Most everyone knows that INFJs are extremely gentle, caring, thoughtful, and supportive.
No one is foreign to their sensitivity when they are criticized, their perfectionist personality,
and their potential lack of assertiveness. Most people at least have an idea of who an
INFJ is and how rare they are.
However, there is a type of INFJ out there that is even more uncommon than an INFJ themselves.
today I’m talking about the top 7 signs that you are a heyoka INFJ and how they are
different from other INFJs. Let’s get into it.
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What is the meaning of the word heyoka? It is not English, not French, or Latin. In fact,
it is a Native American word that means sacred clown or fool. Before you think that you can
call your friend a heyoka for joking and being funny, let’s take a look at the context
behind this name.
The term heyoka is used by native Americans for the people who use jokes, humor, and witty
tricks to help people who are going through some kind of emotional Turmoil or dilemma.
Being a heyoka INFJ, they are extremely thoughtful when it comes to the other person’s emotions.
Just like other INFJs, they make sure that their words or humor don’t affect the other
Person adversely and don’t increase their pain.
An INFJ typically doesn’t use humor to help other people going through emotional pain.
Instead, they use extremely thoughtful, sincere, and well-articulated conversations that rarely
involve jokes or humor. An INFJ tends to walk on eggshells around a sensitive person and
keeps in consideration whatever might trigger them.
On the other hand, Unlike an INFJ, a heyoka INFJ is extremely good at knocking some sense
into other people. They aren’t afraid to use humor and their wittiness to make other
people view the same thing from a different point of view. Because of their relaxed approach
to every situation, they go through less emotional pain and dilemmas than other INFJs.
Now that we have a better understanding of the origin of the heyoka,
Starting things off for us today and the number 7 sign you are a heyoka INFJ is They are human
lie detectors.
One of the most important personality traits of the Heyoka INFJ is that they are extremely
good at knowing when someone is lying to them.
It's not just because they care so much about the truth, but their energy radar can pick
up on a lot of things. Lying is one of them. Heyoka’s can tell when someone isn't being
as sincere as they claim to be. They can also recognize when someone is trying to protect
themselves or cover their tracks by telling white lies.
Heyoka’s simply don't have time for it, to be honest. They'll definitely frustrate
people by calling them out on their lies, but they'll still make them think about their
actions in the end. Heyokas draw attention to a deficiency in
others that may be improved if they are prepared to confront themselves and make a conscious
effort to change. A heyoka will apply this strategy to everything
they do. It's what gives them such incredible healing abilities!
So if you immediately know that something is fishy or your friend is lying to you, then
I may have some news for you. This is a strong indication that you might be a heyoka INFJ.
Number 6 on today’s list is they can alter the thinking pattern of other people.
Changing the way a person thinks is extremely hard. It takes years of gradual convincing
and patience to make someone look at things in a different way. But not for the heyoka
INFJ.
They possess a unique ability to make people view things from a different perspective and
appreciate the things that they have and others don’t. The secret behind it is that they
don’t bore people with a long lecture, instead they use their witty nature and Teach a lot
in a few moments.
There's no point in lying to anyone when you're an empath like this. When you want people
to grow and improve themselves, that would be quite counterproductive.
People learn and evolve when they are told the truth. Humans have the potential to entirely
disregard information that can help them in their quest for knowledge, opting instead
to believe lies. It is the role of the Heyoka to expose these lies and allow the person
to see their genuine nature. Even if they don't want to hear it, an heyoka
often knows exactly what they do need to hear. Some people may be offended by their candor,
but will quickly realize how important it really was.
The 5th sign you might be a heyoka INFJ is they are old souls but young at heart.
You might think that since heyoka INFJ uses their humor to help other people heal, then
maybe they are obnoxious and non-serious all the time. This definitely isn't the case.
There are known to be old souls despite their playful nature.
Many Heyoka empaths have a childlike quality to them. This is not a terrible thing; it
simply means that they see the world through open eyes.
You have a childish wonder for the world and feel much younger than your true age if you
are a Heyoka empath. They enjoy daydreaming and are constantly
coming up with fresh ideas! This aids in the healing of others by allowing
them to see things in a new light and grasp what is truly essential in life.
Just because someone is humorous and has a relaxed approach towards different situations,
doesn’t necessarily mean that they are immature. The heyoka INFJ is the perfect embodiment
of that.
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Next up and number 4 today is heyoka INFJs use humor to help other people heal.
Sometimes, when you are going through emotional turmoil, long lectures or thoughtful conversations
aren’t what help you heal. At the end of the day, it might be something as unexpected
as a thoughtful joke.
One of the most unique qualities of heyoka INFJ and pretty much the reason why they are
different from a regular INFJ is their ability to teach other people valuable lessons, overcome
their emotional pain and heal by using humor.
They are extremely conscious of the thin line that lies between teaching someone a lesson
using humor and making fun of them or humiliating them. That is the INFJ in them.
Heyoka INFJs are not afraid to tell it how it is and to be honest about how they feel
about someone. They do it in a lighthearted manner, but it can be a bit much for some
people. Heyoka empaths can interrupt people's learned
cognitive systems by being witty and sarcastic. This method of connecting with others allows
people to unlearn what society teaches them and question the status quo.
Some people may find this overwhelming, while others will enjoy this aspect of a Heyoka
INFJ.
Starting our top 3 is Heyoka’s reflect other people’s emotions.
The Great Mirror is a Heyoka's spirit. What you see in a Heyoka when you connect with
them will show you what you need to work on in order to spiritually progress. The Heyoka's
mirror is one of emotion because your emotional reaction to them is what they reflect back
to you. For example, you may feel enraged after being
with one, believing them to be arrogant, yet the Heyoka's mirror is revealing your need
to be humble. Alternatively, you may experience intense affection, and the Mirror will once
again guide you along the path of self-love.
By displaying the alternative, the backward route, the Heyoka's gift is to restore balance
and liberate people. Heyokas carry the medicine of chaos, which has the ability to transform
people's life. This is a sturdy, forthcoming, and powerful
energy. It's an act of love that causes an interruption in the hopes of experiencing
progress. It is the medication that teaches us that the shadow remains hidden and that
looking into the mirror of truth is difficult.
In the runner-up spot and number 2 is they put other people before themselves.
Heyokas are highly caring people due to their empathetic talents. They want to look after
the people around them, even if they do so in unusual ways. Because of their creative
insights and emotional awareness, they make wonderful sounding boards.
Because heyokas can take on other people's emotions, they want to help people have better
and happier lives, and they will if they are actually allowed. Heyokas is known for putting
others' needs ahead of their own because they can't help but experience both outward and
internal emotions. They have a knack for helping people in unusual
ways, and they aren't afraid of a little tough love!
However, the majority of people are aware that everything a heyoka INFJ does is motivated
by a desire to help. At the end of the day, the heyoka INFJ’s
are INFJ’s. They are the best Advisors, Always ready to
help and Extremely thoughtful.
Topping our list and the number 1 sign you are a heyoka INFJ is People are sometimes
unsure of how to react to them.
I’ve already discussed how heyoka INFJs may rub others the wrong way.
They can do this by being honest, funny, or mirroring what others are trying to avoid.
However, people may push a heyoka away before they know they’re attempting to aid them.
It's not always simple for others to comprehend a heyokas intentions. Their approaches, in
contrast to those of other empaths who take a gentler approach to heal, can be highly
divisive. If you notice that people are afraid of you
despite your good intentions, it's possible that you're a Heyoka empath and they aren't
aware of it yet.
But what's most important is that a heyoka doesn't get discouraged by other people's
reactions. Yes, being pushed away or challenged by the exact people they wish to help can
be painful at times. But they know deep down that they're not going
to change their ways. Heyoka INFJs understand that their role in life is greater than just
making people feel at ease despite the fact that others are making no actual progress
in their lives.
The most significant takeaway today is that being a Heyoka empath is a unique gift.
They have the power to change people's lives and they don't even realize they're doing
it half of the time! Regardless of whether or not others agree
with their method or style, they must have faith in themselves and believe that their
spiritual connection is far stronger than they may even realize.
If you are a Heyoka yourself, embrace your Heyoka empath status!
You're meant to aid those who can't help themselves and do lots of good in the world.
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