The last group date I didn't actually get anyone at one time
which was not only shocking but
Showed me how much I'm fully invested in this because I do value every single moment that I have with her
Chris has been freaking out since he didn't get the one-on-one time with Becca at the cocktail party
It does the show like his true colors are coming out
It's like I don't know if she's seen that side of him yet
But now I just think it's a matter of time before something like that happens again
If someone pushes his buttons, I definitely think he'll blow up
How's it going
Good good to see you all look so nice. I
Want to first just start by telling you guys?
That I am so thankful to have had such an amazing week with all of you. You truly really made Vegas
So so special. I'm not gonna lie
Yesterday was very frustrating it took a toll on me
And obviously you guys know that both Jordan and David went home
But I want to put that in the past and I don't want that to take away from tonight
So I just wanna have fun and spend the best night with you guys
Chris can I grab you for a second? Yeah, I am a little confused with Chris right now because
During the after party after the group date
he didn't try to come see me and
I found out that he made comments to other guys about not wanting to be here and not knowing if he should be here
Where we going over here? Yeah. I don't know where his head's at right now and so tonight
I really wanted to sit down and ask them about that the cocktail party the other night
He had every right to get up and try to steal some time, but he sat back
It was like I'm not gonna get time. I'm not gonna get to talk to her
It was one night one night where things didn't go his way
He didn't get to speak to Becca
And he immediately started freaking out and saying he wanted to go home and that's just that's not something
I personally want to see in a partner. I don't think Becca wants to see that in a partner. I
Want you to truly think about
Really at the end of this like, can you see it with me? Do you want it with me? Can you
Make it 50/50 every day put in the effort every single day because that's what I want. And I'm gonna do that for my partner
That's something I don't need to think about
Well, I do I'm not gonna lie I do you've given me a lot that I need to process and think about and so
Like I don't I don't think you realize like how much I like you
like well when that happens
I don't see that I don't see that you like me because there's nothing no
Action and then I hear things that are being said and so I'm piecing it all together being like what's going on
I'm like looking at you right now and telling you that I wouldn't be here
If I didn't think I want to be with you, you know, I'm gonna go
He's not getting frustrated and I could warm up to wanna get like super worked up. All right now, I'm sorry. Yeah
For me going home would never cross my mind and I think for you to your point golden stuff right now
She left without him damn a something happened boys
She's not
Now you do one thing wrong and
The way she looked at me was not like the same way she looked at me like a week ago and that kills me
It's sad man
It really is
Obviously that combo didn't go like up to plan. I was not expecting that like what?
It just hurt me to see her like think that I
Want to leave which I don't
If I wanted to leave I would have had already left
I would have made a decision and I would have left but I didn't because I actually really like this girl
Like a lot and she's doubting me
Because I think that night you let the emotions get the best right the kind I think for her like looking for a partner
She wants somebody that's emotionally stable. So that's like something like to move forward from and not go back
Man I saw the look in her eye
disgust I looked at her and like how like she won't even look at me like in my eye like
up
You know, it's the worst part is the fact that like
From the moment, I stepped out of the limo. I
Gave it my all
You want to have a partner that's
emotionally stable and if he's showing that he's not
Emotionally stable just from like a group date and like not getting time at a cocktail party
I mean if Chris wants to go down in flames and
He's already going down in flames slowly
I'm a firm believer and not giving up and so here I am in
A situation where I can either walk away right now
Or I can be a man and fight for what I want and show this girl that I'm a hundred percent serious
I don't want to sit here and just wait and just hope that everything goes good and
I'll take action. Yeah, I'm such a nerd like that do
Both cool nerds just because you're in there doesn't mean you know, cool like
Yeah
That's amazing. Absolutely baby, you know guys
So, can I steal you away we just sat down?
Can't just steal you away though. You just sat down you just said yeah, really Samantha. No, really
Well as do you mind if I just dealer it's very important
Like
I'm sorry, man. I'm gonna give you two minutes. I'm gonna come back
Let's go with you. Yeah two minutes. I appreciate it. I'm sorry. I'm at
Home again, hello
I
just I had to come back and talk to you because
That other talk just didn't sit right with me and I think it's important that if this is something that we both believe in
That we got to be on the same page
And I want you to really understand we're all coming from I kind of understand what took place
The other night as far as my behavior, it was definitely unwarranted
in the moment for like that brief hour - I was completely
Petrified because the fact of how I felt a bunch at that point and I needed to really understand
What I thought my guy
Brother I was like a minute you've already spoken to her night man. I know but do me a favor. Well disrespect me
You had your time tonight. I'd like to have my time as well and I'm saying I understand that but well
It's like this is legitimately like serious
Times less serious. No it is and I respect your time 100%
Wells can I please have something I gave you two minutes ago? I understand that I'm gonna ask you player to get up
Both I can't get like a couple more men no
Tonight I'd like to have my time as well Wells can I please have something I gave you two minutes me? I understand that
I'm gonna ask you politely to get up
Both I can't get like a couple more minutes
You I'll come talk to you
I'll come find you well
You can't just leave for five minutes
No, I understand why you're being but I stand by my word and if I say, I'll come find you. I'll come find you
Yes, probably, you know just
Drama-free, you know
Carefree just can't be smiling on your face
I was like, you're sure I can't have like a few more minutes because like this is important
He said no you just stood there. No, I don't feel like I got my point across yet at all
Did you get a chance to talk things out with that good? Yeah, just a lot of things to figure out
She told me she was gonna come and find me
I'll be waiting
We'll just finished and here's what they're for long
Don't hide a smile with the yawn
So baby, oh you saw me I mean, I don't know come on man
what I
Mean you got mad at me, bro. I think it met
I was just I mean I didn't disrespect your I didn't know how long you were out there for so I never said you disrespect
But I don't know Paul I don't know man
I feel like if everyone's gonna try to attack me for I'm not attacking you
I have no problem with you talking to her
But you also have to understand I was talking to her for maybe a minute and a half. I had no idea
Home saying I never said you disrespect me. I never got upset I even left and let you have a couple minutes
I was like 40 seconds. I didn't have to get up at all
I handle it the best I could I'm proud of the way I have Lou that's just Lee
That's how you feel - how you feel
So
I'm gonna go on wills offensive here
No, no, I'm not like attacking anybody
But I'm just saying in a sense that I haven't even had time with her
Connor or John and you already had your one-on-one time with her?
So like for if you were to come in and it was me sitting over there no idea, huh? I know idea
Yeah, but you already had your one-on-one time with her right? So you do have an idea
It sounds like everyone's getting all defensive and worked up and thinking like I'm attacking them
Please but everyone's acting like a victim now like and I understand tensions are getting tight
Like we're getting deeper in this but she told me that I wasn't aggressive
I think the biggest thing is put yourself in our shoes bottom line. Okay, and if you
Okay, I have okay but put yourself in our shoes we're trying to so build relationship as well, yes
Right, well you did and that's fine and I respect that you're fired up
You have every right to be fired up, but guess what? I'm fired up, too
And if I chose to go ahead and speak to her at that point in time
Then I'm gonna go ahead and talk to her and if you guys don't like it then that so be it
I can't sit here and act like everything's all good and dandy and just watch everyone go ahead and just keep talking
When I know that there's me. There's things that need to be said I
Got to look out for myself, and that's just it
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