- His dream partner and soulmate has dark space
between her nostrils.
Wait, what?
Hi, my name is Naza, and welcome back to my channel.
I am so, so happy to have you here with me today,
because today is part four,
the long-awaited part four, to my Manifesting Love series.
Yay, I can't wait to share this with you.
If you haven't seen parts one through three,
be sure to go watch those.
I'll link them for you in the description down below,
and I also have a playlist,
so you can watch through that playlist.
Okay, tell me if you have ever done this,
because I definitely did this.
I thought it was the right way to use the law of attraction
for manifesting love, and it was not,
but this is what every single law of attraction teacher,
guru, whatever you want to call them out there.
Editing Naza here.
Why am I being so sassy?
(laughs)
Anyways, the point is that there's a lot
of misinformation out there about how to manifest love
from a specific person, or from your soulmate,
or from the person who is meant for you.
Okay, so when I was researching for this video,
I found this blog of this person
who listed so, so, so many traits
that they wanted for their ideal dream partner.
They even listed traits as specific
as their dream partner having dark space
between their nostrils.
Now there's no right or wrong.
We're all entitled to want what we want in a dream partner,
but this person, just like most of us,
is forgetting one really key important thing
when it comes to manifesting
and attracting your dream partner,
soulmate, and specific person, and here is what it is.
Years ago, before I met my now husband,
who I am so grateful for,
that I'm pointing here because of my ring,
I used this technique,
and I thought it's what I was supposed to do,
but it just kept resulting in failed results.
So the traditional technique teaches us
that we should list out all of the characteristics
and traits of our ideal dream, perfect, specific person,
and from there, what we'll be able to do is focus on that,
and attract that person into our lives.
So here's an example.
You might say something
like someone who is tall, and handsome, and funny,
and has a good job, and has X number of dollars
in his salary per year, whatever the traits,
characteristics that you desire, you write it down,
and I did this.
I did this 10-plus years ago,
and let me tell you, it did not work.
Have you ever tried this?
If you have, let me know in the comments down below
if it worked for you or not,
but I have a theory about why it didn't work,
and I'm going to tell you what to do instead
if you've tried this technique,
and it also didn't work for you.
If you only knew how obsessed I've been
with the idea of true love my entire life,
oh my goodness.
Every single password I used to have was L-O-V-E.
I believe in love.
My soulmate is coming.
True love is mine.
All of these really funny, silly things.
If you're also a hopeless romantic, give this video a like.
So before I met my husband, I used this exact technique,
and I listed out all of these characteristics,
and actually, the list that I just read out was my list.
And what is crazy is I manifested someone who was identical
to what I wrote down, everything.
I wrote that I wanted them to be tall, check,
green eyes, check, brown hair, check, educated.
He had finished his Master's.
He was doing his PhD, check,
made me laugh, check, but you know what?
As much as this person made me laugh, they also equally,
or maybe more, made me cry.
And I didn't realize
that I had manifested exactly what I had written down
and I thought I wanted, but I was doing something wrong,
because it wasn't my perfect dream person.
So what did I do wrong, and what are we all doing wrong
by using this technique?
Well, let me tell you.
We are forgetting the reason why we want all
of these traits in our dream partner,
in our specific person, in our soulmate.
We want someone with all of these traits,
not just because, but because we believe it's going
to make us feel a certain way.
Now if you've spent any time on my channel,
you know that I am so passionate about incorporating emotion
into our manifesting, because emotions are the key.
They are the secret to everything
when it comes to manifestation,
and also when it comes to utilizing the power
of our brain to attract what we want.
So are you ready?
Here's what we're going to do instead,
and this is going to work so much better,
and this is how I manifested my husband.
And I can't wait for you to try this out,
because I am just so excited to hear
about how well it works for you too.
So I've created this fillable PDF specifically just for you,
so we can go through this exercise together,
and there are two options for how you can use this.
The first option is you can click the link down below,
and you can get your very own copy of this PDF,
and you can purchase it for a small amount,
and if you have the means, it would be wonderful
if you downloaded the PDF and follow along with me,
but at the same time, I completely understand
that we are all in very different places
in our lives in terms of our manifesting,
especially when it comes to manifesting finances.
So if you don't have the means, that's totally okay.
I am going to show you this exact PDF in this video,
so all you have to do is watch the video,
get yourself a pen and paper, and just follow it through,
and you could have it totally for free.
Okay, so I'm going to jump into a screen recording,
so we can go through this powerful exercise together.
Let's get right into it.
(clicks tongue)
All right, so here is the downloadable PDF,
and I must say I am so incredibly proud
of myself and my team for creating this.
I just think it's so beautiful,
and we just put so much time, love,
and care into this for you,
and I just can't wait for you to get your hands on this.
So inspired by this quote, which is one of my favorites,
I encourage you to let go of the past,
and approach this exercise with me today
with an open heart and an open mind.
So what we're going to do is we're going to start
with the traits, which is the traditional LOA exercise
for manifesting love,
but then we're going to expand on this,
and we're going to focus on how we want to feel,
and this is the key.
So if you've purchased and downloaded your own version
of this PDF, you can go ahead
and do each step with me as we go through it together,
and if you're just following along with this video,
that's okay too.
Just go ahead and grab your journal and pen,
and write out everything that we're doing together.
So step one is to go through this list of traits,
and select your top 10 traits of your dream ideal partner.
If you've downloaded this, you can go ahead
and put little hearts beside each one,
or circle it, or whatever you like.
I'm doing this on my computer today,
so I'm just highlighting the ones that I chose.
And then you're going to want
to scroll down to the next page,
and here is where you can summarize
and list your top 10 ideal traits.
Now, step three is the most important.
What we're going to do is we're going
to go back to our ideal traits,
and we're going to select one key emotion
that we believe we will feel when we have a partner
who has that particular trait.
So for example, I chose the trait of appreciative.
A partner who is appreciative
will make me feel seen and heard,
and I've created these cute little boxes where you can check
and put a star beside each emotion you choose.
Okay, so now what you're going to do
is go through each trait,
and connect each trait to one emotion from the list.
So for example, someone who is committed
will make me feel safe and secure.
Someone who is funny will make me feel joyful.
And what you may find is
that many of the traits actually map
onto a single or a couple of similar emotions.
So for example, a partner who is a good communicator
and a good listener,
both of those traits will also make me feel seen and heard.
Amazing work.
All right, and step four, the final step,
is to create your manifestation statement.
So here it says, "My dream partner makes me feel..."
and you're going to list out all
of those emotions you just selected,
and what you can do is come back to this often.
Read this and reread this statement as often as possible,
and focus on the emotions, and forget about the traits,
and be open to manifesting someone
who will make you feel these wonderful things.
And that was the exercise.
I want you to use this technique
when you're manifesting love,
and be sure to focus on the emotion,
and you will just be so shocked, amazed,
and surprised at how well this works.
I can't wait to hear from you,
and hear about how this goes for you.
Thank you so much for being here
with me for another week, another video.
Sending you so much love, and like always,
see you in the next one.
Mwah!