- [Mithrilda] Hey, Psych2Goers.
Welcome back to another video.
If you're new here, welcome.
Have you ever wondered
if your crush was attracted to you?
Sometimes people's behavior can give away
how they really feel about you.
So with that in mind,
here are six signs
that somebody might
be secretly attracted to you.
Number one, they gaze at you and make eye contact.
Have you ever noticed when somebody
is holding their gaze on you?
Eye contact is a powerful gesture
and studies have shown
that you are more drawn to someone
based on their gaze's direction and smile.
This may be why you might find someone
trying to hold your gaze
since it's an attempt
to form a lasting impression
and a deeper connection with you.
Experts from the University of Sterling
and the University of Wolverhampton
have even cited in a study
that making eye contact
can help people remember you better
long after you've talked to them.
- [Amanda] Do you struggle
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- [Mithrilda] Number two, they will mirror or mimic you.
Have you ever noticed
someone copying your movements
when you're talking to them?
You could be sitting with your legs closed
or playing with your hair
and they'll mirror those movements the same.
This is called the mirror neuron system.
It can happen consciously and unconsciously,
but it's a way for people
to show that they understand
and share how you feel.
It can help produce a positive feeling
for the other person
and help further establish the bond between you.
And it's not limited to just body movements.
For example, if you have a preference
for a certain color of clothing,
they may show up wearing
something in that color as well.
Number three, they might initiate physical contact.
According to behavior analyst, Jack Schafer,
women may lightly touch the arm
of someone they're talking to
to indicate that they like them.
It's important here
to know that this light touch
is not an invitation to a sexual encounter,
but a way to show that she
may be secretly attracted to you.
For men, they may act more playful
and put their arm around your shoulder.
Just remember, everyone responds to touch differently.
So if they pull away from you,
then they may be feeling uncomfortable
and you should probably take it
as a sign to avoid initiating
any further physical contact
unless prompted to.
Number four, they might change their body presentation.
Do you notice them posing strangely?
People alter their body language
depending on who they are around.
And they may not even
know they are doing it.
Both men and women
alter their body language
by standing taller,
pulling their shoulders back,
and sucking in their stomachs.
A study found that having
an open or expansive posture
can make you more attractive
since it hints at dominance.
That's why people who stand or sit in that way
appear more attractive.
So the next time you see
them strutting their stuff,
it is possible that
they are trying to impress you.
Even if they don't consciously
know it themselves.
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- [Mithrilda] Number five, they get flustered or jealous
when you talk about another
potential love interest.
Have you ever noticed your crush
or one of your close friends
acting weird, flustered or angry
when you're talking with someone else?
According to Bustle,
jealousy can be a sign of attraction.
In reaction to seeing you
talking to someone else,
they may become upset
or question you
about this other person
to see how you feel about them.
In this case,
they may act in the moment
and ask you out or do the opposite
if they think they no longer
have a chance to be with you.
Ultimately, if you want clarity,
the most effective way
is to talk to them
and see how they feel about you.
Number six, they want to spend more time with you.
Do they like to make plans with you?
One of the biggest signs
that someone finds you attractive
is when they try to be with you
as much as possible.
Take a moment and consider
how much time they want
to spend with you.
How much they text you
or initiate contact with you.
If you notice that
this is happening more often,
then there may be a strong connection
between you both.
At this moment,
you should ask yourself
if you feel the same way about them.
Otherwise, you may be potentially
leading them on without
being fully aware of it.
Have you noticed any of these signs
in the people you know?
Let us know in the comments below.
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