How do I get out of the friendzone?
A definitive girl magnet’s guide to never be in the friendzone again.
Step 1: Don’t get into the friendzone.
This probably goes without saying but a lot of guys I know get themselves into the friendzone
time after time and never learn from their mistake.
The easiest way to avoid the friendzone is to establish whether or not you will ever
want to be intimately involved with a girl when you meet them and then treat them accordingly.
If I don’t ever want to date a girl I meet, then I will just treat them like any other
friend and that’s it.
If I potentially want to get with a girl I meet then I won’t treat her like a friend
and hang out with her all the time without making a move and then go on the internet
complaining about why I’m in the friendzone
The point I’m making is, if you want to get with a girl, then ACTUALLY treat her
that way by playful touching, flirting, teasing, making moves on her, etc.
You treat girls you don’t like differently than girls you want to get with right?
At least I hope you do.
It’s always super important to make sure you set the tone for how your relationships/interactions
with a girl are going to be from the start.
NOT doing this is why guys get friendzoned, because they act too nice and don’t set
the flirtatious tone that you need to establish with a girl you like.
Otherwise she’ll just write you off as a friend and won’t think of you in a boyfriendish
way.
Aka YOU JUST ------ UP
In short, if you wanna get with a girl, go on dates with her, make a move on her,
flirt, etc. from the start.
Don’t wait 6 months without making a move and say “Hey, I’ve liked you this whole
time, wanna have ---?”
Like REALLY?
Let me make this clear though, you don’t need to have --- with EVERY girl you meet.
It’s OK to be just friends with girls you ----- -------.
Unless you’re this guy.
I have some advanced tips for you girl magnets out there on how to keep a girl interested
in you for a long time without making a real move on her but I’ll have to include that
in a part two so stay tuned for that.
Now if you’re already in the friendzone it’s typically impossible to get out but
sometimes it can happen if you use Step 2: which means you have to drastically change
the way she thinks of you.
If she already wrote you off as a friend and not a potential partner haha, then
you have to chip away at that friend label by doing things like treating her differently,
giving her less attention to make her chase you, dressing better, being flirtatious with
her, you get the idea.
This typically works best after you take a break from seeing/talking to the girl.
This works ideally if you have a vacation or something like that.
Essentially you want to go from being this guy to this guy.
Other ways you can become like that perfect specimen of man is date another girl to
make her jealous and make you look like the hottest kid on the block, throw a dope Project
X type party, get a really cool job, get really jacked, become captain of the football team,
and stuff like that.
Pretty much do something noticeably different that’ll make her look at you differently
and think of you as a more ------ guy.
Now as a disclaimer, you shouldn’t go try out for the football team to impress a girl
if you hate football.
All I’m saying is get noticeably or get noticed for something that YOU like doing.
NEVER under any circumstances do stuff you hate to impress a girl, it actually makes
her think of less of you because you let her walk all over you.
That’s it, now you know how to get out of the friendzone so since I told you this stuff
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If you want more advice or a part two then you better let me know in the comments.
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