Every personality type has one thing in common. It’s the fact that a lot of stereotypes
revolve around their personality. One personality type that gets the most
bothered by that is INFJs. See, the thing is INFJs are great at reading other people’s
emotions and knowing what a person is thinking. But, there’s one blind spot. It can be hard
for them to figure out how other people see them. And this blind spot can really frustrate
them. But don’t worry. I’m going to help you
figure it out today in this video. Because today, I’m talking
about how other people view an INFJ. Even if you’re not an INFJ, make sure to tune
in till the end of the video so you can finally understand the INFJs around you better and
let go of any false stereotypes.
Let’s get into it.
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Kicking things off and number 7 today is People think they’re socially awkward.
Now, I’m sure this one doesn’t surprise any INFJ, right? Because let’s face it,
most if not all INFJs already fear that they come off as socially
awkward. But if I’m making a video on how other people view INFJs, this one definitely
has to be mentioned. But there’s one thing INFJs are mistaken about though. They
think everyone around them is always judging them because of how socially awkward
they think they are. Well, that’s not exactly true.
Other people aren’t judging you nearly as much as you think they are. But yes, they
can notice how awkward you get when you’re trying
to fit into certain social gatherings. But, that isn’t always the case. Once INFJs
get a little bit comfortable and try to interact with other people, they’re actually great
at holding conversations and yes, other people think that too. In fact, if INFJs work and
develop their extraverted feeling function, many
of them can actually be mistaken as extroverts as well. So, it’s true that INFJs can be
considered socially awkward but it’s nothing that has to be permanent and is often untrue.
Number 6 on today’s list is People think they need to be more direct.
As INFJ, they all have the habit of keeping their feelings and thoughts hidden. INFJs
do this for the sake of other people. They don’t
want to bother other people with their own emotions. But other people don’t see it
that way. INFJs are trying to avoid hurting people but instead, because of how closed
off they are about their emotions, they end up confusing others.
And for some, it can be really frustrating. They’re always confused whether an
INFJ likes them or not. And INFJs that are way too shut off about their emotions can
come off as rude or passive-aggressive to other people, even when that’s not their
intention. Even though for INFJs, it has become a habit
and they think they’re doing it for the betterment of other people but others don’t
see it that way. In fact, as I mentioned, some people tend to see it rather
negatively. So, somewhere along the way, to avoid that from happening, INFJs need to
get out of their shell and get into the habit of saying things a bit more directly.
Number 5 on our list of ways other people see an INFJ is People see them as intelligent.
Well, it’s a fact that INFJs do have a pretty high emotional intelligence. Of course, considering
this personality type also loves to study new things and figure out how
everything works, it isn't surprising that others see them as intelligent. INFJs can
speak about many different topics in depth. That gives other people the impression that
they’re really intelligent. Because of course, when someone knows a lot
about many different topics, people get impressed. Well, it’s absolutely true. INFJs
sure are intelligent but sometimes, it isn’t necessarily
about intelligence. It’s just about how the World interests them and how they love
to learn a lot about many different things. And when you
combine this knowledge with an INFJ’s exceptional introverted intuition, of course, people see
them as extremely intelligent.
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Next up and number 4 today is People see them as kind and helpful.
Sure, INFJs can seem to be socially awkward. But that’s not always the case. Even
when they’re a bit awkward, INFJs make sure they help everyone around them. Sure, when
you look at them from far away, you might think they’re a little rude. But that’s
because of their introverted intuition cognitive function.
Once you start talking to an INFJ, they’re some of the kindest and most helpful
people! That’s because when it comes to helping
people, INFJs put their natural awkwardness aside. They make sure they deal with people
kindly and they’re always considerate towards everyone. They make sure if someone
needs help, they’re there to help. Even if
it’s a small issue. They’re there. And in fact, one of the best characteristics of
INFJs according to other people is the fact that
you know if you need help, they’ll always be
there for you no matter what.
Starting our top 3 ways other people see an INFJ is People think they’re observant.
Okay, let’s face it. It’s a fact that INFJs don’t talk a lot unless they are around
their close circle. But they do notice everything. They might never say it out loud and they’ll
mostly ignore it for the sake of the other person but they do notice everything going
on around them. However, it’s a fact that nothing can stay hidden from an INFJ. And
other people notice that too. When INFJs enter a new environment, they make
sure to look around and observe the people and the situation. They pick up different
vibes around the room. And once they know what the environment is like and if they
like it, only then can they get comfortable and talk.
Yes, it’s totally true but as an INFJ, I’m sure you might think that no one around you
notices that. Well, this might come as a surprise but people do notice it. And yes, INFJs are
known to be very observant by everyone around them.
In the runner-up spot and number 2, today is People see them as calm.
If we talk about an INFJ’s mind, nothing about it is calm. A lot is going on in their
minds and it can be complete chaos. In fact, many
times, it gets really hard to deal with for them.
But even with all that mess in their mind, they’re great at hiding it from other people.
That might be because most INFJs usually think of their problems when they’re alone.
That’s why it’s so important for INFJs to have some alone time by the way. Otherwise,
their feelings just explode and they can regret it later on.
But even with all that, other people tend to think INFJs are rather calm. Because when
they’re around people, they don’t let out an external reaction. Even with all the
confusion in their mind, they make sure they have a pretty stable demeanor and that’s
why most people see them as really calm.
Topping our list and the number one way other people see an INFJ is People think they’re
easy to get along with.
Even with their social awkwardness, people aren’t exactly repelled from INFJs though.
In fact, people think they’re really easy to get along with. Other people tend to get
comfortable in the presence of an INFJ quite quickly.
If you’re an INFJ, I have a question for you. Have you ever started talking to a new
person and noticed how they started opening up to you really quickly and you were just
confused? It seems you can never open up to someone so quickly. How can other people
that are strangers come to you for advice or for comfort? I’m sure pretty much all
of you have gone through this at least once in your life.
Well, it’s simply because you give off a vibe that sets people at ease and makes them
comfortable. And add to it the fact that you’re a great listener and well, that’s why
people love coming to INFJs with their problems.
It might confuse you but for other people, you’re like a safe place. They can share
things with you and know you won’t judge them and
know that you’ll be there to listen to their problems and help them wherever possible.
I’m pretty sure many of you INFJs watching this might have been put off because people
think you’re socially awkward. But don’t worry. No one even cares about that. Once
people get to know you, they realize just how kind you are, and trust me, for most of
your friends, you’re a safe place and they know
they can come to talk to you whenever they need to. So, be proud of yourself. That’s
a huge strength!
What are your thoughts on how other people see you as an INFJ? Have you experienced any
of these? Leave a comment and let me know!
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