A time goes by, and we become taller, stronger, and more capable of doing new things and facing
new challenges.
And as a result of that, Many people carry the same mindset that mental, spiritual and
emotional growth happens in the same way.
But what a lot of people don't understand is that, we don't simply get better by just
living, yes of course, we might get more experiences and learn something new but thats insignificant.
Just because you are getting older, doesn’t necessarily means you are getting better at
handing your relationships or improving your spiritual life for example!
The real growth doesn’t happens accidentally.
Lets just take a look at practical real example, if you want to build up your body, you don't
simply assume that you will become a body builder just because you are getting older,
yes of course your muscles might get stronger but that won’t have any significant effect
on your body.
The only way to build up your body is through hard work and discipline, most importantly
you must have a very well practical plan to do that.
A diet plan, what you should eat and what you should not!
A work out plan, how many times a week will you be working out?
how long and what exercise exactly you will be doing?
And the more specific and practical is the plan, the higher are the chances you will
be in that goal!
Unsurprisingly, everything else works in the same way!
If you want to want to become a better person, you need a plan on how are you going to develop
yourself in different aspects of your life, financially, spiritually, mentally and so
on and so forth.
What I would recommend to do is to pick up 20 books every year in 4 most important aspects
of your life.
Pick up 5 financial books to understanding how to take a better care of your money, maybe
its the time to learn how to invest in the stock market or the real estate.
Read another 5 books to improve your social skills, learn to build better stronger relationships!
Definitely there are other ways that you can use to work on yourself besides reading books
(courses), but what matters at the end of the day, if you want to become a stronger,
smarter and wiser, you must Plan all the way to the end!
2.
Secondly, Consistency is the key
So the other day, I was looking for something in my computer and I accidentally can across
the first ever video I have created, I had a lot of fun watching it because it was absolutely
horrible, now I understand why no one wanted to watch that video at that time, and thats
the whole point!
As I started making more and more videos, I started getting better every time, of course
its really difficult to realize the difference after each video, but over a longer period
of time, you will clearly see it!
The idea is that, consistency is what will get you the results!
A lot of people email me that they want to start a youtube channel but they don't know
how to make videos, so was I, but as I started making more and more videos, I started learning
and improving.
Don't expect yourself to instantly get dramatic results, it always takes more time than you
think, what matters at the end of the day, is consistently learning and improving.
It doesn’t matter how talented are you.
It doesn’t matter how many opportunities you get.
If you want to grow, consistency is the key.
3.
And lastly, Learn From other peoples mistakes
People always say that you should learn from your mistakes and thats right!
but what its much smarter to learn from other peoples mistakes!
why would you repeat the same mistakes over and over when you simply can learn it from
people who have already done it.
If you try to learn everything by yourself, its going to take you a lot of time.
Thats why its always important to find mentors.
A lot of don't understand what does it means to find a mentor!
It doesn’t mean that, if you want to learn how to invest, you must convince Warren Buffet
to personally teach you how to step by step invest in the stock market!
Or if you want to learn coding, you need Bill gates himself to teach you that!
Thats not how it works, you just need to learn from someone who is 2 or 3 steps ahead of
you!
If you are starting your first business, nearly anyone who has build even a small tiny business
can give you a valuable advice!
In short!1.
Plan all the way to the end!
2.
Consistency is the key 3.
And lastly, Learn From other peoples mistakes
and now its your turn, what do you think?
what else would you add to this list?
Lets me know in the comments below!
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