oh my god i really wish we didn't have to make this video
it's okay i just wish it hadn't happened like this it's really annoying i know but they'll understand
hello everyone hi everyone welcome to our forest room yeah these are all of our plants that are
normally outside we've brought them in now we have a plant room it's like it's literally a
jungle in here we'll throw a picture in because i don't know if you can even see
90 of the plants that are here yeah this is like a calming relaxation room we have a humidifier we
have these like glow lights that give it the right whatever right sun yeah like fake sun whatever
they need to grow it's like an outdoor indoor room it's like a nice little relaxing spot in
here which is gonna be helpful it's going to be helping us stay calm during today's video yeah
uh we have some stuff that we have to tell you uh not loving the fact that we even have to tell you
but we feel like it's the right thing to do yeah this is all just a huge pain in the butt
and it's stupid yeah like when you finish watching it you're gonna be like well that's dumb. i hope
you will anyway um like many of the things that we have to tell you about and you know feel like
maybe we shouldn't this began because of a troll do you want to explain what happened sure a troll
i i think that calling them trolls is silly it was a person it gives them too much yeah yeah it gives
them an out okay so a person a human being a real person that exists in this world a real person
found shane's parents phone number and called them the day the day after our wedding yes
yes uh and screamed into the phone that they couldn't find our marriage license it wasn't
online they're like where's the marriage license yeah where’s the marriage license really freaked
out shane's parents understandably because that's a horrifying call to receive let alone the fact
that the day after the wedding there would never have been a marriage license available online
but you know shane's parents were like this is extremely disturbing please
deal with us. they called us and they're like hey you need to get your marriage license
you know figured out and i was like i'm sorry yeah that there are horrible people out there but like
yeah we're working on it. yeah so there was an issue with the marriage license and
you know this person was silly because there never would have been one online at
that point anyway but we had you know different information that there really was an issue and
when this person finds that out they're going to go you know possibly a step further than
just calling shane's parents right yeah so that spurred us to make this video with you guys so we're
going to tell you what's going on yeah and why uh you know things didn't come out the way we planned
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okay so in order to understand what happened you need to understand how getting a marriage license
and like getting legally married works yeah i don't know if it's all the same in every state
or country i'm assuming no but do you want to explain kind of like what the process was
i like the tail that you got there Chloe girl i'm glad you're happy but you need to i don't know if
she's happy she's like semi growling out the window she sees a squirrel i think okay marriage
license process okay so here in minnesota you i think normally you do this all in person yeah but
during the pandemic they have a new program where you can do it all remotely which is what we chose
to do because we didn't want to have to go into the courthouse you know pandemic so what we were
supposed to do was fill out or email them this is very strange email them our name and the date of
the wedding yep and then they will contact us with like a form to fill out that we print out yeah and
send in to them and get notarized yes we have to get it notarized and fill out like all the info about
who we are and like prove who we are exactly so after you send in that packet of information
they have uh i think like five to seven days to send you the request for a marriage certificate
or whatever yeah which you then fill out again with your officiant signing it yes you have your
officiant sign it, you have you sign it you have your witnesses sign it and then you send that in
and then five days later or whatever they send you back your actual marriage license yes two
important things here one can you do number one if i could move my arms i think I would be so
physically expressive yeah because i'm always like hey
marriage over Zoom with our officiant we had to physically send her the marriage certificate
this added days of mail time where our marriage certificate was just out there
in the mail yeah moving back and forth between the people that it needed time go to yeah two
i love it two there is a very important rule that your marriage license completely filled out signed
by all the correct people must be submitted to the county within five days of your marriage date
tricky tricky tricky when you're trying to mail it across the country yeah which we realized uh when
it was you know the day before our wedding and we finally got their certificate in the mail we were
like we are not going to get this back from our officiant in time to then send it to minnesota
right yeah or to the to the government yeah yeah just to get it everywhere it needed to be yep so we left the
date blank when we sent it to our officiant yeah because we were like if we write the day on this
and it's we don't get it back in time now we have to start over and to make a long story short
the certificate didn't get where it needed to be in time and so we were not able
to put the day that we got married september 4th as our legal yeah wedding day yep um that
wasn't a big deal to us no we were like yeah whatever like we we had to redo
the official part of the ceremony again on that the day that we wrote down just to make it you
know legally binding and everything and you know on the up and up yeah um but like we were like oh
we'll just move the day yeah and september 4th is still the day that we're going to consider
our wedding yeah but it's not the day that is on our marriage license so you want to tell them
one day is on the marriage license i think all of you should now guess in the comments below
we picked uh we just picked a day that we liked yeah and we picked october 1st so we waited
until october i decided that i wanted october now there's a reason for this our wedding next year
is not in september uh september 4th was not available and so we have it at a different time
uh therefor... our vow renewals just to not confuse them yeah our big i mean it was supposed to be
our wedding that's when i'm gonna wear like you know the dress i had originally picked
and we're going to have all of our family and friends there so it'll be a like a one-year-ish
vow renewal but that is going to be in august so now we have august september and october i
thought that was a little bit funny i don't know and hannah and i this year i've been really into
the whole like halloween october spirit it's always been my favorite month i love october
and so we were like you know what since this got messed up like since this is a little bit
annoying let's pick a day that is like fun yeah so october 1st will now always be our legal wedding
marriage day so if you are a creepy person and you are researching our marriage license it will
say october 1st it's there just so you know uh but october 1st is our official legal day yes and like
we made the title of this video about lying... like we didn't lie and obviously any reasonable
person watching will be like oh we get it but uh but that person that called shane's parents will
definitely think they're be a lie this title was a hundred percent for them so that they would like
exhale oh my goodness what is going on here and then i knew it text all their little minions
um anyway that's what happened uh i think it's great that we're gonna have like 19 different
anniversaries yeah i think we should keep changing it every year and that kind of happened to us when
we first started dating which i think is cute oh this is funny yeah i mean it's true we've never
had a hard and fast anniversary because we have the day that we met like the day that we first
exchanged text and face time right um that was that kind of when our relationship began because
we you know we weren't like friends for a couple weeks first we were immediately like oh my god
i'm obsessed with you you're like oh this is real yeah and then like two weeks later we said i love
you so we have that anniversary if you want to consider that our beginning of our relationship
and then uh two months after that we officially started dating because we met in person and
shane wanted to wait until then to like ask me in person but we had already said
i love you two months previous so it's just the beginning of our relationship is very you know
nebulous yeah it's tricky it's like you can't nail down the exact day i think it’s kind of it matches
our relationship we're not people who are like real big about dates yeah you know we're not like
this is our anniversary we need to make this extra special yeah i mean we forgot about it this year because we
were like you know it's hard to know what day so you know around four years whatever yeah but now
october 1st that's the easy day to remember it is i think we're always going to remember the day
we got officially officially married but september 4th will always be like our anniversary day
yeah so i don't know what days we'll celebrate on probably both yeah there's just more days
to celebrate it is so you have to give us presents for both each day and also the the vow renewal day
i will also count as another day three times a year all of you are required to celebrate
our anniversaries our anniversaries we should get divorced and then remarried on another day
november maybe we'll celebrate divorce day celebrate the new anniversary
so that's what’s going on super annoying but whatever it's it's fine you know personally it's fine we
just worried between you and me we don't care at all we don't care yeah it's just you know when
people start calling our parents it's frustrating yeah and like googling our marriage license
yeah the things that you go through being like a semi-prominent youtuber so funny
a mid-level youtuber mid-level b- b- b- b-list b-list all right goodbye