so if we take a look in the evolutionary psychology we can start to see patterns
that have developed of what women want in long term relationships in this video
I'm going to go over some core traits that women search for and find
attractive according to some theories in psychology now you don't have to believe
in evolution or even understand it but this video is going to use evolutionary
psychology to explain why women are attracted to certain things which have
actually been proven in many studies so I'm gonna give you five psychological
things girls look for in a guy the first thing we're going to talk about is that
women in general according to many psychology studies seek a man who is
able to invest the ability to invest means many things first off it means to
be financially sound which means you're more likely to get a date and keep
having dates if a girl knows that you do not struggle with credit card debt
student loans and at least make minimum wage she wants to find someone who she
can rely on both for herself in times of need but also in her potential
children's future so my best tip to increase this would be to start learning
as much as you can about money management some studies have said that
it's not the money that girls are attracted to but actually the abilities
and qualities of a man that knows how to obtain money such as ambition aggression
dominance and perseverance secondly being able to invest is other than money
it means investing your time and energy too but we'll talk about this later
the second thing women look for in a man is not only being able to invest but one
who is willing to invest you can prove you are willing to invest by buying a
girl things such as flowers and necklace and other common stereotypical gifts so
do you want to know why diamonds are used as proposal gifts well there's two
main reasons one diamonds are literally useless unless you're an engineer and
you want to cut something really tough secondly diamonds are very expensive so
what better way to show you're committed and invested in someone than to buy them
something that's super expensive but also useless thus the diamond now the
same reasoning works for flowers it shows that you're able and willing to
invest it's one thing to be able to invest but it's another thing to be
willing to invest and not only your money but your time energy and other
resources as well so are you willing to cut back on your time with the guys to
spend quality time with her in one study one of the highest-rated traits of a guy
who got more dates is that the girl knew the guy was willing to make future plans
with her are you going to spend less on lunch so that you can spend more on a
fancy dinner with her show her through your actions that you're willing to
invest in both of your futures the third thing women search for men is the
ability to physically and emotionally protect her and her future children
height and physical size is something that is hard to control but muscle mass
and fat percentages can generally be controlled with exercise and
weightlifting so here's your motivation to go to the gym
girls love physically fit guys because it means they are physically healthy
eligible for reproduction and can actually protect them in prehistoric
times girls wanted to pick a caveman who would defend them and according to
evolutionary psychology that thought process is still here as shown in
popular magazines with fit toned men catered for women I mean they don't show
overweight lazy guys for a reason lowered fat percentages and higher
muscle mass is more sexually attractive to a certain point and it's something
you can definitely work on something else closely tied to the ability to
protect her is bravery courageousness and emotional stability so make sure to
pay close attention to that as well it's not enough to be tone and fit if you
easily lose your temper or become aggressive when small things frustrate
you ask yourself if you were a girl would you feel physically and
emotionally safe around yourself the fourth thing is a little bit more
long-term but women are attracted to men who naturally show good parenting skills
traits like dependability emotional stability and kindness are positively
correlated to long lasting relationships work on sticking to your word because
being more dependable and trustworthy will actually increase your chances of
getting a date and keeping your girlfriend around longer emotional
stability and the ability to say cool and a pressure is another great trait
have you ever seen the guy who comes to the park and just has a blast with all
the small kids there now I don't mean like in a perverted way but he genuinely
cares for them and has a whole bunch of fun watch the women around when you see
that happen they are probably looking at and talking about that guy because it's
psychologically an attractive thing if he takes good care of their kids I'm
sure I'll take good care of our kids right the fifth thing I'm going to talk
about is super important and it's selecting a guy who is compatible girls
want guys who have similar values are around the same age and usually the same
personality so if you look at all successful marriages and I don't mean
just marriages successful marriages you'll find their values are very
integrated along with our personalities they will either be both super
determined or very laid-back super talkative or very homebodies now as we
are this far in the video I want to say that these are all generality
and not constants the information in this video I have gathered by reading
about four different psychology textbooks and about 10 other nonfiction
books on psychology and attraction so as a basic review to increase your
attractiveness based on what girls want one make a lot of money and manage it
well to spend your money and free time with her three get physically fit four
be a good parent and five it's actually out of your control but be similar to
her now there are actually a couple more things that girls look for in a guy and
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you