- Over and over I see ladies playing hard to get games
and being arrogant and disrespectful to their guy
and calling it high value.
Well, let me tell you this.
It is not high value and in this video, I will share
with you the five most common mistakes that women make
in practicing to be a high-value woman.
Please make sure not to do these mistakes
as instead of him making you into a serious girlfriend
or marry you, he could potentially dump you.
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So without further ado, let's continue
with mistake number one.
You're always own a phone but you take at least
three hours to reply whenever he texts
because you don't want to come across too available
or are playing hard to get or trying to be a challenge.
Ladies, this is a game.
High value is not about playing games.
High volume is about having a life and doing
the right thing with your life.
If you don't want to come across too available
or you want to be a challenge, that is fantastic
but this is not how it is done.
In order for things to be high value
it needs to come naturally and not be a game.
For example, if you are working
or at a fitness class, naturally you will not pick up
your phone and he will get one, two, or more hours
waiting for your text.
But there will also be times when you are available
and can respond to him much sooner.
Do not play games because if he is looking for something
genuine he will sniff his game ASAP and it will be over.
Or he will, that's a basketball sign, or he will play
I have a game in response to this and your relationship
will take the path of games, tension, and drama.
Number two, being arrogant and cold.
Nothing is ever good enough.
So for example, he took you on a date
but you aren't happy with it as it was not up
to your standard and he didn't do it just how you wanted it.
So now you are behaving arrogant and ungrateful
because it's not good enough.
You expect him to apologize or step it up.
But what he does instead is ghost you
because if he's a man with self-respect,
he thinks about, okay, if you don't like what I give
I won't give it to you anymore.
You might argue with me and say,
but if I'm not happy with how much he gives
can I not complain?
Well a person needs to give you freely.
If what he gives you is not good enough for you
than you let him go.
If it's not up to your standard, for example.
However, if he is open and asks you
what is it that you like I will do it
just how you like me to do it.
Then you tell him what you like, he does it,
and everyone is happy.
But if he doesn't ask and does it by himself
and instead of appreciating his efforts, you get arrogant,
very likely it is not going to go down well.
Number three, disrespectful.
Some women treat each man with this respect
and call it high value.
High value is about having values.
It's in the name, and life, treating yourself
and others with respect.
When ladies behave disrespectful to the other person
and call it high value, it literally makes me cringe.
For example, a man is on the way to pick you up for a date.
At a last minute, you change your mind and cancel the date
while he is half way or nearly there,
thinking that is is very cool to do that
'cause you behaving like a challenge.
I don't think so.
Then you don't understand why he ghosts you
and never asks you for a second date.
Well it's because it is rude, disrespectful,
and inconsiderate what you just did.
High value is about respecting and valuing yourself
and others, not about being disrespectful.
And if you want to be a challenge for a man,
that's fantastic, but you need to make sure
that you understand what I mean by being a challenge
and in order to actually get it and nail it,
please check out my video right here.
Number four, you are focusing how to play more games
in order to get more attention from him.
A lot of women pretend to be high value
in order for a man to pursue them.
So for example, instead of focusing on their life goals
we focus on a man, but pretend to him
that we focus on their life goals.
So be focus on a man in a way that it's not obvious.
For example, we look online on how to play more games
on him to get more attention from him.
And we fall into a trap of playing more and more games.
For example, we don't respond to his messages quickly.
Sometimes we ignore him for a while, act disinterested.
But actually in the meantime stalk all
of his social media accounts and non-stop chat
about him to our female friends.
Ladies, this is not high value
as there is again, no value-invested behavior.
You're actually focusing on drama
and not valuable things in life.
And yes, you should understand the games
in order to protect yourself and to be able
to handle it in the appropriate ways.
And that is exactly why I have a game video for sale
which I will pin as a comment under this video below.
But looking for the games to play in order to get
the attention is not high value, it is actually low value.
You're wasting your time looking for drama,
attention, and ego strokes from your man.
Whereas instead you could be investing your precious time
in doing something valuable with your life.
Number five, you never text him first, ever.
Ladies, a lot of men will test you,
Do you ever text him first?
And if you see that he is pursuing, he is showing interest,
he sounds genuine and you do really like him.
Then yes, for sure you should text him first sometimes.
Saying that, it is very important to get the timing right.
So you do not pursue him when he is ignoring you
for example, or when he is on a pull away or after
he has been disrespectful to you as if you
will text him first or call him first.
After he gave you negative behavior,
the last thing you want to do
is rewarded it with your texts.
And this is why I also have a texting video for sale
which I will drop together with the game video
as a pinned comment under this video.
So ladies, these were the five most common mistakes
that women make when we try and practice to be high value.
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And have a beautiful day, kisses from Dorset.