- Hello there, and welcome.
You know, last May we did a video on Paradigms 101.
And we talked about paradigms
and how they're formed
and how they impact your life.
Well I want to take you a little bit further right now
and I want to talk to you about how paradigms are changed.
This is such an important subject
that I think it should be taught to every student
at a very, very early age at a very early grade
because paradigms literally control people's lives.
And when you see people talking about being frustrated
and I get so sick of living the way I'm living,
it's your paradigm that's bringing it all about.
And they know nothing about it.
Stop the average person on the street
or maybe somebody, a relative or a friend
that you're talking to in the next phone call,
say, do you know what a paradigm is?
Ask them to explain it to you.
Paradigm's a very, very broad word.
Did you know that countries have paradigms?
Countries do, families do.
Families have paradigms.
The company you're working for has a paradigm.
And I have one and so do you.
Paradigm is a conditioning.
You could call it culture
in so far as a country's concerned
or a company or a family.
It's the culture of that company
or that particular country.
That's what a paradigm is.
It's our habitual way of perceiving
all things, of doing, of acting,
of living the way we're living.
Our paradigm controls what we eat.
Now think, the paradigm is the program
in your subconscious mind that controls your behavior.
What you know doesn't control your behavior,
your conscious mind, you've got all this knowledge,
you know how to do a better job,
but you're not doing it.
We know how to do things.
Parents say, why are you doing that,
the kid says, I don't know,
and their kid doesn't know.
And the parent doesn't know
'cause the parent doesn't understand paradigms.
So they say the child knows,
but they're not doing it.
The parent knows but the parent's not doing it,
the salesperson knows,
but the salesperson's not doing it.
The student knows,
but the student's not doing it.
See, the paradigm is the program
in the subconscious mind that controls the behavior
and produces a result.
Now, it's the result we say that we don't like.
Let's suppose a result is that you sleep in every morning,
you just have a terrible time getting up.
And if you're sleeping in if your always late,
that causes all kinds of problems socially and mentally,
it's just not good.
But that's a result.
You sleep in everyday.
You hit the snooze button
and you go back to sleep.
Now, I'm going to tell you what I want you to do.
I want you to put the alarm clock
a long ways away from the bed.
And before you go to bed,
you make up your mind you're going to
do something before you go to sleep.
As you're going to sleep you say
tomorrow morning when I wake up, I get up,
when I wake up, I get up.
That's just the way it is.
Tomorrow morning when I wake up, I get up.
Now, that's a command you're giving to yourself.
And go to sleep with that in your mind.
Tomorrow morning when I wake up, I get up.
Now, you got to get up to turn the alarm off,
so you stay up.
When your feet hit the deck,
you stay that way.
When you wake up, you get up.
Now, by doing that over and over
a number of days in a row,
maybe a week, two weeks, three weeks, four weeks,
you're going to change the habit pattern.
When you change the habit pattern,
you've changed the paradigm.
So you started with the results you want
and you say what's causing it?
And you change the cause of the result.
So instead of saying I love to sleep in,
I'm going to hit the snooze button, uh uh.
I'm getting up.
When I wake up, I get up.
When my feet hit the deck,
I'm staying up.
And that's the way it is.
So you take a look at the results you don't like
and you change the cause, you change the behavioral pattern.
Then work on another one.
You shouldn't try and change more than two at a time.
It's a little heavy.
You change your paradigm,
you'll change your life.
I changed mine.
I went from struggling to success,
I went from being broke all the time
to becoming very wealthy.
If I can do it, you can do it.
If I can do it, anybody can do it.
Do it.
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