting.
>> Totally.
>> And then secondly, we're not
going to note the hypocrisy.
It's like me telling someone to not
eat a bacon cheeseburger.
[LAUGH] What do you,
look at you brother, look at you.
In the post game I'm going to tell
you the story of some guy who made
the mistake of calling me fat.
And that's correct, but wait till
you see what I did to him.
So TYT dot com slash join to get
the post game, to hear that story.
But in this case,
how does he not look in the mirror?
And you know what it is,
it's entitlement.
It's privileged.
He thinks I can be as fat as I
want to but women are not allowed
to be like wise and
he really believes it in his
bones his big bones.
>> Okay, look, I definitely agree
with you on that.
But part of the reason why I'm not
getting offended while watching
this is because well, number I look
at him and I really see a sad guy.
He's clearly not a happy, fulfilled
person he went on a 22 minute rant
about how women need to look good
and you're right I mean he lacks
any and all, self reflection.
And I'm doing I'm trying real hard
to be a good person by not getting
down in the dirt with my commentary
here, but let me get to
the next clip before I do anything.
>> Do you mean roll around with
pigs, Anna?
>> Let's get to the next clip.
>> I could say it, I can say it.
>> I too am >> Next clip.
>> An overwight American, okay?
I am telling you, brother,
[INAUDIBLE] >> When I used to do
marital counselling,
I don't anymore.
[NOISE] >> I
was young Patrick know it better.
And I agreed to counsel this couple
in America five years.
She looked like a sumo wrestler.
And he was a little guy.
And I started saying, there wasn't,
was no intimacy going on there.
And, I'm trying to keep a straight
face.
I'm trying, this is awkward.
I've never really, counseled too
many married people for, and so
I said to him, I said.
So, what seems to be the problem
when it comes to the,
intimacy part?
[APPLAUSE] >> He because she's
a fat And she came over that table,
and she grab him and
threw him on the floor and
get on top of him and started
beating the crap out of him.
[LAUGH] >> And here I am am I
feeling a WWE wrestling referee,
I'm trying to pull her off.
He's got two black eyes probably
broken ribs because she's punching
in the ribs and
the face at the same time.
And I get finally get her pulled
off her and then we sit down
It's like nothing ever happened.
That never happened.
Jank back to you.
>> [LAUGH]. Look, I just look man,
I'm overweight.
>> She's so sad.
>> No, but so I'm not getting that
the guy, in a hypocritical way, I
but I don't go around calling other
people names like it's insane.
It's how does
he not look in the mirror?
He called her a sumo wrestler,
dude, I make up the story for
my kids and
it has different characters.
One of them is called Dr.
Belly Balm.
If I dropped Dr Belly Balm,
and his superpower is people
bounce off his belly and
fly halfway across the world.
That's the guy who is rob.
You're talking
about sumo wrestlers brother.
That's what you're talking about.
>> Yeah, and the reason why I think
he's not a happy person is because
everything that he's focusing on is
physically related, right?
And I know from personal experience
that there are a lot of hot people
out there and you can have a lot of
fun without people, but
if there isn't substance behind
that hotness, and this goes for
men and women by the way.
I know people like to say but
men are, they're visual creatures.
Yeah, because women aren't visual
creatures.
Yeah, I'm sure.
No, but you still if you're
going to get married, okay,
I'm married.
I've been married for,
how many years has it been?
Since 2016, marriage is hard when
you really like your partner.
When your partner stimulates
you both sexually and mentally,
it's still hard.
So the fact that he's just hyper
focused on physical appearance,
obviously his priorities are all
messed up.
And it gives me some reason to
believe that he's not happy in his
own relationship.
>> Of course.
>> Yeah, he talks about that later
and I didn't clip that
out because it just
the conversation grossed me out.
He was pretty critical of her in
front of all the parishioners about
how overweight she became after
having children.
And then he gave her a tough talk
and she lost weight.
Now she's under 100 pounds, which
by the way is pretty unhealthy.
I mean, I don't know how tall she
is, but based on what he's saying
that sounds unhealthy.
But he's just a sad person and
I don't let people that in any way
make me question my own self
worth or value.
And I'm glad that he's getting
counselling because that's
what he needs.
We do have one more clip though,
let's go to that.
>> Here's a secret you need to know
ladies.
God made men to be drawn to
beautiful women.
We are made this way,
we can't help ourselves.
We are like that.
That's how God made us.
Do you think Eve wasn't attractive
in the garden?
He made men to be attracted to
beautiful women.
By the way that's why he married
you.
He thought you were the most
beautiful thing he had ever seen in
his life.
And that's why he married you,
you can call it a juvenile.
You can call it immature.
You can call it sexist,
whatever you want to,but here's
another secret you need to know,
ladies this is the way God made us.
It's the way we are.
Men are going to look,
he made us to look.
You want them to be looking at you.
So we need to not, we, me either,
don't let yourself go.
It's important that your man has
a good looking woman on his arm.
>> What are you reading over there,
Stuart Allen, is that the Bible?
Are you referencing the Bible but
you're saying all this
ridiculousness?
I'm also I just love that talking
point of, well what can we do?
God made men visual creatures.
Yeah, God made me want to lay
around and eat twinkies all day but
I don't do that, right.
God made me want to just sleep in
every single day,
but I don't do that.
Because guess what, we have to
control our impulses or urges to
be part of a civilized society.
So for him to say, well,
what can we do?
We like to look, we'd like to look,
we like to look for
visual creatures.
So women are supposed to control
their impulses, and you
guys are free to go, you're free to
provide as much as you want.
What can you do,
God made you that way?
>> Yeah >> I mean, it's
just pathetic.
>> Look, there isn't anything that
you couldn't use the Bible to
justify.
So when these preachers when
they're quoting the Bible,
he just telling you what they want.
They're cherry picking at best Half
the time >> There is nothing
in the Bible about this Jank.
>> Well, no,
I'm going to say one thing that he
gained from Corinthians.
I don't know that it's a real
quote, but I'll explain that but
it doesn't matter.
It's the same thing with the Quran.
It's the same thing
with the Talmud. It doesn't matter.
This guy doesn't want his wife
to be overweight and
he wants his ass to be overweight.
And he's just using the Bible as
a prop for it.
It has nothing to do with the Bible
overall, of course, that's true.
The only way I'm listening to
this guy about other people's
weight problems.
Zippy is doing this sermon
on a treadmill.
Let's keep it real, okay.
Now on in terms of what he said,
this is about to take a turn.
So he said, no, I think you're hot
in that hairstyle.
That's what matters.
It doesn't matter what you think of
yourself.
I don't care about your
self esteem.
Only that matters is do I think
you're hot?
That's the only thing that women
should care about this guy's
discussing.
So then he says
that he claims a quote Corinthians.
When he says, quote,
the wife has no longer all
the rights over her body, but she
shares them with her husband, okay.
So now if you're a woman who's
married according to this guy,
and according to Corinthians his
interpretation of it,
women that say you have no
rights to your body anymore.
Your husband owns your body.
And if that wasn't clear enough,
he went on to say, so
whenever she's not in the mood,
take out your Bible.
No that's just flat out marital
rape.
So this guy's got to go it's no
longer funny about the hypocrisy
etc.
This guy's a monster.
>> Yeah, absolutely
there's no question I mean and
I listened to the rest of it and
I couldn't help but think about the
women who were in that audience.
And by the way,
one of those parishioners was
the one who decided to put this up
on Facebook, because she was so
disgusted by it and obviously, she
was justified in her disgust here.
But it's just I mean,
aside from being deeply disgusting
and misogynistic,
there are all assumptions being
made about human behavior, right,
both male and female.
And I think that being in
a relationship, whether it's
a marriage, civil union boyfriend,
girlfriend, whatever, girlfriend,
girlfriend, boyfriend
boyfriend doesn't matter, right?
We as humans are, I just, doesn't
matter how hot your partner is,
you're going to look, you're
going to look at other people.
And that's okay.
We're humans, right?
So don't let that scare you.
Don't let that type of talking
point that you heard in those
clips, terrify you about your
relationship because, I mean,
I check out other people,
I hope my husband checks out other
people because that's normal.
And that's okay.
The question is do you act on it or
not, right?
So it's just stupid,
your physical appearance has little
to do with it.
If you're married to the hottest
person for years and years and
years, it doesn't matter.
Eventually you're going to admire
the physical appearance of
other people.
And that's normal.