This video is about = "Become a Peaceful Monster!" I'm going to show you how to actually become
a civilized peaceful monster in today's society, and for the rest of your life! To find out more,
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Here are the lessons on "How to Become a Civilized Monster,"
from Jordan Peterson. "The answer simple," he says "you don't! You become a monster by fighting a monster!"
A common misconception in our societies today, is that most people believe that
harmlessness is synonymous with virtue. People think because someone is incapable of cruelty,
he is more virtuous than someone who is. This is not true, Jordan Peterson likens the harmless to
a rabbit. "You're like a rabbit," he says, "a rabbit is not virtuous, it's harmless, it can do nothing
maybe even just get eaten... but if you're a monster and you show restraint, and not act monstrously
then you're virtuous!" Let's talk about the "toxic monster" = toxic people like narcissists for example
are chaotic monsters, destroying everything and anyone in their sight! They're like Godzilla
rampaging through the city, leaving no stone unturned! It does not back down, and even when
you least expect it, the monster destroys more and more, and causes more and more chaos and harm! Sadly
there's no reckoning with the toxic monster, no matter how many weapons and nuclear missiles we
fire to shoot it down. The toxic monster is really the true monster Jordan Peterson is referring to
that we must stand up to, the one that we've got to fight back with, but not with our fists,
or our hands, or even our words, or insults, or sentences, but instead with our actions. Remember
you always have a choice, and even when things seem dark and miserable, and there's no way out
there is still deep down = always a choice! A choice to stand up for yourself, for your family, for your
beliefs, for your morals, for what you truly, truly embody to be good! The peaceful monster recognizes
its enemies, or has some form of self-awareness, and instead of adding to the chaos, addresses
it in a more civilized, effective, powerful manner! Let's explore this a little further...
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There are monsters lurking in every family, either in the immediate family or extended...
Maybe you know exactly who I'm referring to when I mention "family" unfortunately. Maybe
it's that father who's emotionally neglectful, and treats you the worst... like the scapegoat
or the mother that's mentally unstable, she's so inconsistent and it gives you nothing but anxiety...
that sibling of yours who's green with envy no matter what you do they're gonna be jealous....
that auntie or uncle that hates you and your family, you can feel their cold presence and
gaze from like a mile away, or those cousins who so desperately want to see you fail...
they love hearing your misery, your mistakes, and they take pleasure in your pain...
There is one in every family unfortunately! How do you become a peaceful monster in your family?
Well there are certain steps that need to be taken, first ignore the illusion that family
is everything, and blood is thicker than water! Family (in my opinion) is just a title. I have
personal friends who I love, and have been way more supportive of me in my darkest times than family
have ever been in my entire life! There is no law or rule suggesting that you MUST be bound to your
family forever! There is no rule or law suggesting you MUST have to put up with their bad behavior!
So distance yourself = rather than ranting and raving and causing a fight, and just going
round in circles, start to distance yourself from these family members! Move out of your home, go
live abroad (if you must) or out of town! Socialize less, speak less, why not create your own family or
inner circle of friends or your new partner or spouse? The peaceful monster does this gradually
and they keep the monsters in their family well and truly at arm's length, exactly where they
should be, and exactly where unfortunately due to their own behavior...where they deserve to be...
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applies to friends too. As I'm sure you're aware, there are monster friendships out there!
Where it's all about them, and their problems, you do not matter, you're never heard. They don't
respect you, and certainly not your boundaries! They'll happily humiliate you and do whatever
they wish to get something from you, call you at all hours etc. They are trying to change you, they don't
like who you really are, and will never accept you! They adore creating drama, there's no such
thing as going out for "a relaxing peaceful evening." They will make you feel uncomfortable around them,
you're never going to be a true self, and always treading on eggshells being careful what you say...
They're unpredictable but in a scary way just like GodZilla, ready to rampage and create chaos!
They constantly put you down. They want to keep you beneath them. That's how they think! Guys, I've lost
friends in the past, I lost three best friends in the space of 10 years over different things...
and it hurt like hell, but each one of them were toxic monsters, each one of them were a combination
of all the things I've just said! Each one of them needed to be removed from my life! So walk away,
make friends with genuine people who want the best for you, it's really as simple as that! Stop wasting
your time with the wrong friend, because you'll never be good enough for them anyway. And you
could do this peacefully, you don't have to cause a scene, just stop taking their calls, block them if
you want, don't see them, don't socialize with them anymore, avoid talking to them, stop going to places
where they hang out (if you can), if it means that you stop associating with other people do that!
They'll eventually get the message, you don't have to cause a big scene... those three best friends (best
friends with toxic traits) = not one fallout! Not one argument! They'll get the message, the penny
will drop, and whilst they'll be lonely to begin with, and a bit sad it's the most important thing
you can do to becoming a peaceful monster, and regaining control of your mental health!
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Becoming a peaceful monster when it comes to dating, particularly modern and online dating
is not a simple feat. I was out of the dating game for years, I dated a narcissist for four years
and only became single again when Covid hit, and we were in lockdowns! Dating was really difficult
in those times and I was rusty as hell! I somehow managed to get a girlfriend briefly, but it didn't
last that long. I can only really speak from a man's perspective on this, but i have a really low
tolerance and threshold for people's BS, and sadly modern dating is riddled with it these days, from
the people that do ghosting for no reason, leave you on read, last minute cancellations (when you're
already there), people who are secretly married or actually have partners, people not up front about
their intention,s or people who don't look like their pictures, or people who lie about their jobs,
careers, businesses, people who lie about their backgrounds, even people who promise the world
and never deliver! I'd be honestly lying to you if I did not think dating has been
utterly draining and exhausting ever since I became single again in 2021! I've not
enjoyed it and found it to honestly be the most challenging part of my life, and that is because
in my conclusion = you're dealing with monsters again. Toxic, entitled, liars, rude, waste of time
monsters! I would love to tell these monsters how I feel, I love to show them how they've hurt me
and wasted my time and energy, but they feed off that drama, the argument, the chaos, they enjoy it!
Walk away. I know it hurts and it's hard, and trust me I used to love having a go at a person who wasted my
time, or had been caught out on their BS, but just delete their number, and say "all the best, good luck
with your dating," and so on. In a strange way... their monstrous behavior is a blessing. They may come
back with more interest, you might end up sleeping with them, but why waste your time? Seriously choose
people who choose you, and actually choose genuine people instead, to become a peaceful monster.
Learning to become assertive over aggressive is the secret ingredient = to becoming a peaceful
monster! Being assertive means having the ability to express your needs, and feelings
clearly and firmly, without disrespecting or undermining others! Assertiveness is a healthy
behavior that enables you to communicate in a pro-social manner. Assertive people
express themselves in a firm, direct, and positive manner! So how can we apply this to the monsters in
our lives, the family, the friends, the time wasting daters etc? If the need is felt to assert yourself
aka be a peaceful monster, you can do it calmly and collectively without shouting or raising
your voice, and then if they do not listen, simply walk away and give them the gift of your absence!
Silence is powerfully an assertive trait of the peaceful monster, so e.g. when family are being toxic
just say "I don't like being spoken to this way or treated this way, if you carry on like this
I'm gonna walk away and leave." To friends too "I've noticed you seem to talk down to me a lot, can you
kindly please stop doing that so we can move forward, and actually get on?"
To dates "I'd like to know where I stand please, you said one thing but then you've done another, and
I'm a bit confused? I'm not here to waste my time and energy on someone who might be playing games..."
MOST people like DR Jordan Peterson said "are rabbits, timid, quiet, they lie down and take
it, want people to walk all over them..." So instead be a monster, but a civilized and peaceful one
and just WATCH how much more confidence, happier and better results you get in your life...as a whole...