Ladies, how do we know when the man is a waste of time?
And how do we know when he is not really serious with us?
Today, I want to share with you my research.
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Now, ladies, let's start with this research that I'm about to share with you.
In my life, I have X amount of male friends,
and I'm lucky to have them because they're affluent, they're high caliber men.
And what's interesting is that they're also single.
The reason why I say that I'm lucky to have them in my life is because I get
some insights to how men think.
And it gives me so much material to a lot of the content that I created here on
YouTube, but also the things that I teach in my elite finishing school.
And today's video is really based on this research that I did on a few of
my male friends. And
I'm going to tell you that all this list, they all do this,
or have done this at some point when they have not been interested in a woman.
And I can tell you that when I have seen them being really interested
in somebody, they don't do any of these things.
So really pay attention and make sure your man doesn't do any of these things.
Number one, a man is definitely not into you
if he cancels last minute or if he doesn't keep his words or promises.
Men who are flaky, men who ghost you,
men who say something, but then do another.
Those men are either mentally not trustworthy,
meaning that he might not even be something that has to do with you.
They're just like not a hundred percent mentally there.
They are perhaps selfish or they have their own issues that makes them become this way.
Now that's one of course,
but actually the most common one is that men who are a little bit all over the
place and do whatever they want and what they care for besides the aspect that
they might just be selfish people.
Oftentimes, they wouldn't do this to a woman they deeply deeply care for.
So this is something you have to do pay attention to. If a man is being flaky,
he's not valuing you.
And this is a bit of a harsh reality or the harsh fact to accept,
but you need to digest this one and selling yourself short.
Because if he keeps cancelling last minute and just does what he wants to do,
and doesn't really take you into account. Then I'm sorry to say,
but he's definitely not keeper. Number two, he is inconsistent.
One day, he seems to be really into you. Then the next day,
it seems like he doesn't care anymore.
And this is very frustrating for a lot of women.
And when a man is this inconsistent,
many women become more obsessed and more in love with a man this way.
This is why bad boys are so popular. Bad boys are so inconsistent.
One day, they're all over you. And then the next day,
they're so cold and that's what makes you feel infatuated by them, right?
But this is so incredibly unhealthy in particularly if you want to find a really
long lasting, serious and genuine relationship,
you need to have somebody who is consistent with his love towards you.
Not somebody who is just again being flaky.
I also think it's important that in a relationship,
you shouldn't always be worried. You shouldn't always be thinking,
does he really love me?
You should really feel to the core that your man loves you, that he adores you,
that you are his number one.
And he has to make you feel like that consistently. Surely,
relationships are ups and downs, but there's always a red thread.
If this man is inconsistent with this red thread,
you are unsure of his feelings towards you. That is a big warning sign, ladies.
You really need to take precautions then,
and maybe get out before you really get hurt.
Or if you know that you are seriously dating all these bad boys,
stop dating bad boys. Most bad boys are a waste of time,
energy and if you know that you are dating a bad boy,
who's causing you so much headache, but you still love him deeply.
My dear elegant lady, get out, get out now. It's not worth it. Number three,
he's not really that serious if he keeps talking to other girls on social media
and I don't care if it's just friends, it is not okay.
If this man is with you,
if he's serious with you and he keeps messaging with all these women,
it's a warning sign. Then it's also a sign of disrespect. Believe me,
when the man is really into a woman and really crazy about a woman,
he's not going to even be interested talking to all these girls.
And you know what,
what I'm saying right now is exactly what a few of my male friends have told me.
Because I have seen when they have been really into a woman and it's such a
difference compared to when they are with these women that they only have for a
short amount of time. I even remember one even told me once that, "Yeah, I mean,
I like her, but I'm actually like texting with a lot of women right now.
So I mean, she doesn't know it, but yeah, I don't know".
And it's just such an obvious sign that he's texting with other women because
he's looking what else is out there because he's not sure on this woman.
And this is the thing my dear ladies,
do you want to be with a man who's not sure if he wants to be with you?
I personally wouldn't.
Why would you as a high caliber woman waste your time with somebody
who hasn't decided yet, if he wants to be with you?
Get out, get out now and leave while you're still walking out proud,
not when he has made up his mind If he wants to be with you.
Please don't be a beggar for a man.
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Number four,
it is a bit of a warning sign when he needs time away from you.
And let me just clarify this one,
because I am a firm believer that it's incredibly healthy to not
be glued to your partner 24/7.
And I'm sure a lot of you agree with me on that one.
But what becomes a little bit of a warning sign is when he actually needs a lot
of space away from you.
Having a little bit of time away from each other is fine.
But when you need a lot of time away from each other,
that's when it becomes a little bit strange.
A common thing that I see is they need the time with the boys and they cannot be
without this precious time they have with their boys.
The reason why I'm making a little bit of fun of that is because I really don't
like men like that. I think that a woman should be the top priority for a man.
If they are in a serious committed relationship and he's crazy about her,
I don't think it's normal if a man is prioritizing his friends or
the boys.
I've just seen so many men being so selfish in this department and many women
accept being the second option. That's why if he really needs his independence,
and if he really need so much time away from you, ask yourself,
is this what you also want? And ask yourself,
do you think this is a healthy sign for your relationship?
I mean, some relationships, they actually work really well this way.
So I'm not going to paint a dark cloud there and say, Oh,
it's a bad relationship because some couples actually,
this is how they live and they make it work perfectly fine. But ladies,
I talk about the general masses here and if you really look on it objectively,
it's a warning sign. Number five.
Now another sign that he might not actually be that
interested in you is when he
rather spends time on his phone instead of spending time with you.
And this is another one that I see a lot.
And especially with some of my male friends, when they're really into a woman,
then all of a sudden they forgot about their phone.
The phone does not really exist, even though they're a busy businessman,
their phone and emails go on all the time.
But they still manage to take time for this woman that they're madly in love with
and crazy about. However,
when they are with somebody that they're actually, you know, she's all right,
but I'm not really that crazy about her.
Then you see that they're actually prioritizing their phone.
When you have free time together and the man actually doesn't necessarily need
to be on his phone because of work,
but he chooses to be on his phone instead of having some quality time with you.
I am aware that we also live in an era and in the modern time where
a lot of people suffer with phone addiction.
So it also could be phone addiction in disguise.
But I can tell you that when a man really is into somebody,
he will set his priorities differently.
And I think the message that I'm really trying to send to you here is not so
much necessarily about the phone, but more about,
does he give you the attention that you want?
Does he want to spend time with you or does he prioritize other things?
Because when you are not his top priority,
it shows and it also tells a little bit about how he feels about you.
Now, I'm sure that if you want to have a very happy relationship,
you want to always be somebody's top priority.
Somebody who values you like you are his queen, like you are his muse,
like somebody who doesn't matter how long you've been together.
He always feels strongly about you. Love does not go away,
even if you're an old married couple.
Number six, now this might not be applicable for all my 50/50 couples.
But for us who do not have a 50/50 relationship,
we notice that a man is not really that into us when he doesn't want to spend
money on us. Because money is a love language at the end of the day.
if you are really into somebody, you want to do everything for that person.
You want to give that person the world,
but men and women communicate love a little bit differently.
Men are a little bit less nurturing. Men are a little bit more providing.
So in this case, a lot of men, besides of course,
giving you attention and giving you love.
They also oftentimes show that they love you by spending on you.
And when the man is being stingy with you,
not because he's necessarily a stingy person,
but you can see that he's holding back from spending on you.
That is often a warning sign that he might not be sure of his love
or interest in you. Or he might just not be that into you. A lot of the times,
women are not understanding why he's not spending, why he's not spending on me,
why he's not giving me this gift that I wanted, or that.
Sometimes there are of course logical reasons to why.
Maybe he doesn't afford. Maybe, I don't know,
he's not that generous after all in general.
But if you know that he is usually not like this,
let's say he has spent a lot of money on his previous girlfriend that he loved deeply.
But then he doesn't spend on you. Warning sign.
You don't have to break off the relationship
just because he doesn't spend on you,
but you really should take it into account and then observe how else he's
treating you. If he's treating you with love and care.
And if he's truly doing everything else for you,
then maybe this doesn't matter so much.
This might not be the ultimate deal-breaker for some,
but for some women it is. This is really up to you.
I don't necessarily say that just because he doesn't spend on you,
that you should get out.
But if you feel like generosity is very important for you as a woman and that
you want to have a man who spends on you because you enjoy it,
then find somebody else. Now, ladies number seven,
and this one is the last one for today.
If a man disappears and he takes time getting back to you and you just don't
understand, where is he and why haven't I heard from him for a while?
Well, let me tell you, well, maybe it's because he's just not that into you,
just like they say in that movie. But truly ladies, this is the case.
A man, he will be with you if he's interested in you. He's not going to disappear.
He is going to value the relationship.
And he's definitely not going to take a whole day to respond to your message if
he's into you. So let's be honest here,
let's stop with the stupidity of accepting this type of behavior from men.
And they know that I have some of you ladies who do this still,
and this is why we need to learn how to set better boundaries with men.
In my new program, Secrets Of The Elite Women,
I teach so much on setting boundaries, not only with men,
but also generally speaking in your life.
Because how do we become a high caliber woman if we don't set boundaries?
It's impossible.
But setting boundaries with men is probably one of the greatest skill you can learn.
Because you're going to understand, the more boundaries you set with men,
the higher quality men you will start attracting and the better treatment
you're going to get from your significant other.
So do not cheat on this department, ladies.
I really want you to think about how you set boundaries with men and think
about that now is the time to step up that game and start setting strong
boundaries, and stop lowering your worth. So ladies,
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