26 Reasons Introverts are So Attractive!
#26.
Good listeners Ever talk to someone and they just go on about
me, me, me?
You’ll never get that from an introvert.
There’s a saying that goes, “two ears.
One mouth.
Use accordingly.”
Introverts do this naturally.
Introverts listen more and speak less, using it as a way to understand you, and not just
waiting for you to catch your breath so they can reply.
That helps make for a stronger connection and a healthier relationship be it friendship,
business, or romantic.
#25.
Mysterious Quality They hold a lovely air of mystery.
Perhaps it’s because introverts keep quiet more than extroverts, but it lends a unique
and mysterious quality that no one can really put their finger on.
As a result, it can make extroverts who talk themselves up feel a tad bit threatened at
times.
And yet, the mysteriousness compels people to want to know more about them.
#24.
Easy To Be Around Some of the nicest and friendliest people
you’ll meet will be introverts.
That’s because they’re not obsessed with being in the spotlight constantly.
Introverts don’t always want to be all alone.
They like the company of others, but are happiest in smaller groups instead of large crowds,
which is very draining for an introvert.
They do well with one-on-one interactions, as well, and are just easy and comfortable
to be around.
#23.
Perfectionists Introverts put forth a great deal of effort
working on themselves.
They strive for better ways to relate to others to not be perceived as boring.
While introverts are anything but boring, overbearing extrovert types will make an introvert
feel inferior at every turn.
Particularly in the working world, an introvert will look for the best way to shine bright
without being ostentatious.
#22.
Productivity Masters When introverts take time to enjoy solitude,
they often use the time to improve themselves.
As creative thinkers, they use this time to work their imaginations.
Reading is a prized activity of the introvert.
And most of history’s top inventors were introverts, utilizing that quiet solitude
to dream up and bring to life some of the world’s greatest inventions.
#21.
Dreamers Being dreamers is why introverts have some
of the best ideas, resulting in life-changing inventions.
Dreaming isn’t a time-waster.
It allows the mind to suspend in a world of creativity.
And, introverts can make you feel like you’re part of the magic when they make you a part
of their intriguing ideas.
#20.
Deep People Introverts are more inwardly-oriented and
because of that, they go so much deeper than the surface.
They have an excellent sense of self and focus on what they want in life.
It’s why introverts are much more likely to go for their truest passions no matter
the obstacles.
These self-driven, highly-motivated people are most definitely attractive.
#19.
Keenly Observant While extroverts are busy cultivating attention,
introverts are observers who notice the things many others don’t.
They absorb information quietly, tucking it away for later creative uses.
Introverted people are great at reading people and anticipating their needs too, which makes
for a perfect partner.
Everyone wants someone who can glean cues to be finely in tune with what you want, even
if you haven’t said a word.
#18.
Unpredictable Introverts can be unpredictable.
Because of that mysteriousness, it’s really hard to read an introvert.
Sometimes you’ll observe them being quiet around some people while being loud around
others.
It’s an attractive quality, one that reels people in, thanks to a complete lack of understanding
and the desire of the other person to learn much more about them.
#17.
Too Real Introverts rarely succeed at sales.
That’s because they just don’t have it in them to fake reality into something better.
So, sales jobs don’t suit them even slightly.
Introverts don’t pretend, and they know they don’t have to fake anything to make
friends or win people over in business.
Most of them avoid sales jobs like the plague.
#16.
Intensely Intimate Because of their complex and deep nature,
introverts avoid making many connections.
However, they focus on building very intimate ones with a select few people that they deem
worthy enough to let into their inner circle.
When you gain an introvert’s interest, they will open up and let you into the rivers of
their soul.
#15.
Careful With Words They are choose their words wisely.
When an introvert speaks, they take the time to choose the words they say carefully, lest
they say something inappropriate.
Introverts don’t ramble on and on with absolutely no point.
They know how to keep it simple yet interesting, thus leaving you hanging on their every word.
You’ll want to hear more and more of what they want to say.
#14.
Think Outside The Box Psychological studies have shown that the
most extraordinarily creative people are usually introverted.
Solitude is an ideal habitat for cultivating creative ideas and introverts are experts
at finding quiet alone time in which to bring their ideas to life.
Being able to completely tune into their own thoughts without the interjections of others
is not only soul-soothing to them, but also instrumental to their success.
If you really want to win over an introvert, let them have their time and space for creativity,
and they will show you heaps of appreciation.
#13.
Studious And Smart An introverted person loves to read and learn
new things.
Give an introvert a book on a subject they love and they’ll be forever grateful.
They love to discover new things about the world around them.
This quality draws others in because smart people that continually seek to learn more
are incredibly interesting and appealing.
That’s nicer than being around someone who is oblivious to the world around them.
#12.
Intellectually Stimulating Thanks to their studious nature, introverts
are very good at conducting intellectual conversations.
They absorb lots of facts and love to share them with others but without bragging.
It’s appealing to find an introvert because they light up when engaged in this type of
sharing of the minds.
They truly thrive on it.
#11.
Sensitive Type Studies have shown that introverts are more
sensitive than extroverts.
In one study, they put lemon juice on the tongues of both introverts and extroverts.
The introverts salivated more, showing that their brains were more responsive to stimulation.
They’re also more sensitive to external events.
Introverts have the capability to feel what others feel.
They can feel very guilty if they upset someone, or exceedingly happy when they were able to
do something positive for someone else.
They can also empathize better, able to put themselves in the shoes of others and truly
feel and appreciate their feelings.
#10.
Disciplined Because they are less impulsive and tend to
think things through first before diving right in, introverts are better at delaying gratification.
They know the power of holding out for the short term and making sacrifices, so they
can enjoy something greater in the long run.
#9.
Even-tempered Introverts don’t get overly irritated when
someone provokes them like extroverts do.
Instead of blowing up, they express their anger without causing a fuss.
They take things in stride and are more reasonable, stable and mature, which are all ideal qualities
we find attractive in all types of relationships.
#8.
Great Sense of Humor Thanks to all that creative thinking, introverts
are intensely funny people.
When one opens up to you, they will make you laugh harder than you’ve ever laughed before.
Great humor is a sign of intelligence too, and this witty personality that makes you
laugh is one you’ll find yourself wanting to be around always.
#7.
Romantic at Heart Once you get to know more about an introvert
you like, you’ll likely be swept off your feet.
Introverts are incredibly expressive with the right people and the ways they can tell
you how they feel, from speaking their mind to writing it out in verse, they are beyond
romantic.
It’s also reassuring because who doesn’t want to know where they stand in a relationship?
With an introvert, you’ll know they love you, mind, body and soul.
#6.
Dependable You can always count on an introvert to have
your back.
Of course, you’ll need to get in on their inner circle.
But once you do, you’ll find they are fiercely loyal and will always work hard to make you
look good in business, friendship and romance, too.
#5.
Independent In the business world, you don’t need to
babysit an introvert and walk them through every single thing.
They’re happier learning on their own and handling it themselves.
This is why they are considered self-starters and are ideal candidates for creative teams.
In friendship and romance, don’t let this put you off.
Once you let them reflect inwardly, they will join with you outwardly.
#4.
Sincere Introverts can’t be bothered with fake personas.
They realize time is precious, so when they say something, they mean it.
They’re not going to sugarcoat anything.
While they will choose their words appropriately, they know there’s no sense in wasting everyone’s
time.
If you truly want an honest opinion about something, ask an introvert what they really
think.
#3.
Unique People When someone really stands out to you, chances
are, they’re an introvert.
They know that being people-pleasers isn’t the way to go.
They don’t constantly crave the attention an extrovert does.
Introverts don’t follow the latest trends unless they truly and deeply like it.
They don’t need to be in the center of everything that’s popular just because everyone else
is doing it.
They march to the beat of their own drum.
#2.
Stay On Point Introverts can tune out the hoopla and stick
to the task at hand, even in a busy office.
While they prefer quiet solitude for dreaming big, it’s this ability to focus and stick
to the task at hand that has made introverts the coveted workers around the office.
They’ll work until they get the job done and they’ll do it with perfect panache.
#1.
Listen When They Speak Uncomfortable silence?
Yeah, introverts don’t care about that.
Silence is golden to them, a place for those brilliant thoughts to burst forth and come
forth.
So when an introvert speaks, listen to what they have to say.
They don’t drone on and on pointlessly.
They will say what they need to say.
And most likely that will be what makes you listen the most, because you’ll be wondering
what else they’re thinking and yearn to learn more!
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